So I’m 24, and I’m still working on getting my life together with a career I enjoy. And I live with my brother in the mean time because the school I’m going too makes it impossible to keep a job even though I can only work a day (it’s only temporary). I have future plans within next year to make a lot of money for me to afford a house on my own (without a girlfriend). And I have two cars (one new and another a collector’s car) already. I just feel like I’m not good enough to date anyone right now, though. Like I still have some internal conflicts. I’m still shy, I have major confidence issues, I don’t have the body I want yet (even though I workout every single day), and I still don’t have the truck I want yet. I know there’s guys that don’t have much and they still have girls that are crazy about them, but I just feel like I still need to work on my flaws to find a girlfriend who will find my worth.
Am I overreacting, or should I just continue working on myself?
