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I worked at a tourist information office and a family of three Americans came looking for information on tourist Hotspots and directions to the towns bell tower. I tried to warn them as the tower is very high with no elevator and has a narrow stairway that they might have trouble negotiating their way up as they are large people. Well they complained to my manager who sent me home and next week I could be looking at getting fired. The thing is that I feel vindicated and justified in what I said and warning them as they went ahead that day and climbed the tower and the father had a heart attack just before he reached the top, the mother was exhausted and their daughter was hysterical in shock having a panic attack and ambulance and fire crews had to use teams of men to evacuate all three of them from the tower which took about four hours until they were all down and the father survived.
I dont feel I deserve to be sacked just for telling the truth and being honest in the hopes of preventing casualties.

I looked up to see what qualities people most associate with "ladies" and "gentleman", so here are some.

Gentleman:
Respectful to women
Protects lady
Example: "As a man, I believe it’s my duty to protect my wife from any and all harm, including vehicles driving down the street. I try to always walk on the side closest to traffic so that if a vehicle should come our direction, I can push her out of the way and take the hit myself." https://www.youngcons.com/this-photo-is-getting-thousands-of-retweets-on-twitter-can-you-spot-why/
Holding doors
Paying for dates
Gives up seats
Offers coats
Helping with bags
Being helpful in general

Lady:
Quiet
Nice/kind
Emotionally supportive
Innocent
Doesn't curse
Dresses well but also modestly
Humble
Respectful/polite
Empathetic
Smart
Well-mannered
Grateful
Isn't vulgar/crude/slovenly/gross

BONUS: As I was searching through "what makes a lady," I kept saying words like "graceful."
Can you be awkward and still be a lady?