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-Together for 8years, but we were both unhappy (past two years)
-He was unfaithful to me in the beginning of our relationship, promised he'd never do it again
-We have a 1yr old child
-I've been telling him for months that I wanted us to split because baby was growing up in too many arguments he kept saying we have to stay together as a family so I stayed
-We decided to split beginning of October, had a good long conversation, everything was fine.
-Found out a few days afterwards it was because he had a new 'friend' that he finally agreed to split with me.
-He kept saying they were just friends and started asking me to get back together (about two weeks after). He said he'd changed and he wants his family.
-We had sex twice, once three weeks ago and once three days ago.
-Right after (an hour or so) we had sex three days ago, he admitted to me he had sex with the girl two days after the last time we had sex and says it was a mistake... they were at work and she pushed herself on him and he just let her do what she wanted
- He then said that she told him she is pregnant for him and he does not know what to do, that he quarrelled with her and she told him she does not want him in the child's life at all, does not want child support or anything at all.
-I have been faithful to him for our entire relationship and he knows I do not believe in casual sex.
-He has said that he does not feel anytype of way about having sex with her since him and I were not in a relationship at that time... though I will admit he wrongfully made me feel like I was all he wanted.
-He wants us to be together, tells me he was stupid, that because he is poor and she was offering him everything he could ever dream of, he got blindsided. And that now he sees the light and that I am the best woman he could ever have, that the money doesn't mean anything as long as he has his family

For almost a year I have been dating a married man, he sees me when he can and just recently texted me that his divorce is final and that he wants to come visit me. I recently moved out of state not waiting on him. He wants to spend Christmas and New Years with me. I have been through the married men phase before and his behaviors are typical except he is different in that he takes me to his house their bedroom to spend the night when she is out of town. He is wealthy and keeps asking me to be a kept women and that he wants to take care of me but when the alcohol wears off he doesn't communicate like he never said these things and then I get completely angry and upset and then we don't talk for a couple weeks its the same cycle. Let me give you a little of his background and a little of mine so it might make sense. He has a great career, he is a square, he is 34 has been married since he was 23 to the same woman, no kids, acts like he is 50 due to the country club he belongs too and all his friends are older, he comes from money and has never really had any trauma in his life. He asked me out I was waiting on him and his friend. I am 40, I look good for my age, have no kids, and have never been married. I rock his world in the bedroom and he does the same for me. He takes me out to fancy dinners, sporting events, whatever I want, I grew up in the ghetto, I have made my own money however as a bartender, and am finishing up my degree, I yell, he doesn't communicate, we have lived very completely different lives he likes country I like rap. My question does he like to make me feel like shit, or are his true feelings coming out when he is drunk? I see him a week or two later and he pretends like nothing happenned and we keep going through the cycle. He knows he doesn't have to tell me these things to get laid so I don't know why he does it. I never have asked him to leave his wife or complain about anything except that I want to see him more. Any questions please ask?