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I keep hearing that's it's not good to lie as your not being your true self by lying. However, more and more people want experienced people. Especially by those who are older and getting older. They're more and more people getting older but their experience with dating and sex is little to none. Is honesty really the best policy when it comes to getting with someone? Is lying about your dating history and sex life the better way to go so you don't come off and inexperienced and a loser in the world of dating and sex?

Before you go and tell me "Mexican is not a race". True but you can't deny that Mexico is very predominantly a Mestizo country. It seems like Mexico tries so hard to white wash their race population and culture, no matter how many times they failed because the world outside of Latin America still sees them as predominantly "brown" people (ignoring the stupid telenovelas). In fact, one of Mexico's past dictators during the late 19th century, Porfirio Diaz, who is racially Mestizo, tried to get all of his servants to powder themselves so the world doesn't think Mexico is an "Indian country" while welcoming White European immigrants (not just from Spain but also from Germany and many other European countries) to Mexico with open arms to "improve their race". What's very ironic is how Mestizos seem to be more racist and more harsh towards the pure Indigenous people in Mexico than the Criollo (Pure White European) Mexicans have.

I guess Mestizos suffer from racial insecurity and identity problems because the "pure" white Europeans still look at them as either "mongrels" or "not white" so they take it out on the socially and politically weaker racial group, the Indigenous/Amerindians.

http://articles.latimes.com/2001/feb/25/local/me-29993

I have never done one of these in my life, iam 21, had only 2 gf's in the past, self-conscious about my appeareance since... ever.

I want your honest opinions, i dont want you to lie to make me feel better, i want to improve my self.

Tell me in the comments (you can be harsh if you want).
What should i change? What you dislike? Where can i improve? Where do i look better/worse? Long hair, short hair?