Well one, no one is obligated to date them, they made a life choice and that has consequence. I'm sure an emotionally abusive man feels bad when women don't date him but that doesn't change the fact that they are not dating him because of HIS actions. Further more we know that this has long term ramifications on her ability to function within a long term relationship. That's not fair to demand that a man ignore her actions and take that risk. She is far more likely to cheat and divorce (statistically speaking) then a woman who did not sleep around so what right do these women have to force that man to take that risk? What about his feelings? His feelings of fear that she will betray him, that she will divorce him or his fear that she is just using him and would be more then happy to go back to her old life style if she gets the chance? Why does he have to bare that burden? That is not his responsibility, that is not something he should have to deal with, that is simply not fair for her to make the choice and then force him to suffer the consequence.
That said I don't think a person should have to suffer forever for a mistake. So it comes down to why she stopped when she stopped and what she is doing to ensure that this doesn't happen again and what she is doing to ensure that this does not affect her relationships. Those are the main questions she would have to answer before I would consider it. If she just stopped yesterday then I am not going to risk it (just like how people who smoke claim they have quite and then in the same breath light up another cigarette), if she quite because she got older and men are no longer chasing her then clearly she did not stop because she chose to but because circumstances forced her to so I would not trust her. If she stopped because she wants to "settle down" then again, I am not going to trust her, she wanted her cake and to eat it too, she wanted to party and sleep around and then have that family and husband and pretend like she was this pure person, that is not going to work with me. So she would have to do quite a bit before she would be trusted and rightly so as she has not lived her life in a way that would make her trustworthy as it pertains to relationships (would you trust the word of some one who lies all the time? Would you trust a thief with your money? Then why would you trust a relationship with some one who has not shown any inclination towards wanting one? You haven't developed the skills for it).
I'd *prefer* not, it's a turn off.
Though if we get along and all that then then unless I was quite sure she'd be inexperienced I just wouldn't ask. If the number is not zero then I don't want to know and we should just avoid the topic altogether and I'll try to focus on the positive things we have. She'd have to be significantly better than other girls around me that I have a shot with to be picked over them. I'd very much prefer to go with the inexperienced girl.
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I have a slut as a friends with benefits. She's fun now and then. I've never taken her on an actual date though.
Date one though? As in, relationship, meet my family, maybe marry?
HAHA no.
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Sluts made their choice. They wanted to be sluts, they got their wish. What low quality guy would commit to a girl who gave her body away freely? What low quality guy would put a ring on a girl, make a home with her, knowing she's had sooo many past lovers? Nu uh. I do look for girls to seriously date, but I'm mainly looking for sweet innocent girls a lot younger than me.
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I do all the time and I never judge with the word slut. Women are naturally promiscuous in my view and so I simply expect them to without warning be with another guy one day behind my back. I am not jolted by this behavior because I plan on it and I know it is her nature so it makes the transition easy.
Previous behavior is the best reflect of futur behavior : there is nothing like a former slut or a former cheater or a former anything.
People never change, they just say it because they want to have it easier.
But, don't be afraid, I am sure there are a lot of "sex thirsty guys" out there witch gonna be very happy to date with this kind of girls.
I would never call her a slut in the first place. The present and the future are what is important not the past. That said there is probably a reason she acted this way so I would make an effort to find out why - It is far more likely that it was an insecure little girl seeking affection rather than a rampant promiscuous young woman.
I would, if she is the right girl. They say former prostitutes make the best wives too, I know at least two guys who married a former prostitute and are living for more than 10 years together now, one family has two daughters and they are a normal family
Not really, to be honest
I am not sure if I can live with it, since I am exactly the opposite, I have never been on a date, so it would be a hard pill to sallow.
Guys kind of have a hangup about this issue. I think its an ego thing. I don't know but you'll usually find that people won't wanna date a girl who is or was very promiscuous.
I guess that all depends on how many partners she has had total? And is she clean?
As the saying goes "once a hoe always a hoe", so I would rather not date a slut.
Not dating a slut... makes a guy a pig?
Um... ok?
Does logic not mean the same thing that it used to?
I love dating sluts. I would date a former slut, but I would prefer to date a current slut.
Slut is a word that shouldn't exist in my opinion. Everyone has different sexual desires and appetites and there's nothing wrong with sex.
Even if she's turned over a new leaf, I doubt I could bring myself to
I would. I am not perfect and as long as she is faithful she can be mine all the time.
Depending on her personality. If we have a lot in common.
soz but i ain't gonna date a girl who let herself go that easy
if i was a guy i'd vote no
Maybe, but probably not.
I don't see any reason against it.
Being a slut/former slut = deal breaker
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