Why are some men attracted to girls with low self-esteem?

[Anonymous]

[desidoll]

So they can manipulate these poor women and treat them badly. I rarely find many who get into a relationship with women like that for the purpose of “helping” her. This is the reason why many women are trapped in a toxic/abusive relationship or marriage.

[Agagagagaga]

So we’re supposed to “help” women with low self-esteem now? Yeah... forget that.

[loveslongnails]

Lots of reasons -
* they have low self-esteem too and think the girl will be more appreciative of them, in other words - ego boost
* they believe it will be easier to control them
* they won't have to work so hard to keep the girl happy
* if they decide to dump them, it won't matter much since they already have low self-esteem

[BarryLiverstone]

Guys are attracted to how you look initially. But if you have lower self esteem some guys have a pattern of using girls and they will act all sweet to her knowing she craves the attention. It’s one of the reasons girls have shit tests because they want to see if the guy is being authentic.

[blurpblurp]

Probably because men think that these girls are
1. Easier to manipulate.
2. Most likely going to worship their partner.
3. Damsels in distress and men just want to be their knight in shining armour.

[Dontabesillybe]

Probably cos we relate to them and not as cocky/ egotistical, so they're more likely to be nice people since they're humble, a lot of girls love them self which makes them bitches, cos they think they're better than everyone,
But low self esteem girls sees every one just as valuable than her, if not more valuable.. so she's less likely to be a bitch, and more likely to be a peaceful and friendly person

[Dontabesillybe]

Most guys are humble

[Dontabesillybe]

We like friendly peaceful girls not bitches

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Some guys think it’s easier to take advantage of them because they have low self esteem.
Not all, but some.

[Soremain]

Because they have low self-esteem themselves and a girl with high self-esteem would make them feel emasculated.

[bamesjond0069]

Low self esteem is not a dealbreaker for many men. Personally why would i care? I just care how good in a relationship she is and how good a mom she would be. Nothing else matters at all.

[Anonymous]

I don't know. But I know there are some guys (NOT ALL, MINORITY) that try to take advantage of girls with low self-esteem.

[Anonymous]

It's not that men are attracted to women with low self esteem. It's just that a girl's confidence is not important to men the way men's confidence is to women.

[Pohjolan]

I think they attracted to them for other reasons.
Low self esteem is just not a deal breaker for most men.

[bamesjond0069]

This ^^^

[Wise4myage]

I think some guys see girls like that as easy targets for seducing.

[anton_dee]

Easy to dominate. Helps inflate their own fragile ego

[jahaims]

Makes it easier for them to abuse them

[Agagagagaga]

Or guys don’t give a goddamn about how much confidence or self-esteem a woman has. Could be that.

[jahaims]

She asked why are some men more attracted to girls with low self-esteem. If all guys didn't care then the question wouldn't exist. If they didn't care there wouldn't be some who are attracted to that.

[Anonymous]

They can be hot and they have sex

[In_Trance]

because men think they can save them. They can't

[Andres77]

Low hanging fruit?

[LegendaryIcon]

easy to control