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I know every family has problems, and every parent has failed in some way, but this is no excuse. My grandma always promised she’d leave something for each of her grand kids when passes. When she died none of us received anything. I thought my grandma really just had nothing due to the fact that she was a struggling immigrant.

Just today I found out my grandma had thousands of dollars in multiple accounts. My mom was the one entitled. Instead of my mom giving to me n my siblings. She gave 100% to her brothers leaving us with nothing. Her reason for that is because my uncle doesn’t work. Which is not an excuse, my uncle is one of those guys who chooses not to work, has no ambition. Hate to say this about my own uncle, but it’s true. Me n my siblings needed that money more than anything. I’m trying to go back to school because I struggle working at a dead end job. And my sister finished school with $70k student debt. We need that money more than anything.

I’m not here to bitch about my parents. I understand all parents have screwed up n everyone can complain about their parents, but. This is was the last straw.

My mom has never been a real parent. She’s never taught us anything simply because she was too lazy. She never stood up for me when I was a child, used to verbally/emotionally abuse me, didn’t care when my dad would physically abuse me, and uses the bible to justify their evil ways. So this money situation has really shown me I don’t have a mother. I won’t ever even introduce my mom to my children. The only way she’ll meet them is if they wanna go find her. But I won’t make them visit her if they don’t wanna.

Am I wrong for this?

In western society, 3/4 Marriages end in divorce, so its like jumping out of a plane and the guy is like, "75% chance your chute won't open! Oh, and the legal system will screw you and reward her 80% of your sh*t after she takes your house, kids, and cheats on you!" Marriage doesn't benefit men at all besides some worthless tax credit. From a long term relationship to marriage, it goes from mutual trust to her controlling you by the balls. Marriages cost normally $20K+, its her fantasy, its all about her, and that $20K could get you a cool car and some stuff.

All the toxic feminism cancer going around. My opinion on feminism is that it shouldn't exist, its over, they won, they have all the rights we men have and more - feminists aren't needed anymore and the job is done, those remaining are insane and just looking for something be offended and bjtch about... and that whatever $0.30 pay gap crap doesn't cover male/female life choices and pregnancy so don't give me that bs, and that "pink tax" crap is bs too.

3 reasons to marry an American woman...
- You actually believe BBW = big BEAUTIFUL wife.
- You believe nagging is essential for personal growth.
- You really look forward to the day your BBW wife divorces you and you gladly fork over 50% over your hard-earned assets, plus child support and alimony. Then after that you have to figure out how to live on 20% of your income as an alcoholic with kids that hate you she brainwashed and you're dead of a heart attack at 45.

My brother saw all this madness and flew to Indonesia and married the hottest chick, thin, healthy, works hard like him teaching in China now, good with money, NOT glued to a phone 24/7, has no idea what twerking is, actually enjoys house chores, they cook together, she's not an entitled femenazi, etc etc.

I can't wait to follow his lead, I have some good friends in Bulgaria and want to move there for a while maybe get married like he did. They're like 1950s women before the madness ensued.