True or false? High value men don’t chase women? They focus on developing themselves first?

[Jack9949]

The reason they are chasing is because they are desperate for that validation right?

I’ll speak from my own personal experience here. Back when I was desperate for women, I had a very low self esteem. So much so to the point where I couldn’t even approach them, because I felt I was beneath them. And part of the contributor was the fact that I hadn’t yet convinced myself of my own self worth, which meant that I was then dependent on the word of somebody else.

In the time since I’ve re-examined myself and my behaviors which has fundamentally transformed me as a person. Beforehand I was too focused on how society didn’t match my standards, instead of learning to work with what we had in common. I also had no understanding of how my social behaviors isolated me from other people. I’ve since learned to focus my attention on the one person I can change: Myself 😄

As a result of the above I’ve become a much happier person, and I am tempted to believe that I am a much higher value man than I was before, considering how I’ve been getting results. 👍

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[btbc92]

Absolutely true. It has less to do with who's high-value who is it. It's more so to do about how you see your in a self. You're the perfect example of why I tell you guys all the time do what you got to do to get yourself at a level where you are content with your life. Because if you're not content with your life, and you start chasing down women, you just going to make yourself not only look bad, you're not going to be able to truly love yourself the way you do, nor will other women respect you. The same applies to women. A lot of women wants to chase after a man because she wants to be loved, but she's not realizing that the only person that can truly love her is God himself. That applies to men too. So I say kudos for you to finally learning and getting That Into You Love You, other people won't be able to learn to really respect you the way they should. Glad you learned it early.

[modelUN242]

I agree. I tell myself improve yourself and people will come to you. After I did, people weren't giving me ugly looks or being uncomfortable around me. They actually listened when I said something. Society is judgmental and people think it's unfair, it's supposed to be! Some people are going to benefit and some people are going to lose.

I think high-value men can chase after a woman who is wife-material? Like she's the one? I mean I would, because it's once in a lifetime. But a high-value man chasing any woman exists as well, if you're talking about Chad lol. But high-value man, as in highly confident and true to himself, not so much.

Also, good for you for realizing that and improving yourself. Best of luck!