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I go to college and there's this really weird woman in one of my classes. I am 19 and at first didn't talk to her. But then we started talking a little bit and she pretty much gave me her life story early on and like told me all these details like who cares? well I am in her class again and basically she started getting more talkative towards me. she's 39, she doesn't really talk to any of the young women I go to college with or any guys. Just me. Well she started teasing me a bit and she constantly gives me ****. I noticed she was talking to someone and I was just listening to her and she was looking at me the whole time and not at them. When I talk to other people she likes to join in and try to talk to me. I was sitting down and working and I talked to her. She walked up got a little close Then gets close to see what I am working on. She stood there during an awkward pause with a little eye contact and like said she had to leave but wouldn't. I have been getting a vibe something is off. One time she s sat right next to me and asked if

I go to college and there's this really weird woman in one of my classes. I am 19 and at first didn't talk to her. But then we started talking a little bit and she pretty much gave me her life story early on and like told me all these details like who cares? well I am in her class again and basically she started getting more talkative towards me. she's 39, she doesn't really talk to any of the young women I go to college with or any guys. Just me. Well she started teasing me a bit and she constantly gives me ****. I noticed she was talking to someone and I was just listening to her and she was looking at me the whole time and not at them. When I talk to other people she likes to join in and try to talk to me. I was sitting down and working and I talked to her. She walked up got a little close like 2 feet. Then gets close to see what I am working on. She stood there during an awkward pause with a little eye contact and like said she had to leave but wouldn't. I have been getting a vibe something is off. One time she s sat right next to me and asked if its ok. She sits with Me a bit. One time I came in for class she was waiting in the hall didn't come in into the room until I did. She has a boyfriend and a son 1 yr younger than me but I look really old for my age 30s at least

I go to college and there's this really weird woman in one of my classes. I am 19 and at first didn't talk to her. But then we started talking a little bit and she pretty much gave me her life story early on and like told me all these details like who cares? well I am in her class again and basically she started getting more talkative towards me. she's 39, she doesn't really talk to any of the young women I go to college with or any guys. Just me. Well she started teasing me a bit and she constantly gives me ****. I noticed she was talking to someone and I was just listening to her and she was looking at me the whole time and not at them. When I talk to other people she likes to join in and try to talk to me. I was sitting down and working and I talked to her. She walked up got a little close like 2 feet. Then gets close to see what I am working on. She stood there during an awkward pause with a little eye contact and like said she had to leave but wouldn't. I have been getting a vibe something is off. One time she s sat right next to me and asked if it s cool

So, maybe it’s just me being unreasonable or it’s something deeper, but I just don’t feel as into a woman romantically if she’s been with a lot of partners as opposed to a few or no partners at all. Maybe it’s just me being selfish and wanting her all to myself or maybe there’s more to it than just that. I can't really understand how some men can romantically be with a woman who has been with a bunch of other men. I mean, I would probably understand more if you wanted to use her for just the night for a one night stand or hookup, but falling in love with her? Getting into a relationship? Having children with her? I can’t really wrap my head around that. I don’t feel like I can love a woman deep if she’s had an extensive past of being with a bunch of people, nor do I feel she can love me to the fullest extent as well. I don’t think it’s insecurity, at least not fully. I think it’s something in my ape brain telling me that a woman who has been with a lot of partners is a red flag. I think it’s something biological, but my current intellect is not up to par for explaining/articulating my feeling, biologically.

I just feel like the bonding between me and woman is different if all we have to go by is one another, as opposed to having a bunch of partners before the “one.” I think something happens in our neural circuitry that might make it harder to love someone to the core, to be loyal, and to respond to sex differently. At some point, we’ll just feel as if the person we’re currently we is just another body or number. Good news is, there’s apparently a lot of women who share the same sentiments as me so there’s a good chance of finding a woman to get into a relationship with that has the same standing as I.

I should probably edit this when I have more information or my new thoughts come into my head, but right now, this is just on the top of my head. Any biology experts, chime in.