Girls/women just want men to make them feel good/better about themselves whilst not doing anything confidence building?

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

That old 'girls are a mystery' thing - which they are not, not even one bit,

The accomplished ones are very similar to accomplished guys - busy, but aware they can get their lives organised, give love, receive love.

The rest all want the same - a prince on a white horse (a flashy car will do instead of a horse) - and to be called great and beautiful and to feel confident but without putting in the hard wotk that actually gives a person confidence (be it as simple as the physical exercise or as complex as company/team/product building or science/engineering)
The ones comfortable with sports (and sure of their bodies) are a lot easier to deal with and to date since they hide a lot less insecurity - but they still want to be high earners as well, which is a very difficult job - and if they are not they feel less worthy (when, if they are, typically they get bratty and want too much, like affairs regularly while a reliable guy waits at home)
Agree or?

[MzAsh]

This can apply to a lot of men and women. I’ve always preferred to work hard and build on skills I’m interested it. The best confidence booster is knowing you are intelligent and competent without having to rely on anyone else for survival. I love my man and we do work together on many things but I wouldn’t lose one cent if things changed between us. I’m 36 but I take care of my self, and I still look 25 so I know I could get another man in no time flat if that’s what it came down to.
You just have to stay on top of your life and 10 steps ahead of everyone else.

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

thanks Ash