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So recently I became friends with this guy and we grew closer this summer as we started to work together more as time went by we found our self getting closer. I love having him around and i do consider him my guy best friend. But before then he never mentioned having a girlfriend and now he has one and apparently they've been dating on and off for a year and he would always complain to me bout her. He would call me everyday and if I didn't text him back he would get upset but remained playful about it. Or he would talk to me and be like "oh my girl's calling, but I'm not gone answer it" Now all of a sudden he's all about his girlfriend and went from calling everyday to barely texting me back or when he's with her I can't talk to him at all or when we're talking he has to hang up in my face or cut our conversation short. I didn't really mind him having a girlfriend because after all we are friends but I loved the attention he was giving me and now I find myself a bit jealous. At one point he would get jealous when other guys tried to talk to me or we discuss me dating or the guys I dated. I never would've imagined I would feel a type of way about him because at first he was nothing more than a buddy. A lot of people mistake us for a couple and he never denied it. He knows better than to ask me for sex because we've talked about the topic in general but he also mentions how often him and his girlfriend have sex and I don't show the discomfort I feel I just act like my goofy self and joke about it. He also compares me to his girlfriend a lot yet he doesn't want me to meet her and if I'm around and she calls i have to be quite. Or he doesn't want her to know we hang out. He's never tried to make any moves on me and we're "just friends" so I don't see why he has to hide our friendship from her. But I'm clueless as to what his intentions are. Should I tell him how I feel? Guys what goes through your mind when you do things like this?

So I met this guy about a year ago online. Due to his job, he has been over seas for this entire year so we haven't been able to officially meet in person. We were planning to the first week of August because that's when he gets home.

And as dumb as it seems, I guess based on our feelings we felt like getting into an exclusive relationship made sense. We acted purely on emotions.. no logic lol but after thinking more about it and figuring it wouldn't be reasonable to expect faithfulness from someone you've never met, I told him if he wanted to sleep with other people it was fine.. at least until we meet and start a normal relationship

His response was "no this is 100% enough for me". Well, come to find out, he has been sleeping with other people.. nothing romantic, just sexual. But it hurts that when all I wanted was honesty, I couldn't get it. He explained that it was because he didn't want to lose or hurt me.

He's been there for me in more ways than I can count and basically became my best friend. But because of this weird situation that I'm now in, I don't know what to do. Should I give him another chance or not? He's making strong attempts at fixing this.. even changing future plans to accommodate the relationship such as relocating.