I was seeing a guy for just under a couple of months. He approached and pursued me. We hit it off. Took a weekend cabin trip with he and his friends. Had a wonderful time. He told me his friends loved me and they told me the same. A week later, it all went to shit when I drunkenly cussed him out because he was being a little rude to me. Despite me saying what I said to him (I said fuck him and that no one treats me so disrespectfully), I spent the night at his house and we slept together. When we woke up he was very cold to me and kind of rushed me out. No breakfast or anything. Over the next few days we didn’t speak much but when we did, he said he just wanted to be friends. I didn’t want that but I went along with it. Right before Christmas I told him I didn’t want to just be his friend but he didn’t budge. I stopped speaking to him be HE continued to reach out consistently. Even called me 5 times back to back earlier this week. Yesterday and the day before, he repeatedly texted me asking to speak to me. I did, then we decided to hang out after work. He got my favorite wine and ordered us food. We had sex then realized that we may have a pregnancy scare from the cabin trip. He cried, which I thought was weird because he’s 32. I was turned off and went home. He texted me this morning wishing me a good day and that’s when I told him I wanted more than a friendship. He said he only wants to be my friend but that he will be by my side through an abortion if need be. I told him he’s a terrible person and blocked him.
did I overreact? is a friendship possible? Is more (a relationship) ever a possibility?
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If you want to be friends yeah
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