So back in high school days I had a huge crush on this really handsome guy. My brothers and I attended community club and so did he along with his brother and friends. I was the only girl there and made friends with most of the guys and would have lots of fun with them. I was even really close friends with his younger brother who was the same age as myself. Even my brothers teased me about liking him after our first club meeting because he was exactly the type of guy I would usually crush on. I was smitten!! But I wasn't cute at the time and had lots of acne and assumed he'd never be interested.
He was always quiet and reserved, hardly minling so we hardly spoke except when he would only come over to compliment me on a job well done in martial arts training. So we had a strange relationship there of exchanging compliments only.
We started catching the same bus after school and would chat about so many things (including his very sad childhood and his father's death etc) He was so chatty there and would record movie clips on his phone for me to see. We'd even compare sketches since we both liked to draw.
One time at club, his brother came over to ask me if I liked his brother or another guy there. I denied both. I was so embarrassed and assumed it was some sort of bet guys usually make. Our instructor, his friend also asked a guy friend of mine if we were dating. Long story short club closed down and over the years, the few times I saw him afterwards he was always nice and friendly to all my siblings including my little sister whom he barely knows and would even call her my own name and wave etc. But to me he hardly says a word and acts so distant. One time he purposely tried to make me jealous with a girl he was dating. Tbh its kinda hurtful and I've always been curious about his actions. Can't think of a way I could've offended him, he was so special to me but its been about 10 years and he still acts this way. please help!!
He was always quiet and reserved, hardly minling so we hardly spoke except when he would only come over to compliment me on a job well done in martial arts training. So we had a strange relationship there of exchanging compliments only.
We started catching the same bus after school and would chat about so many things (including his very sad childhood and his father's death etc) He was so chatty there and would record movie clips on his phone for me to see. We'd even compare sketches since we both liked to draw.
One time at club, his brother came over to ask me if I liked his brother or another guy there. I denied both. I was so embarrassed and assumed it was some sort of bet guys usually make. Our instructor, his friend also asked a guy friend of mine if we were dating. Long story short club closed down and over the years, the few times I saw him afterwards he was always nice and friendly to all my siblings including my little sister whom he barely knows and would even call her my own name and wave etc. But to me he hardly says a word and acts so distant. One time he purposely tried to make me jealous with a girl he was dating. Tbh its kinda hurtful and I've always been curious about his actions. Can't think of a way I could've offended him, he was so special to me but its been about 10 years and he still acts this way. please help!!
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