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Women normally aren't sexually attracted to a guy until she forms an emotional connection with him, and if she doesn't need an emotional connection to feel sexual attraction to him, he is in like the top 5% of men looks wise. And in general women find few men attractive. In contrast men are sexually attracted to average looking women at first site and find a large number of women attractive. This makes dating easy for women (or hard for both genders simply because of their lack of attraction to men, hard because it's hard to find men they are attracted to when they have very little attraction to men in general).

It depresses me that I don't have the desire to have sex with anyone. I would like to have a healthy relationship with someone but I feel broken. I still get romantic feelings for women every now and then but sex is never attached to it. I just want to love and build a future with someone and share our lives together.

Women have always left me in the past because they feel like I have no passion. They feel unwanted and undesired. Being in a relationship with me was described as "torture" which I think was exaggerated. They said I'm a wonderful guy which made it hard for them to break up with me.

I just want so much to be normal. I want to love someone completely. My lack of sexual attraction towards people makes women feel like a best friend. I want to change but something in the pit of my stomach tells me this is just how I am and I have to accept it even if it comes with many broken hearts and failed relationships.

I hope you have some answers for me because I'm fresh out.

I think there's a distinctive difference between being nice and just being a genuinely good person. I would consider myself a good person with strong morals, but literally no one I know would ever say I'm a nice guy. I personally think being known as a nice guy is sort of weak and you're only setting yourself up to be taken advantage of. I also think that you instantly lose a lot of sexual attraction if all the girls describe you as being nice. You want to carry some type of edge as a guy. Nice = Harmless. I know a lot of people might say otherwise but based on my 24 years of life, this is what I've come up with. I'm not saying you have to be known as an asshole, but being nice all the time results in nothing but negative shit from my experience.

Initial sexual attraction Vs Friendship



I've recently chosen the path of initial attraction. I'm aggressive and make my intentions known as quick as possible. Because if there is no attraction on her part to me then there is no point in even continuing with her. True some girls might be put off by the aggression but i'm not into mind games so that's why i do what i do.

I let her know what I want, if she ain't with it she can get lost.

I've ran into several girls that say they prefer friendship that flourishes into love, which i find to be baolonga. You expect someone to be strung along till you make a decision on what you want... lol

What are your thoughts? Which has been the best in your experience.

I choose sexual attraction because if they ain't attracted then there's no point. Friendship gets you in the friendzone. DUHH