Would you date a girl who used to be known as a slut?

Question

She used to be but not anymore.

hahahmm · Accepted Answer

Some guys would but as far as guys who don't want to be with a "slut", how do you convince a guy that you're not living that life anymore? It's not easy if he has any clue about how good some people are at lying. It's like you're trying to sell an ink pen and you tell people you accidentally dropped it in the toilet but it's all good because you cleaned it. It's better to be a former prostitute than a former slut. I mean, some women do quit their job. Few women quit their character.

If you're talking about yourself, your best bet is to totally change your circle of friends or even change cities.

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

PROVIDING she's been sufficiently 'selective' so as to NOT have incurred incurable STD's...
the appellation of 'slut' (I HATE that word) is usually 'awarded' by many who have
greater inhibitions than their envious libidos~

We ALL have 'past's... for EVERY luscious torrid lascivious memory
there had to have been AT LEAST TWO participants!

Speaking for myself... its only 'kinky' the FIRST time; and EVERYBODY HAS a FIRST time!
If YOU have not the experiences to LEAD, then espouse your humility to allow HER to lead. <3 ;)

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Just how would you know this person "used to be a slut."? From her self reporting? From others talking about her? This is so riddled with questions. The fact that anyone could call her a slut or she would call herself a slut is worrying.

Darcia · Accepted Answer

No, she could be carrying sexual diseases. If she has no respectful for her body and the way she carries herself. Then you think she would have decency to go get tested? Probably not! Modesty has to exist.

Avicenna · Answer

I probably wouldn’t know anything about her rep anyway.  I might if she met my dating criteria and doesn’t have kids.

NyceGuyFinishingLast · Answer

I can say yes to this as I have dated such a girl but in my scenario I was unaware of her past until we were getting serious. She had a complete emotional break down because she had to tell me. I think she was feeling guilty because there would be times when a random guy would say hi to her and she just had this look on her face. So she came clean and told me that she was very active in school and after school. Hardest thing she ever had to do. But, I made the decision to stay with her anyway. But, that was many many years ago.

Andres77 · Answer

I used to date prostitutes... while they were still working so... one exgf would get a call at 11 pm, go see some client (s) and come back to me. Mostly she showered first but we always had sex every time she came back from seeing clients. If she'd had a good client that she enjoyed fucking sometimes she'd sneak back in the the apartment and wake me up by sitting on my face and telling me about everything that they did to her as I ate her pussy until she came in my mouth, then I'd get to fuck my own girlfriend. (hi, my name is Andres and I'm a sex addict... recovering) Plus, my wife was a self-admitted slut and proud of it. She was fucking around while we dated. I needed her. So I just accepted it. She eventually stopped. We still use her stories for motivational fun in bed.

RemoErdosain · Answer

Probably not, but not because of embarrassment or something like that: Because I think someone like that is probably very likely to cheat later on if the relationship goes south or something. I need a partner that will remain loyal even during the hardest times and even in the face of other opportunities. That's where true loyalty comes into play. Someone who used to LOVE to fuck with many different people is at the bottom of the list of people likely to make that kind of commitment

Anonymous · Answer

I did that once. I was warned by a few people that she had a reputation, but she was good to me at first so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. She started acting suspiciously, and at the time I used to post on here so I asked a question about it. People here said that I should trust her. She ended up cheating on me, surprise surprise.

I've seen guys do the exact same thing. They get warned, they ignore the warnings, as other people (women especially) tell them that the girl's past doesn't matter, and they almost always get cheated on.

So no, I would not, and men should avoid taking those women seriously as well as those who say that the past doesn't matter.

JSmuve · Answer

Depends on whether she puts out or not. If she's one of them "born-again virgins" then god no. But if she puts out then it depends on how we get along, how hot she is, how big of a slut she was, and how big of a slut she'll be for me. If she was a huge slut but now won't do half the shit she used to do then I could see her as a casual fling. Like having a used car until you can get yourself a new one. Her hotness and how we get along would determine how long that casual fling would last.

So, maybe, with shades of grey.

Gedaria · Answer

I went to school with her, saw her at a club , years after
She stripped and had sex for money.
I got chatting to her , she said I only do it for the money , I only have sex with a condom. If they don't like it they don't get anything.
We never did have sex we kissed a lot did oral but I'm happy at that.
Strange we split when she got a job on a cruise ship.
I teased her I said didn't think they offered your type of services on board.
She said I'm just a dancer. But you never know I might get some customers.

lonestar_01 · Answer

Personally no. Now, if she had to turn to stripping, prostitution etc for money then I don't mind that, I come from a poor family background myself and have had to fight for money. But sleeping around just for the hell of it gives you a bad rep in my book whether you are male or female. Shows lack of control and probably means you will cheat in the relationship

Anonymous · Answer

Yes - for a few reasons...

The phrase “known to be a slut” is problematic...

- Known by whom?
- What’s the proof?
- What definition of the word “slut”?

People change and if I like her now is really all that matters.

All guys are sluts, so why can’t women be sluts too?

Aguysopinion4799 · Answer

The past is the past and rumours are rumours, give them a chance till they give you reason not to, in other words, trust them till they do something untrustworthy to you.

Girls have been called sluts recently for simple insults, so it would be unfair to refuse to date a girl that used to be called one without giving her a chance to prove herself otherwise.

triff · Answer

What classes her as a slut Is it that she has a higher than average sex drive Which isn't gender controlled as a man can be this to We live in a much more open world Where all gender and sexual desires or fetishes are catered for So I ask you again What is a slut in this modern day

Dongtai · Answer

Absolutely. I’d be smart about it. Not ignore red flags. Nothing would get past me. But you never know where a person is in life, if she’s moved on from being “a slut” yeah. I love experienced girls as long as they don’t have diseases and have relationship priorities.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

That depends on a lot of variables.

How healthy is she? What changed her behavior? How long ago did she change direction? What does she live for now? What does she see in me, really? What else do I see in her? What set her down her original path, and what does that say about her priorities?

I'm not gonna say that I can't forgive / look past. But this is not as simple a topic as you make it out to be.

Petermorgan34 · Answer

If I was dating her already and found out it would be weird but able work through it, but if I knew going in, it would be a hard pass. In my opinion it would be kind of gross me out a bit to be involved with someone with a lot of sexual partners, but I wouldn't judge her for it

hellacray · Answer

Probably not date seriously.

Cause this already creates a trust issue. It's really hard to just take someone's word for it that they've changed.

What's stopping you from cheating on me behind my back? A little bit of alcohol and you could be back to your slutty ways.

Rather than torturing myself taking a chance on someone. It's better to just have peace of mind and not get involved at all.

winterfox10 · Answer

I tried to date a girl like that. She turned out to be really disrespectful. Her reputation was that she was a bit slutty, but worse that she was a total user. People change when you date them from when you are just friends... I'm sad to say that the rumors turned out true in her case.

Anonymous · Answer

sex is an integral part of the relationship and a nonverbal form of communication. women normally judge men by the best they have ever had vs who is actually right for them (as long as they can get society to back them up). height (something everyone can see vs dick size (you have to look to find out). The main problem is that if the issues that made her that way in the first place aren't solved shell go back to doing those things especially if she relates sex to freedom. even if she says that she changed if more important to know why.

Novacane · Answer

Yeah, Im sure most people have gone through that phase and that is okay it happens, as long as she is not doing that anymore and she doesn't compare me to others then I wouldn't mind at all, that's her past, we all have a past.

normalice · Answer

As long as there is mutual physical attraction, sexual compatibility, and no glaring personality conflicts, we're good. The only issue with former sluts is that they may be jaded about sex, which may manifest in sexually incompatible ways.

Yads_Is_Back · Answer

Ehh, once one always one. The numbers don’t decrease with time.

Hangry22 · Answer

I would not date an ex man whore. AIDs has a window period of 5 -10 years. And i wouldn't date a girl cause i am not gay

Finchie40 · Answer

No , be a big turn off to me that she had that kind of reputation , if she was able to do that in the past who’s to say she won’t do it again , would be hard To trust someone like that

Not_Average · Answer

If that mindset and behavior was assured to stay in the past, then sure. I rather date a girl who wasn't a huge slut, but it's not a deal breaker given that she meets my standards.

Anonymous · Answer

How?
I would see on label number of previous users?
Or should I just listen to all gossip?

In case she will tell me, I would like to know, that when I walk down the road, where she or me lives, every man would not be able to say that she been with him...

And how will I know that 'used to be' will not come back and she will not cheat at every given opportunity?

Jenom · Answer

If she's legitimately changed her ways, then yes. My ex was a hooker a few years before she met me and by the time her and I started dating she did a 180 and turned her life around.

WesBrewer · Answer

I would, but I would be less attached at first, and I might check up more often than I would normally. It would take me a while to trust them whole, but I am chill with it.

TessCasie · Answer

Yes why not , she might have changed for the better. Only while dating her you can figure it out. But lol if you still sense she is a slut. Drop her a ss and run !

Chris786 · Answer

Date yes, marriage no. That's my rule for most women though.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No. I'm not interested in trying to mess with damaged goods. What if she caught something from one of her former lovers? Why should I expose myself to that?

Puppies1234 · Answer

I meant to say yes but anyways I'm Bi and even if she was a slut people change and a persons a person no matter what they did wrong.

Mikelaughs · Answer

It really depends on the person, and what her history is. Are you in this situation now? Follow me if you want to talk about it

imredheaded · Answer

I'd date a girl that is still a slut. As long as she is happy with me and she hasn't like physically hurt somebody I don't really care about the history because I am with the person as they exist today.

AmeerX · Answer

If she was a bitch who used guys inclidng me in the past than I don't think I will be able to give her a chance. If it is that she didn't break someone's heart the I am willing to give her a chance

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Not enough info. Does "Known as" mean she was or was she lied about? Being lied about happens a lot, especially in high school. Or if she was promiscuous, how long ago was it and what sparked the change?

captain_voidwalker · Answer

I use the dick stacking test, I take the number of men a woman has been with and multiply that number by 12. Then I take that number and I divide it by 2. If I jump from a platform that many feet high and can get injured, thats to many dicks I'm out

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Yes for fun. Not seriously. Hell no to marriage and kids or forsaking all other women for you. If you were cool and just wanted to go on dates and fuck a bunch for a year or two i wouldn't be opposed to it. Id still be dating on the side though.

SCDivinitySoul · Answer

I mean it wouldn't bother me but I don't know if I would date her immediately , but prob end up sleeping with her till I do probably end up catching feelings.

Billyscotter · Answer

It wouldn't deter me. It would be a turnoff if she talked too freely about her wild earlier life, and I wouldn't be too interested in pursuing a relationship.

kkirk4442 · Answer

Is she just known as a slut, or actually is a slut?

Tonytoutouni123 · Answer

As long as she is a „bad boy virgin“ I am cool with it. But if she used to be a slut I highly doubt that she is a „bad boy virgin“...

boggboss · Answer

Depends on how known she was and if she had been with any of my friends

Anonymous · Answer

Statistically a girl w many partners is not a good match. More likely to divorce you and take half your shit. More likelihood of paternal discrepancy as well

just_a_potato · Answer

Well if she isn't a "slut" anymore that's good enough for me, not judging her past only her present.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I would "date" her long and hard, but would never be serious about her. You can't turn a whore into a housewife.

BeyondCuriosity · Answer

I've had a lot of partners and I wouldn't judge her for doing the same. Most likely, we would have some REALLY good sex! lol Lots of practice and experiences to get creative with.

FishyNinja · Answer

If you wrote "Would you... who used to be a slut" then i would answer no. The "... known as a slut" could be that it was just a rumour that she was a slut.

Texaskid1 · Answer

Wow... as per the survey it seems that most guys on G@G would date an ex- slut.  E

d1sord3Rx · Answer

A girls past is none of my biz. Besides i like a girl with a little experiance lol

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

As long as she was faithful in all the serious relationships she had, sure why not?

SnubbS · Answer

I find the question really weird because I'm not concerned at all about her past, only how she acts around me and treats me.

Anonymous · Answer

I'll get hate for this but whatever. The 49% of guys that said yes are liars. No guy wants to date a cum slut, we only want to fuck them.

A key that can open many locks is a good key. A lock that can be opened by many keys is a bad lock.

andy530 · Answer

Yes but I would want to help her understand there is nothing wrong with her sexual past

loveslongnails · Answer

Send her over. She'll probably make a great girlfriend !

warrenstone · Answer

Nope. Think before you fuck. That shit will come back to haunt you.

magiusX26 · Answer

kind of want such really. easier for her to get freaky when we get to knockin boots

Anonymous · Answer

hahahaha no. I don't want those nasty sluts even near me.

Brendan824 · Answer

That's just a label someone else gave to her for reasons unknown I'm not one to judge people and believe in multiple chances for people

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Probably/maybe. Depending on what they did to earn that title, I would feel bad for them. I Willa taka for Artur

Anonymous · Answer

We all used to be known as a slut to someone.

IowaTony · Answer

I thinks it's because having a girlfriend that has lots of experience is very sexy and willing to keep being sluty while with me means she will keep getting experience very very sexy

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