I can't see myself in a long term relationship?

[Anonymous]

im 15. and i think this is because i fall for guys so incredibly easily. all it takes is for him to show alittle intrest in me and im in love. but i think i can't see myself in a relationship because usually guys tell me they like me and lead me on and all that then they never make a move. and honestly yeah it would be really nice to have a boyfriend. I've never had a REAL boyfriend just like middle school relationships that dont count. and whenever im alone with a guy i feel like i need to ramble on to keep things from being awkward so that we are nonstop talking which can probably get really annoying. how can i show guys im girlfriend material? i think they just see me as a hookup or bootycall

[AnayaWilliams]

Your not the only one, in middle school I fell for this boy really hard. And then we dated for about 5 years up until my sophomore year of high school and it ended. I realized I fall to easy for guys that show no interest in me. I don't want a relationship right now because I just want to focus on my studies. I get hurt a lot, like I did in my last relationship, led on, used, etc. I hear you, I want a real serious committed relationship. You are still young though you have plenty of time to meet the right person. Another word of advice is don't sell yourself short, and don't settle for less than what you deserve. That's what I learned in my last relationship. YOu don't have to force yourself to fall in love, or force yourself into a relationship. You have plenty time to meet the right guy, you are still young. It takes to meet the right person and your perfect match. Maybe when you go to college you will meet the right person. Don't sell yourself short so quickly. I see myself in a relationship in the future but not right now because of school. Maybe step up your standard if they aren't high enough. I'm not saying that have to be perfect or anything. And most guys around your age aren't really looking for a relationship. Some don't even know how to do there part in a relationship and just use girls based on there looks. You have plenty of time to meet the right person, don't focus so much right now on trying to find the right guy. In the future I would like to be with a nice young gentlemen that knows how to treat me right.

[Asker]

thank youuu:)

[AnayaWilliams]

Your welcome (: Don't try to fall in love so quickly and never sell yourself for less, and never settle for less than what you deserve

[Asker]

great advice this really helped, thanks again!

[AnayaWilliams]

Please do take it (: it'll save you, I made a stupid decision of dating in middle school looking back now in high school I wish I had waited till high school to start dating, and your welcome no problem (:

[bombamboum]

I don't think love is what you're experiencing when it happens. A crush maybe or you like the guy but true love doesn't happen every now and then. Someone's mind is extremely different when you're a teenager and when you become an adult.

All of my friends and I didn't see ourselves in long term relationship when we were 15, we didn't see ourselves with kids.
When you grow up, you get to know a little bit more of what you want and how you see yourself when it comes to relationship.
I was like you and know I'm in a long relationship, deeply in love and I imagine my life with him. You shouldn't burn step, enjoy your life, have boyfriends but don't pressure yourself.

[Tunakid]

LMAO all these under 18 guys trying to find what country you're in and saying they'd treat your right. Im in the same position as you, I dont see myself in a relationship atm even though im not completely against having one. No clue to show you're girlfriend material just gotta find a guy who is looking for a long lasting relationship.

[Cómoestás]

You have to find a guy who is willing to look for a long relationship

[Anonymous]

I would trea tou right. So if you wanna talk some time, just what country you from?

[Anonymous]

Well, you are young...

[glane]

what country u from