What would make you call a girl a slut?

[Shane_B]

Sleeping with any guy who shows her any kind of attention.

Someone who doesn't know how to keep her legs closed.

Someone who has never had any morals/ standards/ or respect for their self or body.

Has no intention in being in a relationships, they are incapable of being loyal or faithful, and they are not wifey material (my term for them is a spunk bucket/ cum bucket, they get more donations than sperm banks in a year than what a sperm bank gets in 10 years 😂).

They don't care about sexual health, or if they catch an STI or STD, and they won't get checked at a clinic for it.

Same can be said for guys ina way, they think they can get any girl in bed with them (a fuck boy).

[Anonymous]

If she is promiscuous, sleep around, the only purpose of her living is sex and does things like that casually

[ChgzDaniel]

I have one simple rule that makes it clear and understandable. A slut is anyone who has sex with someone with no intention of being in a lifelong relationship with them.
For example, a girl who isn't a slut might have sex with her boyfriend who she has been dating a few months and they have been making plans on buying a house together or get married one day.
A girl who is a slut might sleep with a guy because he hit on her and she didn't want to turn him down, but she plans on breaking up with him when someone better asks her out.

[princessfromjupiter]

An insane level of promiscuity accompanied by really low standards makes both men and women sluts to me. I’m talking like sex-with-3-or-more-different-people-per-week promiscuous

[EssieEsmerelda]

In my opinion a slut is a women or girl that behaves loose and is willing to spread her legs for various people without any real commitment from those people. Something like that. We have a saying that is a good lock can only be opened by one key but a good key can open various locks. Because in society it is frowned upon if women behave like men and sleep with people left right and centre. But it is okay for a guy to sleep around. Which is unfair but what can i say?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I feel like it’s not that hurtful, I’d rather say something worse about her if I’m trying to hurt her feelings. I feel like “slut” is a weak way to hurt someone’s feelings and if someone was to call a woman that, it’s because he or she wants to hurt her feelings. It doesn’t always have to be true, but the idea that this word will hurt a woman’s feelings is enough for it to be used as a weapon for some. If I wanted to hurt a woman’s feelings, calling her a “slut” would be very weak.

[Lish89]

My main problem with the word is that it's a double standard. Women can sleep around as much as men do and Get called a slut for it, but yet men can do it and get high fived?
I personally have only been with two men and I'm not the one night person, but I still wouldn't put a woman down for doing whatever she chose to do with hers. If it doesn't effect my life, then why should I get an opinion on her way of living hers. Not my business and not my place to judge.

[carlos1978]

I'm going to have unique opinion because I don't view the word slut in the same connotation as so many others. I mean sure, you keep things to yourself and that's put it around like your bank card information, but no further than that. I don't believe a woman doing something she wanted to do should get her a bad label

[Redstang88]

Don’t think I’ve ever actually called a girl that, but i’ve known a few that qualified.
Briefly worked with a girl that would go around knocking on doors at night (we lived on site) and would sleep with the first guy that let her in. I don’t judge for a bit of casual fun, but that girl fucked half the camp in the 3 weeks she was there.

[Lovi87]

A slut to me is her stealing another woman's man, trying to steal another woman's man, having her tits and arse hanging out with no care in the world, sleeping around, saying vulgar words in public even if she has a boyfriend, flirts with other men even when taken.

A slut is a slut. Easy, and trashy.

[KiaTate]

Different reasons.
My brothers call me a slut when I eat their food.
An ex called me a slut when I didn't want to be with him anymore, he called me other things too but you want to hear about sluts.
My friend calls me a slut during sex, but its never out of anger.

[ATuairiscean]

I would never call a girl a slut - I think it is the worst insult you can give a girl way worse than the C word - What business is it of yours, her sexual behaviour, she has her reasons and even so it might not be that far out - Plus that stupid double standard a slut guy is a stud and a slut girl is a slut.

[xichuwangwai]

I have never called a girl a slut.
Girls have their own needs, and they're brave enough to do something about it, I actually admire them for that.
A woman who cheats, I call her cheater, not slut. And I despise cheaters.
But I would if a girl asked me to in bed. I'd feel a little uncomfortable saying it to her face, I guess? So I'll just go and practice right now.

[xkildy]

I personally would never call a girl a slut , Not since i mature up from my 20's Shaming is NEVER a good thing and should never be done. I don't care of she is a sex worker. Most of them only do it to live.. to put food on the table to help there kids (hopefully they know there dad) . but some are in the work cause they simply enough it.. But Most are not.

[hellionthesagereborn]

I don't use the term because its to frequently used inaccurately. I will call out a girl for promiscuous behavior but I wouldn't call her a slut (but again, that's more to do with improper usage of the word making it rather meaningless rather then believing that sleeping around is some how okay (its actually quite damaging).

[Factshurt90]

Women that have no respect for the relationships of others. Women that KNOW he’s taken and pursue him anyway.
Women who fuck around on well meaning partners.
If a woman wants to sleep around I dont care. Just leave my man alone. If she doesn’t want to be with her Partner DUMP HIM! Don’t fucking around on him.

[GirlWithProblemms]

(This one goes for both girls and guys.) If you are in a relationship but still sleeping with other people, being unfaithful basically. Or sleep with a person who already has a girlfriend/boyfriend (that the fuckgirl/fuckboy is aware of)

[vishna]

honestly, I don't think I've ever called another girl a slut. The only thing I could think of that would even make the word pop into my head is if a girl was hitting on my boyfriend in front of me or if a girl cheated on a male friend.. but that's never happened, so, this is hypothetical.

[dantetheexplorer]

Nothing. Women, like men, should be free to sleep with as many people as they want, without being judged for it. If they're in an open relationship, as long as both parties consent willingly to it, that's cool as well.

[Miristheiss]

That is something I'd most likely just think about a woman or feel about a woman, not really tell her. Upon hearing about her lifestyle I may just have that thought about her and go on about my way.

[ChrisTruthseeker]

I've only ever called a woman a slut if she lies to her husband and sleeps aroud while he works and tries to care for their kids.
She doesn't value being honest, being a parent or her marriage.

[Emmalouise03]

i fucking hate guys. they're all just pieces of shit. sometimes i consider becoming a lesbian because of their bullshit, and they don't have respect for girls at all, and some think they they do. and they say things to girls thats not supposed to hurt them, but it does hurt them. cuz boys r so fucking stupid they do not understand a thing. im 15 and i know that lol

[Pamina]

I don't use that word. It is meant to be insulting and I see no reason to insult anyone for how they live their sex lives.

[frontyer]

I never tell girls theyre sluts. But I avoid dating ones I know are sluts. A slut is a girl who has ONS regulary, cheats etc.

[AD240pCharlie]

If she cheats, uses sex to get what she wants, manipulates people for sex, or simply uses sex in a way that hurts other people. You're free to do what you wish with your own body, but that also means that you have responsibility as well.

[blabla890]

Nothing because I am not a rude person. However, there is a possibility i will get rude if i feel bullied.

[Anonymous]

When she is fucking with/or more than 2 different guys in a day/a week/a month.

When she is in a small community/a small circle, and fucking with every guys in it.

When she is working in a company and fucking every guy at the office.

When she is in a committed relationship with her boyfriend, but still doing all above.

For me, it is never about the way she dress, slut is more about the personality.

[Anonymous]

if she cheated on me, I'd use it as an offensive phrase, not as in "you're a girl who has casual sex".

If a girl has casual sex without leading men or playing games, that's cool.

The word itself in context of TODAY is used as an insult not a label.

[pleasestopthis]

If she's a promiscuous woman that cheats on her partners and/or sleeps around with men who already have a partner. Promiscuity itself is not a treat that would earn her being called a slut.

[nofunkgiven]

Not being respectful of her own body and giving it anyone and everyone, whether by allowing anyone to see or fuck

[AngelicEmpress]

lol I love that most guys in the comments are saying the truth but girls acting like superiors and dislike everyone's opinion.

[Smegskull]

Any of:
Flirting at inappropriate times and places. Maintaining multiple simultaneous sexual relationships. Sex in public places out of convenience/brevity/laziness (rather than because of an exhibitionism kink).

[lovemyirishman]

Sleeping with several guys
Not wanting a true relationship with there man
And etc

[Chaz269]

A fit of rage that removes me from my typical logical, calculating state.
Or sexy talk on her request.

[On_the_other_hand]

A girl who indiscriminately sleeps with anyone. Particularly if she isn't 'safe' about it.

[madhatters4]

if they were not especially selective about their sexual partners

[Mikey_Ramone]

Kind of girls that are very bitchy and noisy and fooling around being too open and easy and getting / seeking attention from anyone around them.

[Freiburger]

Dirty talk only. Promiscuity isn't necessarily bad in my book.

[Daniel3035]

I call a girl a slut jokingly to a friend on occasion or as a flirt. Maybe she’ll say I love hot dogs in my mouth to which i’ll reply “Oh I know you slaaaaaaah (Slap to the face)”

[BaileyisDarcy]

Id consider someone like me a slut (i will sleep with multiple different people at a time, but not ons with a stranger)

But i wouldn't outwardly call someone that except as a joke.

[opurba]

Slut word is man's compliment of dresses. Dress that make them horny n distracted from work if worn by any woman is called slut. So if anyone named u as slut it means it dresses make people horny.

[Anonymous]

So basically you should refrain from doing what you love (even if it poses no little to no harm to you) just because some people believe that your body should be a secret?

[UghPleaseKillMe]

If she only pursues sex without too many filters for the potential candidates.

[curlybrookes]

I would never use that word to describe anyone because it’s quite harsh, but I would call someone a home wrecker if they stole someone’s man/woman.

[front2back]

If she has many sexual partners, many of which aren't that impressive, for the sole sake of meaningless sex and nothing more.

[Breton_Bates]

I would only call a girl a slut if she told me to. I generally call women nice things. And if I ever did call her a slut it was just because I was trying to please her.

[passinby]

Nothing, I don't think that way and it isn't really part of my vocabulary.

Oh maybe if she cuts me off in traffic and I am pissed. lol

[newPython]

If she has had sex out of wedlock, or if she wears a skirt that's short enough to display her knees. I know others may disagree, but that's what I refer to as a slut. By the way, I prefer to date sluts. So slut is a good thing in my world.

[Anonymous]

She didn't want to bang me. But joking aside her cheating or sleeping with someone already committed and knowing about it

[dreamstar72]

For the same reason you would call a guy a ba$tard, you are pissed at them for the moment

[Anonymous]

If she’s cheating on her s/o or hooking up with someone else’s s/o and trying to break up the other woman’s relationship.

[Jalabeanxo]

Being in relationships with multiple people cheating/ hurting them.

[GingerGuy]

Nothing. A word that shouldn't exist in my opinion. I don't think anyone is. We all have different sexual desires and levels. I think that word gets tossed around WAY too freely!

[AlexHiland]

I'd probably never use the word, but I might agree if she's like constantly horny or having sex or something

[Chuck9z]

She would really have to degrade herself. She would have to be totally Sober and get yourself involved in a chain fuck or something.

[CuChullan]

A very negative label that no woman deserves. If you believe in bodily autonomy that every woman is entitled to, then it's her body, her choice. There's no such thing as sluts.

[Anonymous]

Being immoral, cheating, sleeping with men who is in relationships for the thrill though the blame is still on the man. Just being immoral and selling out to just anybody without having values or self love.

[1truekhaleesi]

Nothing. What people do in their free time is none of my business.

[Nicebutnotlast]

Check out the book The Ethical Slut. Amongst people in sex-positive/explicitly sexual communities, it’s simply the word for people that are unashamed of their sexual desires and behaviors.

[gggorgeous]

If she's sleeping around while having a boyfriend or sleeping with guys who are taken.

[Danxsarah]

Cheating with multiple people cough my ex cough

Dont care how many you sleep with just know when to do it

[ragequeen]

I've experienced girls being called sluts for just hanging out with a lot of guys. It's not really about sex I guess, that's at least what I think

[dodgerbabe]

If she fucks my boyfriend otherwise I don’t use that word.

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

when all she wants in life is anyone's dick and nothing else