Girls, What can I do to get my girlfriend back?

[Anonymous]

[Genie23]

You don't. Getting back with an ex is nothing but a waste of time. It doesn't work out.

[Asker]

Not always who hurt you

[Genie23]

But still if it doesn't work out the first time, it won't work out again.

Trust me, I've tried it only led to more disappoinment and hurt

[Asker]

I'm sorry to hear that

[Simslover92]

What did you do to lose her?

[Asker]

She was into some odd things in the bedroom and it felt too weird for me

[Simslover92]

So you dumped her because of that?

[Asker]

No she dumped me

[Simslover92]

Because you wouldn't do the odd things in the bedroom?

[Asker]

That. I'm so judgement too according to her.

[Simslover92]

Well try if you can to talk to her. Tell her you are willing to change and see things from a more open perspective. That is if you are willing to do that right?

[Asker]

Besides those two things I'm not motivated enough I guess too. Huge loser here lol

[Asker]

I am. It's just embarrassing. I need to grow up

[Simslover92]

You're not a loser. I understand how you feel but if you really want her back you need to get more motivated. Try to be a bit more open as well.

[Asker]

I know. I mean I've done what she's wanted before but she just wants to do it a lot more now. Like I opened it up

[Simslover92]

Then maybe you guys aren't that compatible if you really don't like doing what she does sexually in the bedroom. Maybe it's not worth the trouble trying to get back with her if you don't like it very much. Sexual compatibility is very important in a lot of relationships.

[Asker]

I know. It's just a little uncomfortable. I need to push my boundaries

[Simslover92]

Only if you feel that's really for you. Don't do anything you don't really want to do. That's a recipe for disaster.

[Asker]

I don't exactly have girls falling at my feet lol

[Simslover92]

Then do what you feel will make you happy. If it's being what she wants you to be just to have a girlfriend then be that but if it's being who you really are then stand your ground and just hope you will find someone else who fits you better.

[Asker]

She's into chastity for me. Not all the time but when we're together. She has to have control

[Asker]

You see what I mean. Weird. Sorry didn't mean to make you uncomfortable if I did

[Simslover92]

It's not weird to me. I'm not uncomfortable with that.

[Asker]

So you've done it before?

[Simslover92]

No but I would be open to it if that's something my boyfriend would want to try

[Simslover92]

What is chastity though?

[Asker]

Yeah but you're not the one being chastised lol

[Asker]

She makes me wear a couple things sometimes

[Simslover92]

Oh..

[Asker]

So I'll behave as she says. But I'm not gonna cheat on her anyway. It's a game

[Asker]

The cage is the worst but she doesn't make me wear that too long without trying to be graphic

[Asker]

Thought you might like to know I got her back

[Simslover92]

That's great! Happy for you!

[Asker]

I appreciate it. It's an adjustment for sure

[Yucy_Gluttony]

Lose yourself.

[Asker]

How do I do that

[Yucy_Gluttony]

BE WHAT SHE WANTS YOU TO BE.

[Asker]

I'm gonna try

[Asker]

You sound like her