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I’ve been working for months to get the attention of this guy “C”. Like we were friendly but I’ve been wanting him to flirt and admit he likes me too. This week he finally confesses that he does like me but is trying to fight it off due to distance. Next thing you, know 4 other dudes pop up the day after. Like what are the chances and right before the new year. I brushed off the majority because they consisted of major dealbreakers. But i met this guy “K” who is literally another C but noticed me romantically immediately. The connection was nearly 10 times stronger and he's closer in distance. But i like that C and I worked up a friendship first. Its something I needed to do in past relationships that I did not. K told me to get to know them both but I know C would be totally against this because he’s already showing signs of jealousy when it comes to other men approaching me. Do I get to know K in secret or do i tell C? Plus K just got out of a relationship and claims he's not rebounding. I somewhat believe he isn't because neither was i. But I dont know what to do because I dont want to go into 2020 in another love triangle

Ok so here’s my situation.

I’m talking to a guy I’ve been talking to for 5 months now. We both agreed we wouldn’t get into a bf/gf relationship because he graduates soon and we’re both not emotionally ready for the commitment of the title. We did agree to only mess with and continue talking to only each other tho. He’s always been a busy guy but lately he’s been more busy and I don’t know if I should be alarmed because it’s finals szn. He used to be obsessed with me and now he won’t hype me up when I look good asf, he takes his phone with him everywhere, he’s been trying to lose weight, and he likes the same girls pics on insta. The thing is, these are all bad signs but the other day he cried to me (cuz of an argument we had where he thought I was messing w other guys because of something I said) telling me he’s never slept with anyone besides me since we’ve started talking so I don’t kno what to believe. Some friends tell me to trust my gut and others tell me he’s genuinely just busy but cares. I don’t even know what to do and I need to kno if I really should be focusing on just him. We don’t have a title but I liked the idea of only giving him my attention. I don’t know whether or not I should trust the situation before I take a step back and talk to other people, so please help.