Search Results: self esteem and confidence

5 Good Reasons To Stand Out in the Crowd

It takes nothing to join the crowd. It takes everything to stand alone ____ Hans F.Hansen Everyone seems to agree on the fact that you should be different, be yourself, but that's just on a mental level. The fact is,...

Galaxy21

Xper 6 Age: 29

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Am I dateable or not?

Hi, I am 23 and am wondering if I am date-able or not. Reasons Yes: - I don't like drugs/drinking... maybe a drink once a while, and get wasted once a year but thats it. - I think I am sweet, caring, I make...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, what makes a guy "inaccessible"?

So, here is my thing. I was never a very popular guy among girls. Somehow I grew up with very low self esteem and low confidence, stuff that I always tried hard to hide, but some things you just can't fake that much....

MrPssit

Xper 4 Age: 39

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A Nothing, A Nobody, A Servant?

I was pulled out of school in grade 3 due to the teacher calling Children's Aide and the police about bruises on me. My mother and stepfather then moved to the country and home-schooled me and my siblings when they...

Borginborg

Xper 6 Age: 49

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Flirting

Would you still flattered if a person you weren't attracted to admitted they once had a crush on you?

When I was 19 I went to a party and met this cute geeky, awkward guy. He had pimples, was tall and super sweet. I liked him immediately but before I could do anything my friend dropped a bomb shell & admitted she liked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you ever been stood up for a date?

My first date in 3 years and I get stood up.. ego has crashed to the ground, my self esteem has plummeted and self confidence shot to bits. Now thinking did I do something wrong? Was it me? Then realising over analysing...

Brokenheartedx

Guru Age: 40

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Depressed because I'm ugly?

I'm turning 24 next week. My whole life I've had an ugly face. No matter what I do, nothing will compensate for an ugly face. It's not emotional at this point. It's just what's real.. my face is very unattractive. I work...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm turning 24 next week. My whole life I've had an ugly face. No matter what I do, nothing will compensate for an ugly face. It's not emotional at this point. It's just what's real..

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How much do plus size girls bother you?

I know this question has been done to death and no, I don't have low self esteem I'm perfectly happy with my body, no I don't need resurgence from others, I don't have anything against skinny or fit people anyone can be...

Anonymous

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How to build your self esteem back up?

I was in an accident and destroyed my car. I was without a car for 11 months. In this time period all I did was work and go back home. I started to gain weight and get depressed. Before this I was the life of the party...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why Loving Yourself Leads to Loneliness Instead of Love and Marriage

I've been single my entire life. You know those people who are always in relationships? I'm the complete opposite. My longest relationship was 3 years, but those last 2 years were on-and-off (mostly off) and based on sex....

aamina_m

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Should I ask a question about a sensitive topic?

There's a question I really want answers to. In fact, it's one of the reasons why I signed up here, but nearly two years have passed and I still don't have enough courage to ask it. The problem is that the answers could...

YourFutureEx

Master Age: 31

There's a question I really want answers to. In fact, it's one of the reasons why I signed up here, but nearly two years have passed and I still don't have enough courage to ask it.

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Why is more likely for girls to suffer from low self-esteem than narcissism?

Sure neither extremes are good but girls with low self-esteem/confidence (seeing themselves as weak) seem more common than female narcissists. The other one can actually get the girl to higher job positions seems...

Anonymous

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Why are so many men willing to date insecure women?

I cannot even count how many men are willing to go for girls that are self deprecating, insecure, and even self hating. Why? WHY? WHYYY? And no, it's not just "shy" awkward guys, even confident men. I shouldn't be...

BuchitaBuchys

Guru Age: 34

What would you say to a guy who already does self improvement activities and is liked by most people to stop being shy in terms of asking a girl out?

So say there's a guy who actively has been working on himself for a long time. That includes working out rigorously and excelling in studies and in the work place. He is liked by people he associates with and he gets...

Anonymous

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5 Signs You Have a Weak Personality

In our modern world, we constantly live under the social pressure we call the "norm". From our childhood, we are conditioned and programmed by the society to believe certain things, do certain things, and think in a...

Galaxy21

Xper 6 Age: 29

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What Is It About Me That Makes People Bully Me?

From the day I was born until age 19 I was always friends with everyone then at 19 until now 24 everyone everywhere treats me like garbage. I don't know what is happening. The other day I got a needle full of air and...

JuantasticSSJ4

Xper 3 Age: 34

Guys, are my standards too high or just right?

I am looking for loyalty, trustworthy, and integrity. I feel that without these three qualities any relationships will fall apart. Be loyal/faithful, and have open & honest communications with me. Trust in me, that I...

AskMe15

Xper 6 Age: 30