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The question isn't who is more controlling, the question is WHO "CRAVES" MORE CONTROL?

I've often wondered that at the end of the day, men don't really care too much about what or how their woman is. They just want someone to be with. The stereotype that men just wanna get laid seems to have some substance in it.

On the other hand, women have much higher standards. "He should be like this, he should be like that". I think women get upset more often than men because their partner wouldn't do what they want them to do or behave how they want them to behave.

What do you feel? Who wants it more, for their partner to act or be in a 'particular way'? Who has a stronger desire to have a partner who will agree to what they want? Or in other worda, who wants to control their partner more than the other?

I have a hard time with basic people as I usually don't find them interesting since they are basically defined by trends or by groups and, therefore, tend to lack uniqueness. Is this a high standard or is this normal?

The reason they are chasing is because they are desperate for that validation right?

I’ll speak from my own personal experience here. Back when I was desperate for women, I had a very low self esteem. So much so to the point where I couldn’t even approach them, because I felt I was beneath them. And part of the contributor was the fact that I hadn’t yet convinced myself of my own self worth, which meant that I was then dependent on the word of somebody else.

In the time since I’ve re-examined myself and my behaviors which has fundamentally transformed me as a person. Beforehand I was too focused on how society didn’t match my standards, instead of learning to work with what we had in common. I also had no understanding of how my social behaviors isolated me from other people. I’ve since learned to focus my attention on the one person I can change: Myself 😄

As a result of the above I’ve become a much happier person, and I am tempted to believe that I am a much higher value man than I was before, considering how I’ve been getting results. 👍