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Search Results: changing behavior
The guy I'm talking to is sending me mixed signals. Talk to him about it or ghost/call it quits?
I don't know but I've been dating a lot and I learned to take mixed signals as a no, those are red flags in my book. I think the best is to just call it quits, but part of me always wants to call them out on it. When I do...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why it's hard for me to put my trust into people
Trust is a big thing for me. Many people have backstabbed me, lied to me, or betrayed me in some way to an extent and i felt stupid and foolish as a teen girl thinking some of these people cared about me or would stick...
Paolaa988
Explorer Age: 27 How do you prove your love after damage has been done?
My relationship for the past few months has been very tumultuous. It's far too much to detail here in one sitting and each aspect would probably require its own question. So let me just make this as concise as possible....
Anonymous
(25-29) I broke up with my boyfriend for yelling at me but he's willing to go to therapy to stay together. Am I selfish/a bad person for not wanting to stay?
Both 24. Dating for 1 year 9 months. He has had 5 fit rages in this time: shouts and yells at me and some agressive behaviors like throwing things or hitting wall but NEVER towards me though. Hasn't laid a hand on me nor...
veecutie
Xper 4 Age: 30 Am I too hard on men? And am I too hard on "Black" men especially?
These videos made me think about my own implicit bias. These guys did an experiment with men begging. I mean everyone is going to give to a woman. Even if men don't, women will give to other women who are in trouble or...
RolandCuthbert
Editor Age: 54 Mental health as a student (online semester due to COVID-19 regulations)
I had an awful week and wanted to tell you about it to give you a idea of what studying at university during the pandemic is like. First off, I will not explain what the situation is like in Germany right now as I find...
tallandsweet
Editor Age: 24 Should I leave my two year relationship?
Here are a few reasons why things did not went well. his dad expelled me from his house on my second Thanksgiving and my boyfriend did nothing. he said I only wanted his visa since I am foreign. After that we never more...
Anonymous
(30-35) Are there any apps or hacking devices that are undetected?
My daughter (adopted her when I was 19, she is biologically my sister) just turned 15 (I'm 29) and recently I have gotten a few messages from some concerned parents regarding her behavior. Apparently she has been hanging...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I let go of my social anxieties and worry of rejection? What do you suggest?
Hey guys! I've always find it hard to really have the self confidence in myself to pursue what I want dating wise. I second guess myself when hitting on someone and afraid to open up my true inner thoughts in fear of...
aquarius21
Xper 5 Age: 29 Did you used to be a person who valued matters of heart more than brains? How did you change?
I used to be the crazy hopeless romantic and the calm person but after witnessing so many liars and betrayals I turned ice cold and I honestly can't love selflessly anymore. I've become more of a logical person who...
Anonymous
(25-29) Being A Better Man
Here are some of my thoughts on how one can be a better man. To be a better man you must be true to your word. If you make a promise, keep it. But this also means that your word is very valuable. Do you go tossing bars of...
hahahmm
Master Age: 53 I can't imagine just how hateful and bigoted my stepdad is
My stepfather (47M) is either a narcissist or a liar. I've seen signs in him since I was as young as ten shortly after my mother was first dating him. When he talks, he says he doesn't brag but does brag about his fake...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you have certain things that will make you instantly cut someone out your life?
I'm a a very stubborn person but only when it's something i feel is important. Mostly if i feel someone does not give me the same respect I give them, especially if they change up how they treat me because they are...
cjgsu
Xper 7 Age: 25 Converts to Christianity - What was most difficult for you?
If you converted to Christianity, what was most difficult for you? By that, I mean what the most difficult teaching for you to accept and what was the most difficult change to behavior and lifestyle you made? The same...
u How many of you trump cult members are still in denial and buying the bullshit?
What the insane orange man did, was try to convince Michigan lawmakers to intervene and send HIS electors to the Electoral College, not Biden's. His basis for this? Only his personality disorder and desire to end the...
loveslongnails
Master Age: 40 5 Signs You Must Definitely Part Away From Her
Sometimes you can't expect some people to change into anything good. While some people change into better people after they get into a relationship, some just cannot change themselves. These are some signs of such...
Anonymous
(25-29) The new guy I am dating flat out says “I really want to have sex with you right now”. Is this a bold move?
This happened on our fourth date. We have only known eachother for like 2 weeks prior to that point. We were making out, he was getting touchy and he finally just says “I really want to have sex with you right now”. He...
Anonymous
(18-24) What are the types of women men should avoid? Is this an example? Is it fair to judge someone based on their profile?
This is the girl I wrote about in my last story. Why did she change her mind so quickly? Why would she do this? Was she ever serious in the first place? Here is her social media profile....
Jack9949
Explorer Age: 24 How do I not feel insecure when my girlfriend is so beautiful?
We are in a LDR. She is so beautiful. Almost every guys in her college stare at her. She get lots of request and messages from strangers on her social media accounts. I know she is loyal in our relationship. and i'm not...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can anyone give me advice on my confusing breakup? Why did my ex go to the girl he told me not to worry about?
I hope that everything I say will make sense. I will be using fake names to ensure privacy. Let’s say I am “Rachel”, my ex-boyfriend is “John” and the side-girl is “Emily”. John and I began our relationship almost...
Lucy45
Xper 3 Age: 26 