Guys, would you date a girl who used to be a slut?

[Anonymous]

Serious relationship, not just for fun

[Summeroflove]

Well… Context matters nobody is perfect but I would want to know if she genuinely regrets her past life choices and has walked away from it… Or not.

See plenty of people can start to see that they are getting older now and want to get married and have a family. They don’t really change they hide and mask it… and try to be “normal”. They will hide their past choices and many times start living double lives. That’s a problem.

I would respect someone more whose honest… and not act two goodie two shoes and then later on find a bunch of stuff out.

[Asker]

No regrets but realized that certain things are but worth the risk and issues they bring

[Asker]

Not worth...

[Summeroflove]

Well… Chances are many people who don’t regret it will relapse to some extent. Even if it’s not to the same level chances are high I’ll be cheated on.

I don’t live that way so it’s reasonable to want someone who doesn’t as well.

[Summeroflove]

So for me… no

[Staximus]

Only if she was just being young and dumb and and stopped being a slut in her teenage years. If she continued to be a slut into her 20's then no. If I come home to some guy fucking my girlfriend or wife, I'm probably going to jail for the rest of my life.

[Asker]

Mainly period from 15-18. Was sleeping around a lot but never cheated and never will

[MrChinaski]

Body count does not matter. It suggests she maybe (it depends on all the circumstances, but commonly) made some bad life choices at a point in time. Who hasn't? If today she has all the characteristics I would otherwise be attracted to, then it's a Hard Yes from me.

[genericname85]

probably no to be hoest. cause that sort of feels like i'm throwing out my dignity. i didn't live that life and now i'm supposed to settle for someone that did? feels wrong.

[Anonymous]

Why would I be a hypocrite and refuse to date a girl with a lower body than myself? Is it ok for me to have had sex with 30 different women by the age of 35, but she's had sex with 5 or 10 different guys by the same age? I don't think so.

[Asker]

What if she had quite a few more than you?

[Opinion Owner]

Quite a few? You mean like 50% more? Twice as many? I'd think " hmm, I like this girl's appetite! Let's have a discussion!" I don't really believe that monogamy works for everyone, and the history of the planet tends to prove that. Besides, I've only met one girl in my life that had a body count equal to or higher to mine. 9 out of 10 women I've ever met are in the single digits, and most are less than 5, and many are one or two. I don't date virgins anymore. Once was enough.

[Asker]

Girls get slut shamed a lot, I don't know many who are honest about their body count when asked, myself included

[Opinion Owner]

I don't care about it, for sure. Slut shaming is hypocritical as fuck. What's your body count now? Mine is now over 45 different women at age 39. I used to have a name list, but damn, I lost it. LOL

[Asker]

I don't count but it's high. I left highschool with 12 or 13 and while in college I went out partying and hooking up a lot. Maybe ~2 new guys a month on average over the years... You can do the math. I stopped with it after graduating

[Opinion Owner]

2 New Guys per month is 24 a year. If you went to a 4 year college, that would be 96 different guys while you were there, plus the 12/13 from high school. So let's say you're safely between 90 and 110 different guys and you're around 24 years old? You got me doubled. Let's meet. Where do you live? :)~~~

[Berethor]

I don't want to, once a slut, always a slut, she is dirty and untrustworthy, so no thanks.

[slatyb]

I hate the s-word, and would never use it, so yes, I would.

[stratford]

Once a slut, always a slut - but that's a good thing as it means she is comfortable with her sexuality

[Anonymous]

I'd be open to it, but it definitely isn't preferable.

[jahaims]

No, she has no self respect and has unnecessary baggage

[RedInnocent69]

A reformed slut? Hmmm, the older you get, the less important it becomes

[Anonymous]

If you want to marry and remain loyal to me then I will 😘❤️

[Anonymous]

Of course not. People do not change at their core.

[Xalooo]

CI have to love it so much

[QuietRunner]

yes and yes and yes

[Anonymous]

Not a whore, but a slut is ok

[ChicoFromThe305]

Not my cup of tea no

[BarryLiverstone]

Why was she a slut?

[Asker]

Sleeping around a lot

[BarryLiverstone]

I mean if she’s going to cheat, prob not. But if she’s going to be loyal sure

[TonyMetal___86]

Heck no

[In_Trance]

Never