Search Results: spark a conversation

What does a woman mean by 'not feeling a spark'?

Hi folks - The last three girls that I briefly dated (3 to 5 dates with each) all used almost exactly the same words ('don't feel enough spark' or variation thereof) when letting me know that they don't want to continue...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Dating a guy whose fiance broke up with him 2 months ago, bad idea?

I've known this guy Kyle for a couple of years now, I first met him as the boyfriend of Kelly, an acquaintance of mine (she's friends with one my good friends). Kyle and I get along pretty well- we sort of set off a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

For guys: How do I determine if this married man wants me without embarrassing myself?

I am a married woman in my early 40s & I want to pursue a potential fling with a married man. We are around each other every weekend because our children are in little league together & our spouses are rarely there...

SweetHeiress

Xper 5 Age: 45

What to do if she's ignoring me?

So we were flirting really well and she said "Ok, fine. I want to talk to you, and I enjoy your parrot picture. Now quit this charade , tinker." But then this conversation happened: Me - Not been obsessing over any...

fmfan08

Xper 5 Age: 34

I didn't think he was attracted to me but he kissed me?

So I went on a first date with this guy I met online. He turned out to be really cute but I didn't think there was any "spark" during the date. We had a really good conversation (I think) but it was all very platonic. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

What to make of this?

So previously this girl in high school friend zoned the sh*t out of me. My fault Anyways out of the blue. I mean out of the blue she drunk texted me this, like we haven't talked since November. Keep in mind that were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What would be your reaction?

It's near the end of the semester at school, but this one girl started coming to my class a few weeks back because it was more convenient (same teacher, earlier class). She's cute and we've made some eye contact. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I would like to understand what is going on with her

Well, this is it. I've posted lately that my ex and I were going our separate ways, even if we loved each other, some things that happened in the past makes it impossible for her to get back together. We're barely...

johndoe90

Xper 5 Age: 49

Dating

Why should we text and start conversations first?

Recently my girlfriend doesn't text me unless I text her first. I couldn't go days without sending a text but she could easily go days without it. Also when we see each other during the day she will sit there and make an...

Lucas94

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

Receiving short answers, but in this situation?

We had originally fallen out due to me being rash and removing her off twitter/Facebook but we had flirted before, she started seeming off with me because of removing her. I apologized but got no text back, so left it a...

fmfan08

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why is my male coworker hot and cold towards me?

First I should mention that there is absolutely no way we can date due to our circumstances. I have a boyfriend and plus workplace romances are strictly forbidden and I would never want to lose my job over this and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How does chatting blossom into something more?

I have had a strong attraction physically and mentally to a man who graduated last year. I remember that I actually met my ex boyfriend right around the time I met him, and even when I was dating my ex I was thinking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can you help who you are physically attracted to?

This girl - she seems to be the perfect girl for me, except for one thing, she's slightly chubby. I actively tried to create opportunities to get to know her. She seems receptive, starts conversations with me. But only...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is the awkward silence a bad thing with this girl?

So I haven't really hung out with this girl I only see her two days a week at college and she talks to me more than anyone in the class girls included and always sits by me. After class we walk with each other and talk...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls Don't Seem Interested

I am 16, and a lot of girls say I'm cute and nice and everything, but whenever I try to get serious with a girl, I'm almost always shot down. Does anyone know why this is? And could I also get tips on how to gain...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a girl is "comfortable" with a guy?

So this girl seems way too comfortable calling me name and things like that (playfully) and there just a special "spark" in the air when we are together (a lot of our friends mention it). The only thing is that sometimes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Learn To Be Approachable and Put Yourself Out There

Some people are natural flirts. They have a natural charm and charisma with the opposite sex that makes them appealing and approachable. Some of us lack this approachability. When told to “put ourselves out there” if...

celestialdaeva

Xper 7 Age: 42

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