Do you hate your parents too?

[Anonymous]

I used to love my mother but i always hated my father. He was abusive. An alcoholic and drug addict, but that's not why he treated me like shit. He has serious mental issues. I know this sounds bad but i spent my childhood fantasizing his death and living my life without his abuse. As i said i used to love my mom even though she wasn't the nicest mother. She was cold and distant and was always too harsh on me but it was obvious that she cared about me, unlike my father. Still i always blamed my mother for staying in her marriage. My father was tormenting both of us but she never did anything. They ruined my childhood and because of that i'll always be emotionally wounded as an adult. I have lost all feelings for my mother and although it feels kind of liberating not to worry about anyone in your life it still feels awful for that very reason. But the reason i'm writing this is because my mom wasn't feeling good last night and although that worried me a little i couldn't possibly ask her if she needed any help because we have pretty much stopped talking even though we live in the same house. Then i woke up early in the morning, i looked at my mother sleeping alone in her bed and she looked so pale and frail, kind of like a corpse. I was overwhelmed. For a moment i truly thought she was dead. That was until i saw her chest moving. I wasn't sad or afraid but thinking that she was dead made me feel bad. It wasn't as easy a moment as i had expected. I feel like i have missed out on a lot of things i life, like the feeling of having parents, loving my parents and my whole childhood and i don't think i'll ever have a real life. Even now i feel terrible writing this. Pouring out my emotions like this makes me feel super gay😧

[JakeReeves]

Well..
I 75% hate my mother cuz whenever i talk to her in any little thing she yell at me, curse me and argue with me, and since my early childhood, she haven't give me that psychological health and balance through parenting, also she made my sister to slightly hate me although that i don't hurt my sister,..
On the other hand, i hate my father about 30%, cuz he thinks that he is perfect and he has no imperfections and mistakes, whenever i atart to discuss him in a logical moral way, he starts to yell and curse me, although i have the right opinion in the conversation..
Since i have been 13 years old, i started thinking about commiting suicide but i couldn't do it, those thoughts started to flash in my head because of my family life, and because of this my parents r divorced and i live with my father.. After all, no body is perfect, and you've got to bear your parents, because they can sometimes be good.

[JakeReeves]

Thanks for the MHO

[Ronald_25]

I love my parents but after the age of 18, even if you have the coolest parents, once you leave the house for uni/ move out, you cannot live with them again. You are an independent adult (I hope) and they naturally like telling you what to do.

[CandacePerry]

I hadn't yet move out of my parents house but want to move out

[myTake Owner]

No actually they never cared enough to tell me what to do. And i'm dying to move out but i can't afford a place of my own right now

[Ronald_25]

Moving out of your parents house actually has nothing to do with your parents in the end. I moved out 7 years ago. It may start as getting some distance but ultimately, it's time for you to leave the nest and discover yourself (I know that sounds cheesy).

You need to finalize your sexually orientation, what career you want to have, what your life plan is, where you want to live. When and if you want to settle down.

[mermaidia_lol]

Aw, I'm sowwy.

I love my parents to death, but sometimes I do ponder on what it would be like without them... if I could just bop them over the head whenever I get upset. It's just a normal human thought, right? But ultimately, I would miss them dearly if that were to happen.

[CandacePerry]

One thing. No it perfect. I tried too hard to get my mother trust back. Since all she does it just break down more then move. She doesn't care about me but just my two sisters that are brats. No wonder I prefer cats & dogs as my faimly.

[myTake Owner]

Why doesn't she trust you?

[CandacePerry]

I don't trusted her

[Anonymous]

I don't hate my parents
But I don't love them either.
When i was young we lived in a joint family, my father and my mother had fight with grandparents and my uncles.
We left that house stayed on roads, father's friend house, then we got a place.
Somehow father got back on but my childhood was gone by that time.( I don't blame him or anyone).
Then after that I got back into school and college but I left out the most important thing, that was love I saw only the hustle.
They care for me but not love me.
Let me give a example if you fast friend ask to remove your hair or I would never talk to you.
And your family ask to do the opposite.
You will definitely go with your family right.
That's the difference between love and care.
Love means you can't live without them and
Caring is like you can live on
Sure it will take time till the pain goes away.
In conclusion I never learnt to love someone or something. Just learnt to care about it

[PeterVeen]

Duh nobody likes to be bald

[BruceA1]

As a parent I asked you not to hate your parents it's not easy bringing up children which no doubt find out yourself soon. It's not easy job at all and if I'm paying for you to appreciate your parents on you've got them because one day they'll be gone

[bel_x]

i don’t hate my mother. she treats me like shit, but in my heart i know it’s because of all the stress. i absolutely hate my father. he is an abusive and manipulative asshole. he beats my siblings and i and has even hurt my mother. but my mom would rather be with an abuser than be alone.

[courtney06]

I feel disappointed in my mother. Sometimes I can't stand her and I deal with that by not interacting with her too much. The cat can give her the affection that I can't give her. We get along ok but it's not a loving mother daughter relationship. I do just enough so she won't nag me. I get along ok with my dad but I'm still somewhat hurt that he used to abuse me. He's not someone I can be around for too long either.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I have no genuine or shallow reason at all to hate them.
<3 I love them so much.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't hate them but I have difficulty loving them - one is very abusive - and the other never wanted children and always tries to sabotage my life out of jealous and a desire to destroy me.

[PressOn]

It's sad to hear your circumstances. Kudos to you for making a better life for yourself

[Cuppo_Mode]

No, they give me food, and video games, that's all I need. So yeh they good.

[myTake Owner]

LOL that's good parenting

[Cuppo_Mode]

Hell yeh

[PeterVeen]

So why isn't it enough for you?
You're old enough to live on your own yet the first thing you see when you wake up is your mom sleeping. Also, you blame your mom for not sticking up for you when you were younger (and you should) but isn't knowing he still hits her but not doing anything about it something you will regret later on in life?
Your father is so unhappy he needs a toxic substance just to feel alive for a few hours because that's what addiction is. The only way he can cope with his problems is trying to forget them just for a little while. He probably never had someone who help him out of it. Maybe you can?

As I see it every kid your age has a time he or she thinks (s) he hates his parents but trust me if you'd truly hate them, you'd push the pillow on her head instead of hoping she's breathing right

[Cuppo_Mode]

@PeterVeen you are taking this too seriously

[Cuppo_Mode]

Just look at my profile picture, it will give you the bigger picture, giving you a clear image of the situation.

[Amr000gt]

Nope everything is okay in my side wish you luck bro

[myTake Owner]

Thanks. I'm happy for you

[Amr000gt]

If I were you probably I will search for away to make everything goes well

[Amr000gt]

You are welcome

[Amr000gt]

I didn't live in the same way you lived but I get what you want to say and wish for hope you find happiness

[myTake Owner]

Thanks bro

[KoolaidNightmares]

You're "supposed" to love your parents and respect them, because.. They want you to? It doesn't really matter. You can hate your parents, they're just people.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Everything which caused me to grow up afraid to be myself has my unconditional hatred.

That includes my family.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I don't hate, but also don't love my mother. I never had a father.

[Pink2000]

I love both my parents and I would die for them in a heartbeat.

[Tyler_Guest]

My father has always been a big dick to me and my mom, but not my sister or anyone else in the family.

My mom was always sweet tho.

But again, my dad was a huge jerk to us. Mainly beatings on my part, and sadly rapes on my moms.

[namelessyoungold]

I get that. Unfortunately, I'm still in the situation. Had to call the cops and they said to "Take some air". I'm screwed.

[Anonymous]

I love both my parents just sometimes ı feel annoying tho. They always grouch about my weight. But ı still love them.

[Ultimate_Gohan]

I only hate my mother

[kylekool]

No I love them booth.

[needhelp777]

Yes I do I hate them

[myTake Owner]

How come?

[needhelp777]

Because of what happened I don't want to talk about it

[PeterVeen]

She was grounded for a whole week

[ADFSDF1996]

I love my parents, they’ve done so much for me.

[Nachowedgie]

I've always hated mine