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There's this guy I've been talking to online for a couple of months now. Two weeks ago we met for the first time and this week we're going to meet up again. We had a lot of fun and I can talk to him about anything really. He's like really cute and kind of really my type, but I don't want to start liking him.

He's a great friend: he supports & motivates me, tries to get me out of my comfort zone and doesn't judge me. I feel like really comfortable around him and can be just silly & weird. I just wish things could stay like this without feelings getting in the way and ruin everything.

I'm kind of really scared of feelings and had some really bad experiences with guys and liking them. (I know it's wrong to distance myself because getting hurt is part of life, but its not really something I can deal with atm).

Guy A: He is not really handsome but he is very kind. He doesn’t really draw attention. He compliments you a lot and smothers you with his love for you. He is predictable. He gets jealous when another guy is trying to draw your attention but he says nothing about it because he is afraid, even when you feel uncomfortable. He cares a lot and he shows that directly. He is insecure, emotional, and affectionate. He is in touch with his feelings and completely harmless. If something is wrong he has the tendency to act like a victim and expects you to solve the problem. You’re not feeling secure with him but you feel cared about. He talks a lot. He tends to sugarcoat to please you. He never initiates intimacy, intercourse is mainly vanilla and gentle. He prefers you to take the responsibility and do as you like. He seeks your approval and sometimes you feel like you’re coping up with a child/servant.

Guy B: This guy has outstanding looks. He draws attention but he minds his own business. He doesn’t compliment you a lot. He is gentle and treats you well. He is unpredictable. When another guy is trying to draw your attention, he tells him to back off. He doesn’t mind to use violence if necessary for your safety/comfort. He cares about you and shows that mainly indirectly. He is confident and logical. He isn’t easily affected and is calm. Feelings such as sadness, is something you rarely see, only when it’s serious. This guy isn’t harmless but neither harmful to you. He is protective and makes you feel secure. If something is wrong he has the tendency to be logical about it and focuses on solving the problem. He isn’t talkative but he is a great listener. He is honest. He initiates intimacy and intercourse is mainly rough and intense. He takes matters in his hands and the full responsibility. He never seeks your approval, but he wants your opinion. Sometimes you feel like you’re dealing with a robot because he doesn’t always speak his mind or doesn’t feel as much as you do.