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I was speaking with someone from tinder, we spoke on the phone earlier this week for a few hours and played ps4 on Thursday. He’s been texting consistently up until today. On Wed, I told him I was available to play, there wasn’t a set time but he kept me waiting for 3 hrs. He apologized & even had his friend message me to explain. Apparently monopoly went longer than expected.

Things were going well in my opinion, yesterday he asked if I enjoy cuddling while watching a movie. He said it was a general statement & I think he was under the impression that I thought he was flirting. Then he was defensive, saying we barely know each other & wouldn’t ask that. His tone turned me off & I removed him from IG & Snapchat.

He msgs me shortly on PlayStation, asking why I removed him & said he wasn’t being defensive. Asking what he did wrong now & wanted to clear the air. I msged him this morning back but he’s online playing and hasn’t responded. He was flirty earlier in the week then yesterday was defensive & now ghosting me. If I don’t hear back from him tomorrow, I am blocking him from ever contacting me again on any platform.

Pot luck hair lol I never really know what is going to show up.

I decided since everything is so crazy atm I’ll just accept what comes and send it back if I don’t like it , instead of taking up time bothering employees About wrong item being sent.

I can say with Certainly this is not brown
(I ordered brown😏) 😯😯😯

I think I actually like the color in the darker pics, but in the lighter pics it’s too blond ( for me. I don’t think it matches my skin tone)
It is also quite short relative to whst I am used to, but this is not a bad thing, just different. Thank You 🌺

I don’t think dark blond “burnt orange” suits me 🤷‍♀️

The “curly medium brown ombré “ I had on earlier in another post, was a nice sort of brown, yet still being a bit too reddish for my skin tone and just _barely_ suited me.

I am wondering what you all think of this color, outside of whether any of us think it suits me personally 😛

I am really sorry the pictures suck. It was night time. I took them befure I left and I can not take pics here bc I’m not alone and it’s too embarrassing 🤦‍♀️ ... NO ONE KNOWS I do this. Ask opinions online on clothing/ hair. It’s like “my secret life as a stripper” 😂😂

(I said “ like” not equal to😉)


Thank You 🌺

I Hope you are all doing well whether you believe or don’t believe or care or don’t care about current events 😌

Is there anyone out there who doesn't think a man looks great in a suit?
I know a suit is a uniform of sorts, a mandatory item for certain professions, but a well-tailored suit, or sportjacket ensemble is just so polished, finished, and smart looking. I'm a sucker for them. I don't expect or like men to be in them all the time, but especially when it's for certain occasions, they just make the man look so good. Yum.

Here's some questions on the topic:
1. How do you feel about men in uniforms? I know a lot of women love military uniforms, etc. It doesn't do much for me, personally (I really like self-expression/choice, and I'm not for authority), but I get it. What do you like about it? What do you find more attractive/think looks better - a man in his own suit that he chose, or a man in uniform?
2. What about sportcoats? Prefer the looser, mix and match aspect of a jacket that does not have matching pants? I love this look too. So many possibilities. More casual, but also a great look. Just depends on how much formalness is required.
3. Do you like this trend of very slim cuts? Do you think they've gone overboard, too tight? I notice even on very fit celebrities, they gain a little bit of weight, either in fat or muscle, and the suit ends up pulling ('whiskering') in unflattering ways (you see this not just with buttoning the jacket, but the thigh or calf area being tight.) I suspect this style came about from a combination of metrosexuality, showing off and flattering the male form more, and a deliberate change of styles to encourage people to buy more.
4. What do you think of the brighter blue suits that became very popular in the last few years? I never liked it, and am over it, personally. I'd like to see some other new ideas, like a very subtle additional colour being woven into a menswear plaid, for ex. Dark tones look really good this way. Any other ideas you'd like to see? Do you feel you have enough opportunity for self-expression?
5. Tie or no tie?