Should I work on myself before pursuing a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I am 32 years old and never have a girlfriend in every sense of the word. I lack confidence, too needy and lots of other insecurities.

[The_Maphio]

Quite so. Somebody who doesn't accept themselves for what they are or can't recognize having sides of them that are not suitable for a long term romantic relationship are not going to be long in the relationships world.
You recognizing you might have to fix some sides of you to get in the "market" is a great thing already.
Work on the issues you recognize having and you'll see that once fixed you'll get the confidence you say you're lacking. From there on, it's not as hard as it usually sounds anymore.
Make sure you don't get with somebody who reflects the first paragraph of this opinion, though. For such a person will bring you down again.

[Asker]

I don't know i have so many insecurities i wouldn't know where to begin.

[Xyglo27]

Yeah obviously!! 🙄

Go on Youtube & search 'How to become a high value man'

On Youtube you'll find a lot of videos that'll help you level up & become a better man.

As you become a better man, you'll attract better women & you'll much more options to choose from.

Stop wasting your life & start improving!!
😤😤

[IHateBeingaMan]

well its a fact that men have to do a different type of work on themselves than women do in order to be attractive to the other sex, its a reminder of my lifelong hatred towards the social dynamics of dating/attraction/seduction, oh well, can't do anything about it

[Anonymous]

No, just find a crazy chick that can deal with your problems.

[Anonymous]

Another reminder of something I can't stand