Guys! is it normal if I don't want to be in a relationship and want to focus on my career and my healing? I keep pushing guys away from me for some reason. Everytime someone tried to get close to me, I shut them off. I can't imagine being stuck with the same person all the time or even for the rest of my life. I feel like I have commitment issues and that makes it hard to start a relationship. I'm used to being alone. Not to mention that I have bpd, avoidant attachment style, and poor social skills, that makes it hard to be in a relationship. Am I different from everyone else? Is this normal? Should I change myself?
Is it normal if I don't want to be in a relationship and focus on my career? Am I just aromantic and asocial?
