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I get the logic of how prostitutes are actually the most “honest women”. It’s business but at least everything is out on the table. But still there is a really shitty feeling afterwards. But again is at shitty as being used as a meal ticket? I sure as hell don’t expect every girl to sleep with after the first/second date. But I do expect her to RESPECT my efforts. In my experience most women don’t nowadays.

I confess I’ve been in both scenarios. Both of them have very negative feelings afterwards. But which is a worse situation?

If your girl is a housewife , will you help her cooking or cleaning the house?
If she doesn't have any income , and you are bringing all money for house.
What if a guy cooks or cleans really great (like chefs) and his wife is a housewife , should he cook?
A lot of women still wants to be housewives now a days. Many doesn't have a job or don't intend to , they choose guys with good earing potential. But should they complain then if their guys don't help them in house?
In my personal opinion , as a guy if you already earn and cook and clean in , women lose respect for you. I have seen this in real life.

For me, it is without doubt a bra selfie. They are so cheeky & flirtatious & teasing! I mean, how often are you gonna see a girl in a bra?
A bikini selfie is always nice, but they're so common place it kinda takes away the allure of it all.
A nude selfie is something I never wanna get from a girl I like. Opposed to a bra or bikini selfie, I don't feel it's very self respecting.
Those are just my opinions though. Share yours below!

There have always been those kind of people out there. But hear about this more and more. It was done to me a few times. The worst case was after I dated a girl for 9 months and we got in a minor argument.

Unless someone physically abuses you, steals from you, lies about something very major, threatens harm/violence or cheats on you there really is no excuse for ghosting. However I’m seeing more and more girls (and some guys) saying it’s okay. No you are just a selfish coward if you ghost.

When I broke up with my last ex 2 years ago I gave her the respect of doing it face to face. I really didn’t want to see her or talk to her. She was very mentally unstable. But I knew the best way for her to heal was to hear the truth.

I endured 2 hours of her going absolutely ballistic. Screaming, crying, throwing things, threatening suicide (she didn’t do it). It absolutely sucked but she actually proved to me that I made the right decision. I also walked away knowing that she can look back on things and have a peace of mind that she got to speak her mind. That will help her heal and move on quicker.

Anyway I’m just seeing more and more people bitch out, cower and ghost. They don’t realize that can really screw people up and then those same people started acting shitty to others. The vicious cycle continues.

Is this a new trend that started in the last decade or so, am I wrong for thinking this or am I self projecting?

I just find it funny because a lot of people I've known with low self esteem have had shades of narcissism and a strange inferiority/superiority complex. Are they delusional and this is just how they cope by bouncing between two extremes?

I feel like I'm no exception to this, because I find myself on this pendulum swing between these two extremes at times depending on the situation and circumstances, but I'm able to dismantle this nonsense by objectively analyzing the situations.

I notice this a lot when it comes to dating where people who lack quality options (or any options at all) thinking they deserve some sort of perfect being, or those who demand loyalty and respect but simultaneously lack morals & ethics. I find it so hilariously asinine.

Some examples - undesirable/incel type of men demanding some sort of make believe traditional virgin woman/wife BUT they lack masculinity or desirable traits (like personality, strength, athleticism, overall attractiveness, and competency, etc.. )

And overly sexual & aggressive women who lack morals & ethics and anything else desirable/respectable from a partner, and they do shady hoe shit demanding men who look like professional athletes with CEO incomes.

I just find the lack of awareness funny & kind of sad, I don't know what could be done to find a balance (at least not in a generic advice sort of way because a lot of these problem require immense effort & soul searching that pertains to that particular individual even if the problems are fairly common & shared)