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So, my best friend, let's call him Alex for now. I came over about 3 months ago to hang out after I was done my 2 weeks after coming back from my time. Alex explained to me that when we went to the beach together last year that Sam and he were flirting at the time, I was distracted, but he said I had told him that Sam had a boyfriend and not to get himself in trouble.

Long story short, apparently, when I went to get something from my car while Alex was in the water, Sam felt him and grabbed his Cough. He claims he was sure it happened and that he couldn't be making this up. He only brought it up to me recently becuase he was shy about it. Sam never said anything or acted like anything was up that day.

- One, Sam has been in a relationship for almost three years now. I know she loves her partner, so I'd be surprised she'd throw all that way so easily. However, she has a history of being reckless, so I don't really know.

-Two, Alex has a history of sexual misconduct. Sometimes, I genuinely think it's he doesn't realize how uncomfortable his statements can be. He recently said he wanted to watch me and another girl have lesbian sex for Christmas, and I told him that made me uncomfortable and that I had a boyfriend... who he's met several. He's also joked about taking my virginity when I was a little younger.

- Three, there was no one else there to confirm his story

I personally, I always think you should believe the victim, and I know male sexual assault gets ignored, and it's a big problem. He's my friend, and I care a lot about him. I've noticed since that day she's been more or less very cold towards him, even when he's the one being friendly. So, I have no idea what to do.

There is a possibility (not sure yet due to the pandemic) I will travel to Europe next year in February, but of course with this h ealth crisis is not a certain thing anyway but there is the plan if things will be possible. If I travel it be with the same cousins I alrady travel to Europe 3 years ago. My cousins and I are of similar age. This time we will adding the teenage daughter of one of these cousins.

I have an uncle who will give as a graduation gift to his wife an European trip but I dont know when next year anyway. The wife of this uncle is of my age but I dont really hang out with her to really can call her a friend, we know each other sure for the family link, but I dont hang out with her or she is my best friend anything of that. My brotehr told me that probably my uncle will call me to tell me if I want to join his wife for this trip, cause he won't be flying with her , as she be traveling alone so maybe my uncle will like someone he knows, a relative to go with his wife in this trip, otherwise is not issue, cause his wife can travel alone, she had always been very independent so I f I dont join her is not problem, but maybe my uncle will confide in me if I want to go with her. I dont know when this trip is plan I only know my uncle will like to give his wife a gift.

My brother tells me that he confides more in the word of our uncle that indeed his wife will for sure travel, and that rip for sure is almsot 100% certain than the word of my cousins, who are also making plans to go to Europe for next year and they had take me into account to go wih them but our cousins are show off cocky people who like to impress by saying they will travel and at the end my brother is positive they won't even travel. I mean with these cousins I already travelled to Europe 3 years ago and we are almsot of the same age and this time is to go to Europe to other cities we did not visit back then. Im sure that my uncle wife will be her first