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I have a guy "friend" that has done a lot of damage to our friendship. He has been obsessed with going out to Las Vegas to hire a hooker for his first kiss. I have told him repeatedly that he does not need to tell me about this but he just ignored me. He has social problems and has been sexually assaulted when he was younger, which probably contributes to his social akwardness. He eventually went to a legal brothel and claims he walked out without actually hiring a hooker and has apologized profusely for this. Ironically he went out on a date with a real woman five days later and got his first kiss then. He has also offered to give me $1,000 to me as a gift for all that I had to put up with him. He says there are no strings attached and he feels like since he should have listened to me that I deserve the money. He says its what it would have cost him to hire a hooker and since he didn't, he wants it to be mine. Should I accept the money and his apology?

I've kinda been wanting to have sex with my friend. We are both girls. We've joked about it a lot and have had real conversations about it the other night at the bar.
Now.. should this actually happen.. nothing would happen. We would be able to even if we both have boyfriends. Which we do.. our men both have the same rule.

"As long as I get to watch."

Only thing is, as much as mine claims that, he does tell me he doesn't want anyone else having me. He selfish, and I love it.
Now the only reason I'm opposed to it, i dont think i want her boyfriend seeing me.
I guess that is the problem. I wouldn't mind just doing it without them watching. (Obviously I guess..)
Anyhow. I've thought about it, if we would have sex, with or without the men watching, would it really be just sex?
In the hypothetical conversation of doing so, me and her have already promised each other that it wouldn't change anything or hurt our friendship.
But if we would, could we really do it as friends? Or is it more so a possibility that one of us would end up falling?
I dont want to ruin our friendship. I won't if I can avoid it.

What do you think?