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I met a girl recently and she was telling me that girls like soft spoken guys (like I am) and she couldn't understand why I was single. I don't know, but I don't think this is true at all! lol I think it's the opposite, and women maybe see me as "weak" (for a lack of a better word), or not "manly". Like, not an attractive quality I mean. So which is it?

So I'm asking this question because I was having a relatively good day before this girl I had a crush on in high school texted me trying to start mess. Long story short she's the type of girl that once she knows you like her she won't go out with you but she'll try to make you angry or jealous by telling you about all the guys she's going out with, and also she thinks men are, "bitches" (That's why I stopped trying).

So I mean is it even possible to find someone that's trying to build something early in their life rather than go out partying and drinking all the time starting drama? I'm not trying to say that's all bad but everyone my age is just fucking around and I'm not interested in that. I just want to go to work, come home, and save so I can get ready for college and then start a business or something. Every girl I come across is just a shallow, superficial, gold digger and I'm this girl is the exact reason why I'm such a misanthrope because regardless of how shit she is she will always have a man chasing her and I can't have that unless I get a flashy car or an expensive suit apparently. So where can I find the good girls who aren't so messy?