Do women find good looking men unattractive if they have low self esteem?

[coachTanthony]

[Unit1]

There is probably a formula for it.

Men's attractiveness = (Money * funniness * confidence) / 11 - physical attractiveness on a scale from 1 to 10

Men's attractiveness = (money (multiplied by) funniness (multiplied by) confidence) (divided by) 11 (minus) physical attractiveness on a scale from 1 to 10

[Unit1]

Oh shoot! I forgot to factor in emotional unavailability in the equation. Well, multiply the final score by anywhere between 0 - 1.0 on emotional unavailability, where 1.0 is pretty emotionally available and 0 is being as emotional as a girl and 0.5 being generally emotionally unavailable.

[Unit1]

Yeah. Cheers coach

[mobiusforniner]

Oh yes they do. Low self esteem is like a "warning stay away" sign hovering over their head.

[AmandaYVR]

No. I like humility, introspection, and men who are nice. Confidence doesn't factor in.

[mobiusforniner]

Most people tend to contrast humility and confidence. Having confidence and positive self esteem does not imply lack of humility or one is arrogant and unkind. Humility is knowing you dont know everything, accepting when you're wrong, and having a spirit of continued learning. One can still do this while having high self esteem.

Humility isn't thinking less of yourself. Its thinking of yourself less.

[electromagnetic]

I feel like it’s better to be able to support someone with low self esteem but letting them now they are exactly what you’re looking for. It’s extremely impossible to find a middle ground being with someone who thinks they know it all, an ass, and big headed.

[abbyjgriffin98]

In a way. If you have too low self esteem to the point you are either too controlling or too submissive, it is unattractive. Same goes for women. Everybody has insecurities but you can't let them rule your life.

[DizzyDesii]

Not physically unattractive but emotionally unattractive

[genericname85]

good looking men aren't low self esteem when it comes to looks. that's incredibly rare and i would say is more a psychological pathology like body dysmorphia. like if you're pretty, you will know and be sure you are, cause society is very good at making you aware of this.

now being ugly is something you'll learn over time. people are way less likely to make you aware that you're ugly.

[PumpkinSpiceLatte4]

If you find that guy good-looking or any other guy, then you're gay.

Anyway this is a question for 13 year olds. It depends on the individual. You like to generalize a lot, don't you? 😂

[dolemite58]

yes, women aren’t as visually oriented as we are so our looks don’t bring to the table what theirs do. I've seen good looking guys that were more reserved not get anyone talking to them but a meh looking guy that was loud and overly confident to the point that he was clearly stupid get girls.

[virtualwasp]

no, sometimes they aren't good looking or are unattractive under the surface

[milademjay]

Looks doesn’t matter to women. (Within reason) but he does have to be fit.
Unless women live in a place full of SIMPS then they’re goanna go against male nature and chase the top 2% hottest guys.

[AmyHew1tt]

It definitely lowers attractiveness. Like, I might still think he's handsome but I wouldn't want to be romanticly or sexually involved.

[WhitneySnow]

Not an issue because most good looking guys can at least fake self esteem, but the ones who can’t I think girls would still be drawn to because they seem vulnerable and the girl wants to comfort him

[Anonymous]

No. If anything it's the opposite. Women seek out attractive men more often when she feels she unattractive. It gives her validation. She says to herself, "I can't be that bad because I landed him". At least that's the way it begins. Then when he dumps her her insecurity doubles. This is how mediocre women become pin cushions for Chads.😆😆😆

[Anonymous]

women aren't interested in looks. In my youth u was v handsome and thus attracted my share of young chicks but as the women i approached became older they seemed immune to my magnificence.
I did not enjoy their immunity i can assure you but was forced to face the unpleasant truth that looks aren't important to women

[_piotr]

Yes! This is very sad. I was depressed for a time when I found out that women are not interested in men' looks.

[ZackBan]

Not at first since looks are the first thing they see but if low self esteem is apparent in their behavior then looks won't win any battles.

I know because I fell into that category once

[Anonymous]

I'm not attracted to guys with low self-esteem.

[PeachesNCream98]

I have low self esteem

[Opinion Owner]

@PeachesNCream98 why

[PeachesNCream98]

Just from being teased most of my life

[Opinion Owner]

@PeachesNCream98 oh that sucks. You should have kicked their asses

[PeachesNCream98]

Long story! I can’t fight

[mobiusforniner]

@PeachesNCream98 c'mon peaches. I was teased and put down all my life. Life is what you make it to be. You can sit and mope or you can take control.

Think, its time to kick ass and chew bubblegum but you're all out of gum.

[Anemone978]

No but if the guy has low self esteem he probably seems harder to approach

[jshm2]

The so called "pity fuck" you mean?

[shades777]

some women disqualify themselves when they know they dont have a chance so they'll be ignorant or rude because they know for a fact thr man wouldn't bat an eye at them

[Starrrboy]

No lol.. that's why if you're shy / introverted AND handsome.. you can still get girls because that becomes adorable and quirky haha

[AngryCarl2]

No good looking man has low self esteem. Why would he?

[PeachesNCream98]

Maybe he lacks talent