Very very sad. All year I've been training for a marathon and I can't do it now. Please help me :( :( ?

[Anonymous]

Two weeks away from the marathon, and my job tells me I can't take off.

Running has meant a lot to me personally. When my dad died 5 months ago, and my career wasn't working out, it provided me with focus, discipline, a goal I needed to feel like I was keeping my life moving. On top of that, reaching milestones and seeing improvements gave me self-esteem and confidence in the midst of all the rejection on the career front. Now, two weeks away from the marathon, I can't do it because of work and I feel unfulfilled. Very very sad day. :(

[LaFemmeFatale]

Firstly you should compare what's more important for you, marathon on job, what do you need right now.
If that's something you are so passionate about don't give up so soon.
I mean, your marathon started now, with these obstacles, not after two weeks, but now.
If that's what you want, do it, talk with your employer or something.
Don't give up on your dreams.
I remember when my great grandpa died I couldn't go to the funeral and couldn't see him for the last time, cause... I had a solo-concert on the exact day. I was only 10 and It was more of a choice of my dance teacher than mine.
I regret sometimes.
I mean I chose duty over saying goodbye to someone who I loved with whole heart, I wish I have missed that concert and go see my grandpa for the last time.
I mean you have duties in your job and you have dreams and chances to make them come true.
Find a middle way, not to lose your job and not to miss a marathon.
Good luck.

[Xfitchick]

Don't worry, your body is ready for it. So look for other occasions. And also check trail runs. There are a lot these days and worth the challenge too.

[Anonymous]

Quit the job, or tell them you need that day off, or call in sick... dont feel guilty