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I am not sure what I should do in this circumstance?

A year ago I recindled a friendship with an ex that I still considered a really good friend. I was in a bad spot living with my mother because she was emotionally controlling and abusive. He was in a spot where his...
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Going through a traumatic breakup, need help on how to end things peacefully?

We’ve been over for a year he ended things as he said he needed to mature, get his life together or he’d lose me to another guy. He said he hoped to marry me but essentially the relationship was over. But almost every...
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Really need advice, traumatic breakup and I don’t know if I should contact him to end things peacefully?

We’ve been over for a year he ended things as he said he needed to mature, get his life together or he’d lose me to another guy. He said he hoped to marry me but essentially the relationship was over. But almost every...
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What is wrong with me? Why do I immediately change my mind after every decision I make?

For example, for the past 5 months, I have been desperate to get out of my job and miserable. Literally miserable. I got a new job that I'm excited about, turned in my notice, and suddenly (like a literal switch) I...
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Girl emotionally attached to her ex? Do it keep it moving?

So I’ve been dating this girl for over a month and things have been going very well. We have good chemistry and it’s steady. I let her know my intentions from the beginning and she was on board. It was to date while...
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How can I get my ex boyfriend back?

We dated for a year and half, he broke up with me after a very rough several months. I love him so much and my insecurities caused me to lash out at him many times. I became emotionally abusive. I was very self hating,...
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After a breakup, do you avoid looking at your ex’s social media posts and stories? Do they cause you pain? Why?

My ex and I broke up because he’s moving away for a year for work (it wasn’t any other reason; we had great chemistry and times together but LDR don’t work). We’re on good terms. But I noticed he stopped watching my...
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If a guy acts like he isn’t hurt after a breakup, is he not hurt or sad?

This guy and I had been seeing each other and we didn’t expect anything to really happen but we both really enjoyed each other the several months we were together. I could feel his energy and chemistry we shared, I know...
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Ex boyfriend saying he partly regrets breaking up?

So, well, he popped up after a month or so after the breakup. Yeah. And started saying how much in pain he was. I asked him why he was in pain if he was the one who left me. And he was like, well, it was the correct...
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I met someone new but my recent breakup is too fresh. what should I do?

So basically I just got out of a 3.5 relationship. It’s only been less then 3 months since the breakup but I’m having trouble moving on. Well I ended up meeting a girl a month after the breakup on complete accident....
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I love her but she's bipolar and needs help, what should I do?

(The breakup was because she was confused about me, so i decided to pull away, she tried to fix things but due to a misunderstanding with something one of my friends posted on ig she thought i didn't care about her...
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How can I get my ex girlfriend back?

My ex and I split in January. Her reason she was not ready for a serious relationship. Prior to me, she was with her ex for 13 years, married for 5. He cheated on her the whole time and that did some deep damage to her. A...
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What good do you think would come out of catching up with ex boyfriend?

I've posted about ex here. To summarise, he apparently still likes me/misses me all the time. Months ago he initiated to catch up, I declined. We've stayed in contact after the break up which was 6 months ago. We've had a...
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Guys why would a guy leave a girl saying he doesn't want a relationship then jump into next?

This happened to me, we been together 3 years and he said he won't date for long after our breakup cause he knows he won't find some one good like me again, then after moving out he is in a new relationship with a trashy...
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Guys, How fast do you move on after a 3 year relationship from someone you love and thank for positively Influencing your life?

Me and my ex broke up last summer, next month would be a year of us breaking up. I did the breakup because his dad is a narcissistist and I found out later from my mom, who finally admitted to me, that my dad was...
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2 months since I’ve seen a guy and I can’t move on or stop thinking about him. Is this abnormal? Do I need help?

I’ve never felt this way ever.. even with actual relationships I was in longer, I moved on and let go within a few weeks, and accepted it was over/lost all interest. This guy isn’t even my ex. We were seeing each other...
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(LENGTHY) Not yet fully processed emotional trauma, can we return to being regular friends dispite?

So you know this girl I fell for, who already had a boyfriend? ( context ) Well, that ripped a massive tare in my heart at the time. I recovered from the worst pain within six months, but I still have some scars after...
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Am I insane for wanting to try things again with a girl I briefly dated?

For context, it's important to note one thing right off the bat: I ended a long-term relationship two months ago. It had been a very long time coming, and I began the process of moving on prior to the breakup. I wound up...
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HER: ". . . but you're a great guy and we can stay friends." HIM: "Bite me!"

One of the long-standing debates on this site concerns whether you should try to maintain a friendship with an ex after a breakup. The PC approved answer, if you are into regurgitating answers, is "of course you should....
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What’s the key to being able to move on so fast after a breakup? Seems like I’m always stuck in a rut for months?

It has been 15 days since the end of something I had with a guy for 4 months. It wasn’t even an official relationship but I believe I was falling in love with him in a way I hadn’t with anyone. He’s moving away, it had to...
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