Girls, Can I get back with my ex girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I was dating a girl for around 3 months, then we were together as a couple for another 4 months before everything ended suddenly. She cheated on me in a very hard way. She left me for another guy, with whom it turned out she was in love during our relationship. Interesting story starts right after here. After our breakup, i started no contact, but she started to coming back to me, writing messages, etc. After a party, where we met, she told me, that she never got together with the other guy and she missed me during the whole 3 months since the breakup and she regret the cheating. After that, i wanted to get back with her, because i still loved her, but she rejected. I tought then it is okay, it is really the end of our relationship and i have to start to move on even with feelings for her. After this, we didn't talk, but sometimes we accidentaly met in some events. During the last event, she admitted that she still loves me, but she doesn't regret, that she cheated on me. After that, we didn't talk or text for months, but she constantly watched my stories and put me on close friends lists and liked my posts. I couldn't decide what she would have wanted from me, but it all made me feel anxious and stressed, even months after the cheating and the break-up. So after the constant close friends story postings I removed her from social media and tried to move on, but over the last few days I've been wondering if maybe it was the wrong decision. I had heard from people that the removing had upset her, but at the same time I was really struggling to deal with the whole situation. I was thinking a lot about whether I should try to talk to her again, but she had done so many disrespectful things to me before and after the break-up, but i still missed her. Now she might have changed and wanted to come back, but these signs were mixed for me and confused me. Do you think that not giving her a second chance was a good idea?

[SueShe]

How many times does she have to play with your feelings until you realize that she does not really mean it seriously with you but misuses you for whatever benefits she thinks she can get?

Don't even bother to attempt to get back with her or even to contact her. She is a player and nothing else. That is a toxic person that is out to get about every guy she can put her fingers on. When the novelty is gone, she moves onto the next one.

Be wise and realize that you are only hurting yourself by trying to get back to her. You don't want to get back with this person. You have been cheated on once before; you don't want it to happen again, right?

Realize that she is no good for you and move on.

[Anonymous]

I gave up reading once you said "social media."

[Asker]

I meant Instagram, English is not my native

[Sasha0426]

She said she doesn’t regret cheating on you. What does that tell you?