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Hi, I'm looking for some advice please 😊 I have recently broken up with my now ex boyfriend, due to a gambling problem, drinking issue, questioning my worth, financial issues and his negative attitudes and behaviours. He wanted me back and is saying he will make changes, I know he has quit gambling, not drinking as much and he's saying all the things I want to hear and have in my future and would do anything to have me back and saying it's me or no one.
I've been asking for the last 5 weeks since we broke up to give me space so I can decide if I miss him, he can implement these changes he is speaking of and I can have some alone time to decide if I do really miss him and want to try again. Thoughout these 5 weeks he has smoothered me, begging to take him back and telling me there is no one else, he will never date again, he wants to marry me, have a family and will support me and be a better person. he's even offered relationship counselling and said he will do anything to make it work.
Two days ago I said no let's call it a day I'm done I'm not willing to give it another go, his pushing for an answer was exhausting and it's was pushed me to say no I'm done. He has then done everything I asked yesterday stopped the messaging and then sent a quick one this morning to say he'd removed me from social media not to be petty or vindictive but for his own mental health. Since he's done that, I regret it he's never left my head, I can't stop crying and I feel sick. What should I do?

So I know someone, we use basically
the same social media. I went on a tangent on how my ex boyfriend treated me and he's on my snap stories everyday. I got heated and called him out. But this particular rant I did wasn't even about her... she got triggered and thought I was talking about her. So this is how I know she was talking about me. She screenshots my snap stories of my rant... and ever since then she started blasting someone she knew... me...

She made it clear it was me she was talking about. 1 time I mentioned a picture of us on my computer. She then goes in it while I'm sleep and deleted it. It's pretty petty if you ask me. All she could of done was told me not to post it.

Also, when she was drunk she spilled the beans how me and her got into it subliminally. WE... I.. did no sorts. She was clearly beefing on her own and I never really had a problem with the girl. Except the fact she's a really jealous person..

I never once retaliated because I'm not someone to throw dirt on anyone's name or anything like that. What she did to me was quiet foul.

I accepted the fact that she never liked me as well. I'm not mad at that. I actually have a lot of dirt on her as well as one of her "best" friends told me everything while me and the other girl were not friends. She has all this "dirt" on me just to use it on me to embaresse me or what have you.

I've also approached her in person about her shit talking and all she could do was be quiet.

So should I do the same or keep my morals. Because she's a low down dirty bitch and I'll never want to stoop as low as her but she may be giving me no choice.