I study a very technical study at a University, and never really come across any girls (there's literally 4 in my study, and I think 2 already dropped out lol).. I've had a dry spell since highschool, and now it's my second year of University. However, I started working out, taking care of myself (I quit weed, started training for a marathon - so running like 10km per day, eating healthy, etc.)... But now we've had a lockdown (or at least, some sort of corona measures) for literally a year - so we've only had online school and shit. I'm getting tired/depressed of not seeing anyone. There's only been two girls I've had maybe a chance with, but they both just see me as a friend.. How tf do I meet people? And why does everyone see me as a friend recently, I didn't have that problem in highschool 😂.. Like, people think of me as a nice guy, maybe I'm too nice, but why would I change my personality to a jerk if that's not who I actually am? I don't have an issue with confidence, I think. People say I have a decent sense of humor. I don't look bad imho - like, I'm relatively fit since I run a lot. And I'm pretty sure I'm too terrible at flirting, at least I'm not awkward.. Long story short, vibes are usually always great between me and a girl, but I feel like whenever I actually meet someone, they fall more in love with my friend group, than they do with me.. And when I, say invite someone to workout with me, or watch a movie with me, plans always tend to fall through if I don't invite other friends to join us -_- Also, I've tried Tinder for a while and it's a total joke.. I do get matches, but they're usually either pretty bad matches, or just don't take the app seriously at all.. My observation: unattractive people tend to be on Tinder just to fuck (to cure their insecurities), and attractive people tend to be on Tinder just to mess around, since they get so many matches anyways.
How do I meet a girl during lockdown?
