As a virgin I shouldn't say. It's a taboo question for me.
My definition might include 90% of Western women.
As a virgin I shouldn't say. It's a taboo question for me.
My definition might include 90% of Western women.
Do you consider yourself a western woman as an armenian? The Kardashian women have a certain reputation. Also women in even the most conservative cultures are usually not virgins at your age because they are married (also regardless of how they dress women in other parts of the world are having sex. Turkish people have more sexual partners in a lifetime than in any western country https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/average-number-of-sexual-partners-by-country and 80% of Iranian women have had premarital sex https://iranwire.com/en/society/60665/ ) Regardless, I am not going to judge women for wanting lots of sex when almost all men do. We would do better to worry about domestic violence and child abuse.
It's normally a mentality or mindset, in my opinion many people make mistakes and some being for the right reasons that lead to bad results and even tho there's slutty things, there's also being a slut which have a minor difference, but long story short a mindset without any self respect is what makes someone a slut, people gotta have standards and boundaries for someone not to have any, they must be so far gone that they have no respect for themselves and surely shouldn't expect it from others if they fail to even do the same.
A derogatory word used by most people just trying to hurt someone else. It doesn't really matter what it means... Everyone has their own definition based on their own values. But it's so loosely thrown around that it become meaningless.
The amount of times I've been called a slut by a guy just because I rejected him is amazing. It's literally the opposite of it's meaning... Says everything about it
No such thing. The term "slut" is highly pejorative and derogatory. It is just a social weapon used to enforce traditional sexual norms by assigning a negative label to behaviors that are often tolerated or even celebrated when performed by men. It is a subjective judgment of character based on perceived sexual activity.
Aren't sexual choices made by the character of the woman?
@marish01, there's no connection between a person's character and what they do sexually. Abstaining from sex certainly doesn't make a person "good", nor does promiscuity make one "bad". Some cultures connect the two more than others. @Nikki1989 is spot on.
@SamIam96 sexual choices come from the character. It is called a CHOICE. A choice your BRAIN MAKES
@SamIam96 I said sexual choices DO come from the character.
@SamIam96 so where do sexual choices cone from? Ask yourself why some women choose to sleep around and others don't
@SamIam96 sexual choices do come from character. You said no. I said you are wrong.
A man who values intimacy, thinks about raising non promiscuous daughters should definitely care about his woman's views on sexual choices. An unapoligetic promiscuous woman raises promiscuous daughters and she won't value her intimacy with her man because to her intimacy is a casual thing that she had shared with the men who gave 0 fuck who she is as a person. She knew she was nothing and was OK with being treated as nothing. This does tell a lot about her character
@marish01, you and I clearly disagree on this. Your last reply has a lot of assumptions that are not correct. I challenge you to ask questions of the women on this site. I think you will find that there are many who enjoy sex, have had it before marriage and they highly value intimacy.
If you're using the word promiscuous to mean slutty. I don't agree on that either. I can't imagine how a mother would raise a daughter to enjoy or be indifferent towards sexual pleasure. How would you do that?
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To me slut mean nothing it was a word used by men way back when
You know when guys were cheating on there girl friends. And it was ok and if the girl wanted to get even and got cought she was a slut
But then things changed. A man could go out and have a new girlfriend every week and he was called a stud. Haha.
But if a girl went out with a guy , and he wasn't the right guy for her. ( you know couldn't please her) guys still tried using the slut word.
If a guy can do it
Then a girl can do it
Because the guy is doing it because he wants to get as much as he possibly can if a girl. Does it she's just looking for the man that can please her who's more right
For doing it their way , the woman is
So to me , s*** means nothing , except for if you cheated on your girlfriend and she cheated on you and that's the only words you could think of power to guess.
That's me slut means nothing
If any?\nThing it means equal rights
Most people just use it as an insult. It's not really much deeper then that.
Personally I've taken it in stride. A slut is just a women who is open, honest and unashamed about there sexuality, what ever that means to you.
@emeraldsaphire You are correct, and I agree with you. Most of my intimate women friends would be classed as 'sluts' by that definition. (Open, honest, and unashamed) By that definition, I LOVE TO DEATH every 'slutty' woman I have ever known.
A woman who's never been with a man and only desires to be with one man can also be open, honest, and unashamed about her sexuality.. Or least unashamed..
Someone that has multiple sexual partners’ that is considered Easy , a person that can’t stay loyal and faithful to one person , their mission is to get laid from multiple people as much as possible , they only care about themselves and no one else , the second they meet someone attractive , they will jump into bed with them and then eventually jump into bed with someone else , they aren’t faithful and loyal people , that’s the definition of a slut, and guys’ can be sluts as well.
I asked AI and one of the responses it gave me is...
According to the Collins English Dictionary, a slut is a promiscuous woman or someone who has many casual sexual partners. It’s considered a highly offensive word and is traditionally used when referring to a woman; however, it can also be used as an insult toward men.
Other responses were similar.
But what's in a label? Is it really important?
A girl that has sex just because of pleasure I have an an aunt in mexico I was joking with older men than me in mexico. Oder man tells my aunt slut of the town hey this guy has green paper he s visiting from the us. She tells him I all care is about that d... . I giggle the laugh.
They laugh
I’m a virgin myself and I agree most Western women are sluts. I think if she has casual sex and has had too many short-term relationships, she is a slut. I think a woman who can’t stay in a relationship for at least 5 years is slutty. Cheaters are sluts too.
Most people here defend slutty behaviour because they know they’ll marry one some day. Might as well accept it.
Yes that is why so many Western men defends sluts. They know they have no better options
I think it's a straight forward thing.. A woman who freely gives her body away.. I don't think that describes 90% of women... Being a virgin till you find the one that you wanna give it to is great, and is the way it should be done, but it doesn't make you morally superior..
you give your pussy to everyman giving your mouth is okay that's why it's not included in body counts
A woman with high body count, 2 can already be seen as a high body count by my standards.
@marish01 I never use that term. Very vulgar and even the people who use it 'don't know what a 'slut"is... there is no such thing as a slut?
@Nikki1989 That kind of trash talk has gone on ad nauseam, and the trashy people that use that kind of stupid talk are 10 rungs down the ladder of decency from the people they intend to demean. It is sad to hear supposedly civilized 'adults' refer to women as 'sluts' and it should be an unforgivable slur to everyone.
I never use that word, or think of a woman in that way. To me, "slut" is a word used by a man to describe a woman having sex with other men, but not with them, and used by a woman to describe a woman having sex with men that won't have sex with them.
So wrong. You know it is not correct. Many men can look down on sluts whether they slept with them or not.
Tell me why I abhor female promiscuity?
You said "used by a woman to describe a woman having sex with men that won't have sex with them." I use the word slut and I think being a slut is ap bad thing. Your assumption is too vague and even inaccurate
Yet you make nonsensical assumptions about people
Are you out of your mind?
"To me, "slut" is a word used by a man to describe a woman having sex with other men, but not with them, and used by a woman to describe a woman having sex with men that won't have sex with them.". Who said this?
Someone who sleeps around for pleasure. I mean…. Okay. Someone can not be perfect but not be a slut. Someone can genuinely regret their past decisions and walk away from that lifestyle. And not be a slut.
My definition of a slut, whore, hoe (whatever you want to call it) is a woman who has zero self respect and thinks that sleeping around with a bunch of men is acceptable.
It's a woman with:
Many casual sexual partners (dozens of them), without being in a relationship
They don't have to pay her (unlike prostitute, she is "free of charge")
She usually has low standards
Males can also be sluts (but people usually think of them as "studs").
It’s a promiscuous woman.
Slutty is acting like a promiscuous woman.
It’s considered derogatory but has been used in many different contexts not associated with its definition so lm not surprised to see this question.
I don’t call anyone a slut “unless she wants me to 😉” but I still think if you are a promiscuous woman that has a problem with a word that defines you then that’s a you and your baggage problem not everyone else’s.
Woman who intentionally destroys other people relationship/marriages with using her attraction and exploiting weaknesses of some men.
No male sluts?
A classic definition is a slut does it with everybody.
A bitch does it with everybody but you.
I think that term of phrase is dead now. It’s probably better known as someone that sleeps around, male or female. Mainly just said to insult someone these days because of its historic meaning
Into casual sex.
Willing to have sex with men she is not married to. Thinks non marriage sex is ok.
Sleeping around rather than fucking the same guy for the same reason (pleasure) because the 2nd method brings intimacy too.
Definition of a slut , hmmm , id say its a women with a reputation most players wish they had. I love the double standard men are studs women are sluts.
Anyone can speak to Truth Marish. Your virginity doesn't impact that.
My definition is a woman who sleeps with a man or men in a habitually transactional way
Someone who's clubbed (men) or been clubbed by (women) seemingly half the population of my city of Windsor.(Two hundred thirty-thousand people, hence {in a true number] about forty or fifty people.)
Slut: An archaic word used to describe women who enjoy sexual pleasure.
Any woman that wears no clothes or very little and has sex with more than two men in a given year. I bet 90% of the women here or reading this would qualify.
I agree with @Nikki1989 , no such thing as a slut 🤷♀️💃
Someone who fucks everyone and anyone, no matter what.
If you feel the need to refer to past relationships as your "body count"...
I can't be bothered to judge other people by their lifestyle. Let people live and mind your own business.
A slut gives her body away for free. She is generous. A whore gives her body away for a price. She is transactional.
A slut is someone who enjoys their sexuality and actively looks to engage in it with others, regardless of relationship.
A woman who will have sex with a guy she doesn't even know
A woman who has sex with any guy she's dating.
Defination of slut are those women or men have multiple sex partners those are called slut. Slut does not stand for only women.
I'd say its women who prefer short term mating over long term and are not too picky about their mates.
When the number of sexual partners exceeds half your age.
There is no such a thing as a woman who has sex with a stranger or with many men. True. No woman does that
Anyone that has had sex with more than 1 person for every 17 years on this earth.
Someone who cheats on a partner to whom a commitment has been made.
I don't make up definitions. Words have set meanings.
A female stud. A guy plenty of women he gets a pat on the back and his peers look up to him. A girl gets the total opposite
A slut is a girl who fuck anything with a dick ! Normally fucks several dicks a day
Slut means never enough for having sex with different man every time...
A woman who has sex for money.
A whore that works for free.
Slut is an anagram of lust.
a good girl...
I am also a virgin
spread her legs easily for everyone.
I disagree
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