In terms of the way you put it, I'd say it's true.
That being said, a woman getting attention, doesn't mean she'll get retention, especially with a top tier man.
Top tier men have a lot of women to choose from, they'll date a girl who's rich, alll the way down to one who's broke, because he doesn't care about that, he's got the financial bit covered, so he's got more options than other's in dating, because a lot of women's 'options' consist of guys they don't want to date, so they aren't really options to being with.
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All genders must create their value to have success in the dating world.
Just netting a rando isn't "success". Having a healthy relationship is success.
That doesn't happen when the people in the relationship aren't giving their best to their partner (s).
All people must create value.
Why would anyone date someone just because they're there and around? Date people you like, whose life you want to contribute to, and who you want to contribute to your life.
Everyone needs to create "value" (as in, build themselves and their lives into beings and lifestyles others would want to be part of) to find success dating.
True but value doesn’t equal money. Both genders have to bring something to the table to be successful in dating - it could simply be emotional support, friendship, affection, or things like good sex or looks, money, etc
False. You don't have to create any value by just being born tall or to rich parents.
But I do agree that women are valued just for existing, while men have to "prove themselves" as valuable. It's unfair, but you gotta blame nature and natural selection for that and it's not just a problem human males go through if they want to breed.
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You feel this way because most of the women in your dating pool are invisible to you. You pay attention to only the most attractive. Of course those women have a lot of choice. If you want to be chosen you have to stand out. You are liked someone complaining that they can't afford a car but really they are complaining that they can't afford a Ferrari.
I mean, if they don't have something that makes them valuable in my eyes that I can't get from another, then yeah.
There's a lot of truth in that, but it's not absolute. Guys also have something to offer even if they don't (yet) have a bunch of money.
Everyone must, both men and women.
We are all born with our own individual great values, but not everything needed for a relationship.That's why I don't bother lol. I'll stay single.
That's true for men and women
Very true
Obviously true.
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