If You Called A Girl A Slut... And She Called You Out In Front of EVERYone... How Would You Respond?

Question

Follow up question? Why Do YOU Think Guys Are So Comfortable Calling A Girl A Slut For The Way She Dresses? #StopCyberbullying #StopSlutShaming

YHL6965 · Accepted Answer

I'm not the kind of guy who uses this word often and, when I do, I use it because of the person's mentality, not the way they dress. For example, a single mom with 3 kids from 3 different fathers who fucks random strangers on the first date without any protection. You might argue "Well, it's her life, what's the problem?". For the most part, I would agree except there are kids involves, their education, their well being and these kids matter. Also, not worrying about catching STDs or spraying them like that causes harm to the
general population. That's why it bothers me.

Oh and let's not forget cheaters too. When you are ready to betray someone who has feelings of love for you, I think you deserve being called all the mean words in the world for lacking so much respect, honor and values in general.

That said, if a girl chooses to have one night stands but is mindful about pregnancy or STDs and she is not cheating on anyone, it's fine. I still don't agree with that kind of lifestyle because it's not my thing but, as long as she is not doing any harm, good for her I guess.

TonyV · Accepted Answer

Well just putting it out there I love sluts, I wish there were more, a girl that just wants to have some clean dirty fun? What's too hate.

I hate the definition of slut cause it is entirely opinionated and open to interpretation, seriously look it up in one short aemtan e long definition every word is an opinion. Like "a woman who sleeps with many men" so what the girl that fucks the same guy every 3 times a day every single day, is just much better that the girl who sleeps with 1 new guy a momth once a month? Also "woman" is in the deff so that's sexiest and means you just have to identify as male then by deff you can't be a slut even if you fuck literally ever guy you ever meet.

I wouldn't slut shame, I wish I had a slutty friend. I dont stupe to such levels of name calling. It would have to be something offal to make me say that like I geuss if she was my wife and she cheated on me, so basiclly I would have a decent reason to explain myself if called out on it in public, cause i would t say it if i didn't have a damn good reason too.

I'm against slut shaming.

laPrincesitaRoxi · Accepted Answer

I love that slut shaming culture is actually ending because I remember in 2011 when I was 11 years old there was a girl named Amanda Todd (I believe she was 15) that had killed herself because her nudes or something had leaked and she was pretty much the joke of the Internet everywhere and I remember myself engaging in that culture and not even realizing what I was doing at such a young age you know? I would never wish a culture that allows women to feel like they’ve “made a mistake” or disgusted with themselves enough to kill themselves or even consider doing so for engaging in sex.
I love that where in a time where women can find support and have other women and men even tell them that this idea of them being a “slut” for sex is nothing more Than a word that was made to hurt and shame us to be able to control the way we perceive life and they way we navigate it. That’s abuse and I’m glad we can let those ideas go so much more easily now because there’s an actual genuine understanding from everybody not just women anymore and that’s beautiful to me as well.

feedmelove1 · Accepted Answer

I slut shame men and woman i don't decriminate... I use to look down on women for wearing clothes that show too much because my mother is old fashioned and i seen her do that all my life. When I saw men talk badly about women who sleep around and then realise they themselves slept around... I thought to myself they are hypocrites it got on my nerves. I now dont want to judge people because of how they dress or if they sleep around, but I always have this sad feeling when I see a girl dress like that because I believe woman have more to offer than their bodies. I also think she is adult and I ain't her mother, so I just dont care. Now if you are younger than 18 thats messed up... don't be showing your body like that unless you are a adult

Barry88 · Answer

If I would do that, she would be damn right to call me out in front of everyone. It's a word you simply don't use to describe a woman and especially not straight to the face because it's so derogatory. Even if her clothes are extremely revealing, she is promiscuous, or a cheater, I don't see any way to justify that word. We don't call guys who cheat or who are promiscuous by such names. I think it's respectless to call a woman a slut.

There might always be reasons for the behaviour of a person, and people have different moral standards. It's not right to a derogatory term as 'slut'.

errorgoodnameunfound · Answer

It's kinda weird that guys legit get so antsy over what females wear. The usual reason for wearing what they do is flat out weather related a lotta time, and is more so practical, not to try to attract anyone. I mean hell, unless they get that clothing that includes... a fucking camel toe... then yah, it's practical so people need to chill. In my mind too, if a girl wears whatever the damn hell she wants, I can too, so im ready to go with a pinkie pie T :D

One day I think the best damn world is gonna be where we are all nude and don't give a shit about clothing, except to protect from the elements, as it was meant, not eyes.

CikaZivan · Answer

While i was growing up, i never had a chance to see women walking half naked and there were no slutish reality shows on tv...
Last few years it's normal to see women walking down the street with half of their butts visible, half of their boobs visible, and whole belly.
I just see them as sluts, and women who are so miserable, and got nothing else to offer except their bodies. I am decent enough not to call them out, but to keep that opinion to myself.
Besides, if men dressed the same way, everyone would call them out as faggots...

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

"Hi Five For Sluts."

I saw this quote written on the roof of a rental van behind the visor. This question reminded me of that.

My friends and I were on a road trip to some social event in this van, and of course to pass the time, we were trying to imagine the backstory and origin of this comment, assuming placed there by a previous renter, and the role the van played in that story. At one point we almost drove off the road, as we were laughing so hard at what we imagined had to be a verbal exchange at some point:

"We need to high five for sluts."
"Why are we high fiving for sluts?"
"Because they're sluts. That's why."

Anyway, thanks for the big laugh I just had as I typed this and refreshing hilarious memories from decades ago. 👍

PeterAyre · Answer

We should be moving to a place where the word "slut" isn't a derogatory term anymore, but instead just factually describes a characteristic of somebody. It merely states or acknowledges that they have had many casual sexual partners, without any insinuation that this is wrong or should be avoided. Take the word "derogatory" out it's dictionary definition. Just like the LGBTQ community has reclaimed the word "queer", women could be empowered by reclaiming the word "slut" as it would remove a possible insult with which to hurt, belittle or otherwise control them. Both men and women need educating that their clothing choices don't influence such charictaristics.

Jjpayne · Answer

I'd personally never want to get there. But at that point, the best you can do is walk away nothing and I mean nothing at that point will help you as a guy. The only thing to do is walk away to defuse. If you say anything at that point it will only fuel her and make her talk more. Get out of there and let her talk with herself. At that point she has the power. But to your point. Sl#t should never be used and if I get too opinionated about what she wears I think we just need to agree that some things should not be asked about in terms of do you think this is too much, just agree to not do that

GlitterFairy16 · Answer

I've been slut shamed myself just because i have a boyfriend and I've never called another girl a slut unless it was a joke. Id more than likely call a woman are whore and that would only be if she cheated with my boyfriend intentionally or cheated with someone else partner who id cared about and if they called me out on it id call them right back for sleeping with a man im a relationship knowingly.

People who cheat are the worst and that's the only excuse i can give for calling someone a slut

SphynxUK · Answer

Who are you to call a woman a slut based on what she wears or how many people she chooses to sleep with?
Do you name call your friend when he tells you he’s put another notch on the bedpost?
Would you then assume he must have been dressed in provocative clothing to have managed it?

Martinasita · Answer

Men want to do the slut but don’t want to be held responsible for their actions. Men who cyber bully are cowards who are not comfortable with their own sexuality. I say this to you all who think it’s ok to voice your negativity without consequence. “You worry about Yourself!”

DatKidWood · Answer

You know it's a tough thing to say because as adults were vastly different than when we were children. I remember as a child in 5th grade being in an argument with a girl and she told me "at least I don't look at my toilet paper after I wipe" lol that's the funniest thing I've ever heard. It has stuck with me to this day, vI mean how would you know if you're done wiping? but she had me there over a barrel cause I didn't know what to say and now days I'll just walk away but it just speaks on your character if you're gonna shouting match with a woman in public or if you're going to totally cut her down with something savage just expect whatever you dish out in return. it is kind of lame but the old adage 2 wrongs don't make a right comes to mind Maybe she likes me some guys may think so it's an icy Trail and a slippery slope to wander down.

Akachan · Answer

Slut doesn't even mean anything to me anymore since my friends and I will say
"you freaking cunt, little slut bitch" in casual conversation for honestly no reason at all.
But we have to stop shaming people for doing what they like unless it's illegal, if it's illegal and hurts others we'll get the kpop stans to dox them😌😌

Anonymous · Answer

I've actually called women out on this shit before them dressing like sluts or not dressing appropriately for the occasion and when I had an ex friend of mine try to debate me on certain scenarios she couldn't and immediately stood quiet and backed down. For example would you wear a bikini in a church or would you wear a bikini when reporting the news on nationwide tv. or would you wear jogging pants and a sweatshirt to a wedding or a prom? It's called dressing appropriately for the occasion. Or when women have had a high double digit amount of sexual partners then yes she will be called out on it. And I would do the same shit if a guy were to tell me this crap to. I don't hold back regardless of the gender I'm not gender biased I'm an equal opportunity asshole

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Dressing and acting like a slut is a personal choice and so is the decision by men not to have any type of lasting relationship with them because of it. Be who you are and who you want to be but dont be surprised when guys are hesitant to commit to you. I may fuck a slut but I would never waste time on a relationship with her.

worldscolide · Answer

I don't use that word unless the reason is valid.. Which I can count on one hand the number of times I've used it here on one hand.. Just once, and it was in my first year, and she was trying to justify cheating repeatedly on her boyfriend. Other than that I just don't use it.

BeyondCuriosity · Answer

I'm not likely to call someone a slut or anything like it unless they are being intentionally hurtful to people and using sex to do so. So if I did that and she was dumb enough to call me out in front of everyone, I would explain to everyone exactly why I said it and see which of the two of us was more ashamed over our actions. SPOILER: It wouldn't be me. lol

An_Impulse · Answer

if a person is slut.. by definition.. i would call that person slut.. there is no shame in calling somethin or someone what they are..

if someone is a thief.. you wouldn't go and say 'oh no dont thief shame them.. say cleptomaniac' i would call a person if the person is cunt.. he or she is cunt to me.. they should feel the shame.. otherwise you can't fix the problem.

Bogoboj · Answer

A long time ago a very intelligent person once said "it is easy too be a slut but hard too be a stud" and i agree with this statement so a little slut shaming for her promiscuity can build up character, either she gets tougher skin or she becomes less slutty so it's a win win situation.

FrePhill · Answer

I would never even think of a woman in that way. Because my own sexual thoughts are far worse and I know from remembering when I was young and dum with testosterone running my brain that all young men have very perverted sexual thoughts.

I even have a problem when my lover wants me to call her “whore” or “slut” in our role play sex. I just have a difficult time with insulting & degrading words. But I believe it was bc I was bullied as a boy at school.

MrOracle · Answer

Unless a woman is wearing something radically inappropriate for the situation (a nightclub dress to a baptism, or a rave outfit for a job interview [that wasn't a rave]), it's not very likely I'd describe her as a slut even if she asked my opinion. I just don't see a lot of benefit in being offensive to people unless the situation is quite extreme, and I generally avoid such situations when I can anyway.

On that kind of stuff, I normally keep my opinions to myself.

Freddy78361 · Answer

I would call out her response with names, dates, and acts.

I asked "what defines a slut". I got some good answers. The good news is that the term is so loosely defined that you can get away with using it on anyone.

If You Called A Girl A Slut... And She Called You Out In Front of EVERYone... How Would You Respond?

Superb Opinion

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said