Search Results: how to get my confidence up

Do guys actually reject, break up with, or treat girls they think are too good for them poorly?

I hear a lot that guys behave this way towards girls they think are too good for them, but I'm not sure I've ever bought into that excuse. It just makes no sense; if they really thought the girl was that great, wouldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Stop telling curvier women their clothes are inappropriate. SERIOUSLY.

To start off, nooooo, this is not body shaming, and yesssss, this may come across bitter because at 22 I'm just figuring out that "oh, well, i have curvy features, not my fault". I just don't understand why the rules...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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What are the cool stories you had in childhood? The ones you’re proud of?

Mine: There was a kid in the elementary school who teased me and I would always chase him, but never catch (like Tom & Jerry lol). So, I was at some sort of resort hotel with my dad. I was in the hall and saw some big...

yourspraytan

Xper 3 Age: 28

The reasons why some men may not like it when women make the first move

There is a new[not really] talking point on the block! Perhaps not a big one, but it is one I personally feel particularly involved in, since my opinion on this topic makes me a part of the opposing minority. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Is he emotionally scared?

He's super smart (focused on his career). I am very emotional and he's well not, I don’t think I ever saw him mad or sad. He friendly with the whole school while I always hanging out with like 3 people. We are not close...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

What is going on with this guy? Does he care or no?

He is super smart (focused on his career). I am very emotional and he's well not, I don’t think I ever saw him mad or sad. He friendly with the whole school while I always hanging out with like 3 people. We are not close...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Health & Fitness

Has anyone overcome shyness and social anxiety?

I've been to therapy, I've been on pills, I make an effort, but i always get kicked down again by people. And it lowers whatever confidence I've built up. I'm so lonely. I've kind of given up hope of being happy with my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The Personal and Societal Benefits of Girls Taking the Initiative With Guys in Relationships

I've been thinking about this topic, having seen many questions which dance around this idea, and today I decided to write about it. What am I talking about? This idea that men are still the initiators when it comes to...

AmandaYVR

Influencer Age: 53

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A Sensual Conversation Guide for Date Night: How to get past the small talk and connect on a discreet intimate level.

I recommend most of these questions on a first date.... If you were to die and someone had to clear out your home-what are the most personal or weirdest things they would find? God. This is such a GOOD question after the...

Apope16

Influencer Age: 39

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Flirting

The Art of Female Seduction

The Art of Female Seduction Introduction I see so many girls and guys on here saying things like, " I'm shy and can't get a date", "Flirting is so hard", even " I don't know how to ask someone out or for their number"....

LexyIsSexy23

Xper 5 Age: 30

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The Keys To Attract Women In My Personal Experiences

Introduction: I desire to share tips through my life experiences on the keys to attract women. I see a lot of guys here not knowing how to approach a woman or what to say to a woman during a conversation or how to behave...

Hispanic-Cool-Guy

Master Age: 40

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Can’t get over what my ex did to me even though he said he has changed?

My ex emotionally abused me by saying I wasn’t pretty as other girls, he would then kiss and **** them girls and try to go out with them instead. He also tried it with one of my friends, which caused a major falling out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

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Why modesty is sexy (in my opinion)

First of all, I am not saying by any means that women shouldn’t wear revealing clothing if they want to. It’s their body so it’s their choice. However, as a guy, I find that women that are modest with confidence can...

DanielAppleton15

Xper 5 Age: 25

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How attractive do you have to be to get a guy like this?

I always feel so unattractive and down on myself, partially because I never attract guys I’m into. I don’t necessarily lack in male attention but it’s never the guys I would want. I usually feel like I end up settling for...

taleets

Yoda Age: 28

Education & Career

Demotiveted as a high school teacher?

I love to teach. Since I was a kid, I knew I wanted to become a teacher. But after rendering service in school for 3 years I don't feel enough. Not because I feel dumb but on how students treat us teachers. I just got...

amberchii

Xper 5 Age: 28

How do you help a guy lower his guard?

A guy I like and have been talking to has always had his guard up since the day we’ve started talking. He’s told me himself that he’s not in a state where he can think about whatever’s happening between us to go anywhere....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever met someone that you feel natuarally in sync with?

Take Two: The other day I said something i wished I hadn't and I'm sorry I didn't mean that. What I was trying to say was Being with my girlfriend is the happiest I've ever been, Its so nice knowing I have support instead...

Lemia

Explorer Age: 38

Was it wrong to break up with boyfriend because of depression?

We dated for 6 months before we broke up. My boyfriend suffers from depression. When he’s depressed he likes to be alone or rather with a friend. Not with me, he pushes me away and doesn’t want to spend any time with me....

Anonymous

(25-29)