If someone offered you, would you trade all memories of your current and ex-partners for healing, strength, and longevity? Why or why not?

ElenaLena

Xper 5 Age: 31

If someone offered you, would you trade all memories of your current and ex-partners for healing, strength, and longevity? Why or why not?

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NathanDavis Follow
Master Age: 36 , mho 33%

2 h
10.2K opinions shared on Other topic.

healing... is something I have to do for myself by myself, only this way, it will be meaningful

same with strength, it has to come from within... not magically out of nowhere

longevity could become a nightmare that never ends... if lessons are not really learned

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- ElenaLena
  
  1 h
  Good points..
  
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  NathanDavis
  
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- ElenaLena
  
  1 h
  Show me your fangs..
  
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  NathanDavis
  
  1 h
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l82XiCJT-fs
  
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Zack-Bann Follow
Guru Age: 28 , mho 48%

8 h
326 opinions shared on Other topic.

I don’t think I would.
It’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.

Besides these experiences made me a better partner as well.
I learned what works and what doesn’t.

So I’ll keep them even if sometimes they hurt on a lonely Sunday afternoon.
That’s just adulthood.

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- ElenaLena
  
  8 h
  That’s true..
  Lets do something together on the next Sunday afternoon 🙂
  
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- Zack-Bann
  
  5 h
  With pleasure
  
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queenofcardio Follow
Guru Age: 32 , mho 34%

1 h
1.5K opinions shared on Other topic.

No, some of my memories are truly irreplaceable. Some of my experiences in those relationships have made me grow as a person. I learned some very valuable lessons

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- ElenaLena
  
  1 h
  Definitely..
  
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- queenofcardio
  
  1 h
  Lol do you remember this?
  
  https://youtu.be/0L2_RvXVMxE?si=gFprtPiz0vU2Tao_
  
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- ElenaLena
  
  1 h
  Very funny 😆
  Do you eat meat? .. because you can’t win me with salad 🫪😌
  
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- ElenaLena
  
  1 h
  Don’t mind the weird emoji.. I just found about it today and I am playing around with it 😄
  
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- queenofcardio
  
  1 h
  I'm Pescatarian but mostly vegetarian for almost 2 years now lol 😂
  
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- queenofcardio
  
  1 h
  I make a really good mixed beans salad 🥗 😋
  
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- queenofcardio
  
  1 h
  With quinoa , its so good
  
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- ElenaLena
  
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- ElenaLena
  
  1 h
  No I am kidding 😆
  
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- ElenaLena
  
  1 h
  Actually that sounds very delicious 😋
  
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- queenofcardio
  
  1 h
  How about my vegetarian lasagna instead?
  
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FunkyMonkee Follow
Master Age: 59

58 min
4.4K opinions shared on Other topic.

No. My memories of those I love, mostly just my life, in general, are important to me. I already HAVE longevity and strength and can probably find ways to heal, just not from a broken heart, like the one I'm suffering with, now! They only Band-Aid that'll help that is someone VERY, VERY special in my life coming back to me, the way things SHOULD be!!! ::Tears!::
I have at least one ex I wouldn't much mind purging from my memory, I have absolutely NO use for her but, if I remove her from my memory, a lot of other important memories I need will also go away. Best I can do is think of her as little as possible.

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thegreenyogi Follow
Guru Age: 35 , mho 32%

8 h
541 opinions shared on Other topic.

I would say no just because without the hurt, pain and bad memories I wouldn't have become the strong and aware person I am today.

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- ElenaLena
  
  8 h
  Absolutely 🙂
  
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lilBigPotato Follow
Guru Age: 21 , mho 32%

8 h
489 opinions shared on Other topic.

No, the memories I've made define who I am. Trading them also means I'll make the same mistakes again in the future.

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Nikki1989 Follow
Mentor Age: 37 , mho 32%

3 h
7.8K opinions shared on Other topic.

I have all of that already with my current partner.

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- ElenaLena
  
  1 h
  Nice 😊
  
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Bricealan Follow
Master Age: 46

8 h
897 opinions shared on Other topic.

@ElenaLena No never. Even though I made mistakes, I would never trade the memories for anything.

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ChiTown33 Follow
Master Age: 50

7 h
5.2K opinions shared on Other topic.

What do you mean, "healing strength and longevity"?

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- ElenaLena
  
  5 h
  You live longer and you become stronger and healthier
  
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- ChiTown33
  
  5 h
  Well i could answer this but you wouldn't understand my answer.
  
  So let me just say we get old frail and die for a reason. Nobody wants to get old. But at some point believe it or not you don't want to do life over either. To change my past would be to change me and the person i've become. And i don't want to do that. God has brought me a long way to this point. And some of those learning experiences i definitely don't want to revisit.👍
  
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AgentG111 Follow
Yoda Age: 41

8 h
469 opinions shared on Other topic.

Sounds like a jack and bean stock, deal with the devil thing.

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- ElenaLena
  
  8 h
  Maybe 😄
  
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DarKnight36 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 35

6 h

What’s in the past should stay in the past; one needs to think with maturity.

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Iron_Man Follow
Mentor Age: 47

9 h
19.7K opinions shared on Other topic.

I don’t trade my memories that’s part of my past. It’s stored in my mind for eternity. That’s non-negotiable. And a lot of my memories is what’s keeping me going in life

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exitseven Follow
Master Age: 55

2 h
13.3K opinions shared on Other topic.

It would be tempting but Nietzche wrote "What does not kill me will make me stronger"

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  NathanDavis
  
  1 h
  and the very next day he caught neurosyphilis... lol
  
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FreyaRed Follow
Master Age: 25 , mho 46%

6 h
1.5K opinions shared on Other topic.

For eternal youth and life? Instantly

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- ElenaLena
  
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  😄😄
  
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