If she has you blocked... in most cases the damage has been done, and I wouldn't press it anymore. And the fact that she said those two months for her were a "friends with benefits" condition, for me would be a deal breaker. I would say not to talk to me again. Friends with benefits does nothing but allow two people to USE each other whenever they need them. Basically the same as a drive-thru window service!!
Dude, you need to let things happen NATURALLY. Don't PUSH or INSIST. What is acceptable is to express how you feel to her, and that will give her something to work with. The next time you speak to her Sister, it would be advised to ask her to pass along an apology and say you let things between the two of you for those two months get to your head. THEN LET IT GO!!! If out of some slither of a chance she unblocks you and rings your doorbell (so-to-speak), be COOL, CALM and COLLECTED. Be the complete OPPOSITE of the Office Space your emotions went!!!
But in the meantime... just move on with life.
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1. "she said she loved me 4 weeks into dating." That is the sign that you were a rebound. . . if you didn't already realize that.
2. "She had asked me to drop off her apartment key to her." She is ready to say goodbye forever.
3. "and ended up hooking up that night" Sex doesn't make a relationship. She wanted to get laid.
4. "At the end of April, I asked her to be my girlfriend again. She freaked out, saying she didn’t want a commitment or anything serious." Dude, when she said she wasn't ready for a relationship, she was telling you the truth.
5. "Through the month of May, I begged a little" Not only do you refuse to accept the reality of this failed rebound, but you have lost your self-respect and sank to the level of pathetic. DUDE!!! Be a MAN!
She is using you for sex and probably never divorced in the first place and may never have been cheated on either,
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Many years ago I was in exactly the same boat, down to the matching tattoos. I wish I could give you a good answer, but we never reconnected and I moved on. I heard she got married and then divorced, but I don't really know.
You could keep chasing her, but be prepared for dead-end after dead-end.
My only regret is letting her chose the placement, size and color of the tattoos... she got hers about the size of a quarter above the bikini line.
Looking back, I think the whole tattoo thing was a prank, thinking I wouldn't go through with it and using that as an excuse that "I didn't love her". She broke up with me anyway, and I got the other arm done to show her my commitment to "us".
Turns out, there was no "us".
ah well, live and learn... good luck !Just move on. Yes it is easy to say, it took me years to move on after my last one...
She probably used you for bedroom fun only and got too attached, but you were only to not be alone, if that makes sense. She probably back with her 'ex', that was never ex just temporary not present.
Do not use drugs, alcohol or anything of that sort as solution, it will only delay it not sort it. This did not helped me.
Stop trying to get her back, just find someone else to enjoy your life, she is not for you.
Good luck.Wow dude what the fuck are you doing? To make this short and get to the point you failed her competency tests and and lost frame of the relationship which led to this happening. You are much better off chatting up new women then doing the work to fix this.
Take my advice and move on , there are many nice girls out there better then her , you can fall in law many times , trust me, she is still probably sleeping with x boyfriend you just have to let it go , who knows she might come back , but dont be pushy or you lose her permenantly
Shake that daze off & show her you have options; if you do & she gets mad there's still a spark you can fan into a blaze, if not it's over.
Just don't try. Move on, enjoy life, and a woman who loves YOU for YOU will one day show her face.
honestly, it's not going to happen. Meet other women.
That's a rather unintelligent and irrevocably stupid pursuit. They're over it, it's time for you to get over it too like every ex.
You can't. You pushed too hard and that's the end. Let the woman be.
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Call her sweet talk her and invite her out to a five-star meal along with 12 red roses And wine
You can't. You were just rebound. Trust me when I say this, she's hooking up with other guys besides you.
she never loved you to being with
look into MGTOW
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