Do girls like guys who have low self-esteem?

[Anonymous]

I have low self-esteem so can I get a girlfriend while I have low self-esteem?

[spookysaturn]

Not necessarily. If it's something like not understanding her thinking your cute or whatever it won't really affect it negatively i don't think unless you're super against every compliment she gives or if you always talk down about yourself. That's going to pose a broken problem. It's a myth that girls like guys with low self esteem and it started with everyone thinking that girls have such a strong maternal instinct that they wan't to help anyone who needs it or take in all the strays or help a bird with a broken wing kind of thing but that's not really true. Maybe at a point it was not not anymore. And if a girl likes you solely for your bad self image then something is wrong and she has a mother complex. Sorry man :/ I have some pretty iffy self esteem and so does my girlfriend but it didn't really play a part in our relationship because we both understood it doesn't have anything to do with the connection we feel. Good luck!!

[runcupcakerun]

Yeah of course! I don't think it would be a problem, and I think most girls would see it as an opportunity to help a guy feel happier about himself. Plus, I (and I asahme other girls) would much prefer someone with low self esteem than someone who has an excess.

[Liveyyy]

Yeah I like guys who aren't full of themselves. Then again it doesn't hurt to have a little confidence.

[BertMacklinFBI]

I don't think anyone really likes anyone with a low self esteem

[front2back]

No, and this is coming from a guy with low self-esteem.

[crazyincalifornia]

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[Asker]

I am impressed.

[crazyincalifornia]

Girls (me anyway) like guys going places with both business and personal goals.
For the most part they have a balance of self esteem and humbleness that makes them a catch for any girl.
:)

[Asker]

Sounds tough.

[Anonymous]

Very much depends on the guy; if I liked him anyway his low self esteem wouldn't put me off and probably I'd want to look after him and make him feel better

[Anonymous]

Or, OR... how about you actually address your insecurities and issues?

[silvernblackattk]

Yes you can get a gf.. I bet i have a lower self esteem than you but even i was able to get a gf.. Keep trying.. GL to u

[yaddayaddayadda02]

They really kinda don't.

[dwiller943]

Yes. I love them.