What would make you call a girl a slut?

[Anonymous]

[Shane_B]

Sleeping with any guy who shows her any kind of attention.

Someone who doesn't know how to keep her legs closed.

Someone who has never had any morals/ standards/ or respect for their self or body.

Has no intention in being in a relationships, they are incapable of being loyal or faithful, and they are not wifey material (my term for them is a spunk bucket/ cum bucket, they get more donations than sperm banks in a year than what a sperm bank gets in 10 years 😂).

They don't care about sexual health, or if they catch an STI or STD, and they won't get checked at a clinic for it.

Same can be said for guys ina way, they think they can get any girl in bed with them (a fuck boy).

[MattsHerez]

Although some exists, most women who are sluttier don't sleep with everyone.

Why must her legs be closed?

How do you feel about a guy who has sex with multiple women. If you say anything other than jerk, scumbag and loser than you are a hypocrite.

A girl who enjoys sex doesn't respect her body? Actually she aspects her body more sometimes by pleasing her body.

Most women who sleep around insist on condoms being used. They may be sexual active but they aren't stupid.

Who gives a shit if she doesn't want to be in a relationship? Humans aren't mean to be in relationships. Here's a quote that makes that point. "Monogamy takes so many social structures to exist, it can't really be naturally occurring and inherent, like blinking, breathing, or wanting to speak to our children. It seems more natural for humans to want a personal harem, so each of us get to enjoy sexual variety, but insist on sexual exclusivity for our lovers, so we don't have to deal with jealousy.

[tiffany323]

@MattsHerez you are stupiest man i ever seen

[Anonymous]

If she is promiscuous, sleep around, the only purpose of her living is sex and does things like that casually

[ChgzDaniel]

I have one simple rule that makes it clear and understandable. A slut is anyone who has sex with someone with no intention of being in a lifelong relationship with them.
For example, a girl who isn't a slut might have sex with her boyfriend who she has been dating a few months and they have been making plans on buying a house together or get married one day.
A girl who is a slut might sleep with a guy because he hit on her and she didn't want to turn him down, but she plans on breaking up with him when someone better asks her out.

[princessfromjupiter]

An insane level of promiscuity accompanied by really low standards makes both men and women sluts to me. I’m talking like sex-with-3-or-more-different-people-per-week promiscuous

[EssieEsmerelda]

In my opinion a slut is a women or girl that behaves loose and is willing to spread her legs for various people without any real commitment from those people. Something like that. We have a saying that is a good lock can only be opened by one key but a good key can open various locks. Because in society it is frowned upon if women behave like men and sleep with people left right and centre. But it is okay for a guy to sleep around. Which is unfair but what can i say?

[Sucram]

Take the first step and put shame on these guys. Don't date them for what they are, as guys are doing with girls.

[Jamie05rhs]

I agree with Sucram.

[Jamie05rhs]

It's not okay. It's hypocritical.

[Lish89]

My main problem with the word is that it's a double standard. Women can sleep around as much as men do and Get called a slut for it, but yet men can do it and get high fived?
I personally have only been with two men and I'm not the one night person, but I still wouldn't put a woman down for doing whatever she chose to do with hers. If it doesn't effect my life, then why should I get an opinion on her way of living hers. Not my business and not my place to judge.

[shi-shi]

If you look at the opinions on this question, most of the guys say they wouldn't say it while most of the girls say they would...

WE'RE DOING IT TO OURSELVES!! D:

[Lovi87]

A slut to me is her stealing another woman's man, trying to steal another woman's man, having her tits and arse hanging out with no care in the world, sleeping around, saying vulgar words in public even if she has a boyfriend, flirts with other men even when taken.

A slut is a slut. Easy, and trashy.

[ATuairiscean]

I would never call a girl a slut - I think it is the worst insult you can give a girl way worse than the C word - What business is it of yours, her sexual behaviour, she has her reasons and even so it might not be that far out - Plus that stupid double standard a slut guy is a stud and a slut girl is a slut.

[xkildy]

I personally would never call a girl a slut , Not since i mature up from my 20's Shaming is NEVER a good thing and should never be done. I don't care of she is a sex worker. Most of them only do it to live.. to put food on the table to help there kids (hopefully they know there dad) . but some are in the work cause they simply enough it.. But Most are not.

[hellionthesagereborn]

I don't use the term because its to frequently used inaccurately. I will call out a girl for promiscuous behavior but I wouldn't call her a slut (but again, that's more to do with improper usage of the word making it rather meaningless rather then believing that sleeping around is some how okay (its actually quite damaging).

[Jamie05rhs]

What does it mean, in your opinion, and what is the proper way to use the term?

[hellionthesagereborn]

@Jamie05rhs slut
[slət]

NOUN
derogatory
a woman who has many casual sexual partners.
Its not what I think the word means, its what the word means. People however use it casually frequently either referring to a woman as a slut based upon her dress or what have you which is not what it means, it refers to a very specific behavior.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay

[Factshurt90]

Women that have no respect for the relationships of others. Women that KNOW he’s taken and pursue him anyway.
Women who fuck around on well meaning partners.
If a woman wants to sleep around I dont care. Just leave my man alone. If she doesn’t want to be with her Partner DUMP HIM! Don’t fucking around on him.

[vishna]

honestly, I don't think I've ever called another girl a slut. The only thing I could think of that would even make the word pop into my head is if a girl was hitting on my boyfriend in front of me or if a girl cheated on a male friend.. but that's never happened, so, this is hypothetical.

[dantetheexplorer]

Nothing. Women, like men, should be free to sleep with as many people as they want, without being judged for it. If they're in an open relationship, as long as both parties consent willingly to it, that's cool as well.

[xichuwangwai]

I have never called a girl a slut.
Girls have their own needs, and they're brave enough to do something about it, I actually admire them for that.
A woman who cheats, I call her cheater, not slut. And I despise cheaters.
But I would if a girl asked me to in bed. I'd feel a little uncomfortable saying it to her face, I guess? So I'll just go and practice right now.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I feel like it’s not that hurtful, I’d rather say something worse about her if I’m trying to hurt her feelings. I feel like “slut” is a weak way to hurt someone’s feelings and if someone was to call a woman that, it’s because he or she wants to hurt her feelings. It doesn’t always have to be true, but the idea that this word will hurt a woman’s feelings is enough for it to be used as a weapon for some. If I wanted to hurt a woman’s feelings, calling her a “slut” would be very weak.

[Emmalouise03]

i fucking hate guys. they're all just pieces of shit. sometimes i consider becoming a lesbian because of their bullshit, and they don't have respect for girls at all, and some think they they do. and they say things to girls thats not supposed to hurt them, but it does hurt them. cuz boys r so fucking stupid they do not understand a thing. im 15 and i know that lol

[AliGodlike]

? :|

[backdoorman]

I never would have guessed you were 15. :)

[btgs012]

Ok a little over the top but i also see where you are coming from, sort of

[Adam_INTJ]

Girls hurt guys by just saying no or giving a mean glance. It's a two way street. What we all need to do is have thick skin.

Here's the kicker: if a woman gets a divorce, she gets the guy's stuff and kids, but somehow she's the victim.

Go ahead and be a lesbian--spare a poor guy the pain. You won't be missed.

[thatguyfromtoronto]

wow so much hate for guys

[Emmalouise03]

@Adam_INTJ well that means she has to take care of them. and thats ofc hard when ur single

[Adam_INTJ]

She's obviously not worse off in most cases because the vast majority of divorces are initiated by the woman--who would not voulenteer to be worse off.

[carlos1978]

I'm going to have unique opinion because I don't view the word slut in the same connotation as so many others. I mean sure, you keep things to yourself and that's put it around like your bank card information, but no further than that. I don't believe a woman doing something she wanted to do should get her a bad label

[Anonymous]

When she is fucking with/or more than 2 different guys in a day/a week/a month.

When she is in a small community/a small circle, and fucking with every guys in it.

When she is working in a company and fucking every guy at the office.

When she is in a committed relationship with her boyfriend, but still doing all above.

For me, it is never about the way she dress, slut is more about the personality.

[KiaTate]

Different reasons.
My brothers call me a slut when I eat their food.
An ex called me a slut when I didn't want to be with him anymore, he called me other things too but you want to hear about sluts.
My friend calls me a slut during sex, but its never out of anger.

[Redstang88]

Don’t think I’ve ever actually called a girl that, but i’ve known a few that qualified.
Briefly worked with a girl that would go around knocking on doors at night (we lived on site) and would sleep with the first guy that let her in. I don’t judge for a bit of casual fun, but that girl fucked half the camp in the 3 weeks she was there.

[nofunkgiven]

Not being respectful of her own body and giving it anyone and everyone, whether by allowing anyone to see or fuck

[ktdec]

What do you define as respect? Is giving yourself pleasure not respect for your body?

[nofunkgiven]

You also give yourself pleasure and relief when u smoke, or when u take drugs, but u r totally disrespecting your body by harming it

[nofunkgiven]

And by that I definitely don't mean that having sex a lot of men can be bad for health (although that's how stds spread) ... but the point I'm trying to make is that just because u pleasure yourself it doesn't mean it's good for u

[ktdec]

That totally makes sense. Now I have 3 vital questions.
1) how would sex be “bad” for you then? (Assuming you are being safe).
2) How is having a lot of sex = to having no respect for yourself/your body?
3) why does this concept only apply to women?

[ktdec]

That emoji was supposed to be a 3 lol

[nofunkgiven]

1. It is very important for people (men and women) to value their bodies. For example you don't let everyone know all your personal info or your secrets.. because you let only the closest people whom u trust know those things. Just like you respect what's beneath your body (or more like your soul) u should also respect your body.. by not letting everyone have access to it.. only someone special..

2. I made it clear in point 1
3. It applies to both men and women.

This is my personal opinion.

[ktdec]

So basically you should refrain from doing what you love (even if it poses no little to no harm to you) just because some people believe that your body should be a secret?

[nofunkgiven]

It's not about what others believe. U should do that if u believe it and don't if u don't.
I for myself believe it and it doesn't matter if someone believes someone else.
To me it's my own beliefs and my own decisions. I make sure to respect both my body and my soul because I'm important to me. Nd it's important to me that I share those with the people who deserve it.

[ktdec]

So then why would you call OTHERS sluts if they don’t follow your beliefs?

[iluvtoknow]

@ktdec

Sorry to jut into your comment chain, but:

Just because someone else doesn't have the same beliefs as you does not mean that your beliefs don't apply to them from your perspective.

To restate:
If person A believes idea I and person B believes idea II. Idea I for Person A doesn't just apply to Person A. And Idea II for Person B doesn't just apply to Person B.

People can't force you to share their beliefs, but that does not meant they cannot act on their beliefs.

All in all, calling people "sluts" is just a jerkish thing to do. I don't condone it.

But I don't have much respect for people acting promiscuously just because they can. And I have every right to feel that way and stay away from people who do so.

[nofunkgiven]

@ktdec i actually never openly call a girl a slut in her face.. I don't think it's respectful towards the girl. But I certainly call her a slut in my mind and judge her. This doesn't mean she isn't free to do what she wants.
Porn stars get called sluts because to most people porn stars are sluts. To some porn stars, they don't see themselves as sluts, they see it as a career.. but this doesn't stop others from calling them sluts, but no one is telling them to not be what they want to be. Same for me. I don't mind what other girls do. But I also don't hesitate to judge them.
Hope I got my point straight.

[nofunkgiven]

Another thing is that my beliefs are what define my definition for a slut. Everyone has their own definition and beliefs and of course whoever follows that definition will fall into that category.
Now I also believe of sex after marriage but girls who do it before marriage definitely don't fall into the slut category according to my beliefs. My parents tho consider every woman/man who's had sex before marriage a slut/manwhore.

So see Everyone has got an opinion about it and its ok. This doesn't mean those girls can't live the way they want because my or someone else's opinions don't dictate how they live their lives.

[Q-tip-boy]

Agreed with no fuck given. Even many children deny showing their bodies to unknown people. It shows that theyre deeply connected with thier parents.

[BaileyisDarcy]

Id consider someone like me a slut (i will sleep with multiple different people at a time, but not ons with a stranger)

But i wouldn't outwardly call someone that except as a joke.

[opurba]

Slut word is man's compliment of dresses. Dress that make them horny n distracted from work if worn by any woman is called slut. So if anyone named u as slut it means it dresses make people horny.

[Breton_Bates]

I would only call a girl a slut if she told me to. I generally call women nice things. And if I ever did call her a slut it was just because I was trying to please her.