Search Results: does this make me a slut

THE FIRST THING:
I don't understand why some or more women date men who do not treat them as an equal, though I've only seen conservative or conservative-leaning women date such men. What bothers me about it is that these women acknowledge that they do not like to be treated as less than an equal, and demand equal treatment from their male friends and society in general. Then they turn around and date men who treat them as less than equal, which makes me trust them less, because if someone is willing to throw away their sense of morality, then I wonder if they even have a sense of morality.

This does not include women who were manipulated, gaslighted, abused, and even beaten to be forced to stay in a relationship or marriage. This also does not include women with low self-esteem.

THE SECOND THING:
Men who would happily have sex with slutty women, and then turn around and shame those women for being slutty. I do not think being a slut is a bad thing, and the word 'slut' should not be considered a bad word.

Such men go on and on about how most women are slutty and that they are not worthy of respect. Usually such men identify as conservative, but I've seen quite a lot of other men engage in such behavior as well.

I do not understand why men in general and society has such a problem with female sexual expression, but not much with male sexual expression.

What do you think and what are two things that bother you quite a lot?

Up until very recently many men were been raised to not treat women as harshly as other men when they cross the line (being disrespectful, unreliable, verbally abusing or even hitting men). Chivalry taught men that the fairer sex was more “delicate” when it came to hostility including nasty language.

Now angry guys might lose it and attack with sexual insults (slut, whore, cunt, etc.). But how often do you hear men calling women words such as mother f*ckers, douche bags, piece of sh*t, etc? Every once is a blue moon a guy might call a girl a douchebag. But the other non sexual yet nastier insults not as much.

I had a former gal pal try to contact me on LinkedIn a few days ago. She had ghosted me without warning two years ago.
She sent a fake canned message like “hey how are you? I hope you are doing well during this time. Ya de yah”.

But being ghosted is one of the worse insults you can do to someone (she blocked me on social media). So after giving her a curt message I responded to her second canned message with “you know Mary you got a long ways to go if you want to make it up to me. You call yourself a alpha female (she really did say that) but in reality you are beta piece of sh*t. I think karma needs to knock you around a bit more into you come to your senses. Deep down I hope you change. But again you have a ways to go. Don’t ever contact me again”. I then blocked her.

Now what I said above is real out of character. But I took her message as fake bs ploy to placate her own guilty conscious. She wanted to feel better about herself but not apologize for what she did.

I would have reacted differently if she messaged me saying “hey Zach what if did a while back was totally wrong. I don’t know what I was thinking, but I wish I could of handled it better”. But she didn’t say that.

Anyway it felt good to call her a piece of sh*t. It does go against my upbringing, spiritual beliefs, etc. But covid-19 is giving me less patience.