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My boyfriend is very career minded with his business and stuff. He's always got something going off and it can be hard at times for example he can sometimes constantly be on his phone making arrangements whilst he's meant to be spending time with me. He does apologize when he does this kind of stuff.
It's also annoying when his business partners are talking to him about work whilst I'm around as I have no clue what they are talking about and I feel left out of the conversation.
It took him along time to actually get a girlfriend because he was too focused on his business and family issues. I'm 6 years younger than him and I think it works well because I still don't want to settle down with children and such so gives him more time to get his business going without the worries of fatherhood and being a husband etc. My dad was also self employed so understand how it can be. With long hours and not always being around and everyone wanting his work so I don't get mad or angry when he's busy with work if anything I'm happy for him and try to push him and his business to grow. I fully support him and want him to be successful.
I think that's what these kinds of men need in a woman. A woman whose gonna stand by and support him and be understanding in difficult times. I tell myself everytime he goes off to work it's not because he prefers it to me its because he wants the best for me and him and is working his arse off for it so I should be grateful.
Out of curiosity does he or does his support of you require financial input?
Men don’t become wealthy by being airheads. Obv they know with money comes gold diggers. I’m assuming they are aware of the women they pursue only being interested in their pockets and they probably don’t care cause they are also using said women for their body. “Gold diggers” are rarely ever ugly and that’s cause the mans getting something in return. Prostitution but labeling it dating cause it takes the filth away that the word carries. And for the small amount of men that are wealthy and haven’t been consumed by materialistic/shallow things just date a women in and around your league that makes her own earnings. Pussy makes the world go round, men aren’t going to stop pursuing women cause you think they should
Okay? same thing applies for the most part. I’m not a wealthy man but I still have basic knowledge that with money comes leeches. If he struck out with inheritance and he can’t tell the difference between actual love and a women just using him then he’s asking to be taking advantage of by that point (not implying said women are in the right either)
Sure but like men, women can hide their nature pretty well. Men are considered as providers, most girls want guys to pay on dates. It can be very hard to differentiate genuine interest from gold-digging. Plus men marry totally broke women all the time, girls on average earn way less than guys. So if someone wants to date similar, there will be way less to choose from.
there's a difference in doing nice gestures involving money at the expense of a love interest (which generally doesn’t even put in a dent) and a women draining your wallet. Men seeking women that are broke is their choice, it’s not her manipulating if he knows she’s not earning much. and yes you have less to choose from when going for someone that matches your pay but again it’s his choice not to be picky. This conversation went on too long and is getting boring. Bottom line there’s no need to victimize *all* men about money in there own pockets. Majority of the time they willingly give out handouts. A women can’t get a dime from you unless you give her the okay. There are shitty women that do take advantage, manipulate, gaslight, and lie for their own agenda and men that get caught up in thattt are victims but they are exceptions not the rule
Why would you not want to do something when you have the advantage in the field? It's clear from the swiping patters on popular dating websites / apps that women find most of the guys as below average, meaning their perception of the male population is very skewed, or simply put, most guys are invisible to most women from a sexual point of view. Then when, as a man you are very successful, and you have the pick of the litter, why should you not date? On the contrary, I advice men who are below or average to not date and first build up their gravitas and status in society.
If he's a 'professional' man, do you NOT THINK if he was JUST looking for a 'hook-up'
that he would not bother flaunting his success and 'buy' the 'girl friend' experience from an equally-'professional' Escort?
GUARANTEED she's skilled in her glamoury, sexual prowess, ALWAYS in 'the mood' to be ego-flattering~
He doesn't REALLY want to know 'how HER day was'... she's his 'bought & paid for' fantasy actress ideal while the meter is running.
"Hey, Hey, YOU! Get intah mah car!" so the pop song goes~ ;)
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On all honesty if you date when you're successful is konda risky cause anyone can love you just for your money and pretend the entire time, however i prefer dating someone who has been with me through my lowest or when i just started building myself, and growing with him is better because he knows how hard you work and your struggles. Also it has great value to the relationship cause you were together at the very beginning... but if you wanna date when you're successful is kinda risky cause most times you'll wonder if that girl likes you for your money or likes you for you..
I own a business. My business has a website. Last time I looked when I google my full name I got just over 800 hits mostly because of the google bots crawling my website and other websites of companies worldwide I do business with. This is also why I do not put my real name on social media sites. I date. In the past several years two women have tried to baby trap me, not knowing I now shoot blanks and can document it. I have been arrested for stalking because a girl finally saw I was not interested in her. Thankfully another female and video confirmed I was innocent. I date, I am just selective of who I go out with!
Why would any woman want to date a loser man? This question makes it sound like if a guy is a loser and unsuccessful he should date.
If he is good at it and successful he shouldn't.
I don't want to date a loser who can't even hold down a job or can't make more than minimum wage.
I suppose if he wants to be single and just hire people, I say great... glad he can afford that.
People should date in their own yearly income bracket, you a female working and can't afford rent why should a guy who has bank come and be your man when he can find a woman with bank and her shit together? Gold diggers should be put in jail for thinking they can date out of their yearly income bracket. That is exactly how women like you sound just with the genders reversed.
@InferiorElegy I've never asked a guy what his income is when dating, but it becomes pretty obvious when I make more than him after a bit. It isn't a requirement for love. It is though for long term stability, I'm not going to support his loser ass.
I also don't want anyone to support me, everyone should be able to stand independent. Relying on someone else means that can be pulled out without notice.
If you think someone is trying to gold digger you, then don't date them... it isn't that hard.
@anylolone Whatever
People who want to date should date. Some women care more than others about income. If you dont have a lot of income then simply skip the ones that want that money. Everyone has emotional and spiritual needs to be met. Some people are fine living solo until they reach what they would consider success. Others will choose not to date because the way society is today getting harder and harder to trust people. For the rich man who wants to date a woman he will do so. It so funny though looking at some of these comments from women lol. They want a man with money but when a man wants a girl with a low body count or to be traditional WATCH OUT! LMFAO!
I'm a big believer on bring honest with yourself about what you want and going for it fully. If that's what he wants, fuck it. If not, fuck it. Others opinions don't really matter
If I were that level of prestige, personally I would be a known player and exclusively do open relationships. I wouldn't get married. I would have a dating life, not just fucking. And just be smart
A man who is a good catch always has more to offer than the women he can get. This is why women always want to marry up - even the most modern feminist. If she doesn't it's because she doesn't have that option. Point is, that ultimately women don't want you for who you are. It's a fantasy to think otherwise. Yes, some only want you for how you make them feel but that still isn't really you. It's about their feeling.
He just need to learn to vet better. He needs to go really traditional and she needs to put in some effort. Since he is the prize not so much her since there is bound to be many of her compare to him. What he shouldn't do is marry. That way she only get the benefits while she is with him.
No!
Sometimes, you just have to do it and jump right in and better to succeed together.
Men and women have their own goals and have their ideas of success. It is even better when you help each other and succeed together. Build each other up and be awesome together.
Date?
Don't you mean... should they "marry a woman or live with a woman or have a child with a woman"? Something that legally binds his life and success and assets and retirement to her. To where she can involve the courts to have them pay her money by force that she never earned and had no part in?
Date... sure.
Legally hitch himself to her... he should probably weigh that option very heavily.
Such a man can date equally accomplished women. Or not. Jeff Bridges is happily married to a woman he met when she was working at a hotel where he was staying. Scott Adams is happily married to a woman he met when she was working at a restaurant he owned. A man that accomplished likely is able to tell whether a woman is only interested in him for the money. Such women tend not to be very interesting.
Men don’t look for successful women so why should women look for successful men? When they do it’s only for the man’s money and his wealthy image. Which is weird that women look for that yet claim they want to eat the rich... is it because they want to destroy these men’s lives? Take all of their money and use it for things they believe it would be better used?
Date after you are successful. Dating earlier just ends up in hurt feelings, getting used, and them abandoning you from what I have seen among many people I have known.
Usually the same ones that complain about a successful man dating a younger woman are the same ones that either won't date or will leave a regular man for someone more successful.
Just either don't get married, or get a prenuptial agreement where you get to keep all of your assets.
Lol I think someone who's successful (ie accomplished due to his own merits) would not care about what a bunch of unsuccessful people think he should do. That's now how you get successful.
@Tashjf if you were successful you would not need to put others down.
He might be, but your assumption over successful guys is also wrong.
And outside of competition, and even then slightly, in order to grow successful it's better to not put people down, even shitty workers.
The way to deal with shitty employee's is firing them, and understanding that no matter how well you are at judging character, 20% of your employees are going to output most of the work.
@anylolone I'm not talking about putting anyone down... but you don't have to be successful to not care about strangers opinion about what your personal life should be like. It has nothing to do with one's employees neither so I'm not sure where that came from?
Do not date or court women in the old-fashioned way.
Where I live prostitution is legal.
Employ a woman as the (very) personal assistant, on a contract, and pay her.
If/when she leaves and tries to give herself a payday in the Family Court, she would not have a case.
She would not be a former common law wife, or actual wife.
She would be a disgruntled former employee. :-)
That sounds awfully sad
@TheLittleInnocent
That is the world that Feminists created.
Men have to protect themselves against a hostile and unjust legal system, as well as a significant number of women who hate us and want us dead (Andrea Dworkin, Valerie Salanis et al.).
It is his choice but why not? Humans are social animals that need company. It is unhealthy to be alone for a long time. The equivalent of successful men are young beautiful women in the society's eye. This is my impression. If you think that young beautiful women should date, then you have your answere
A real girl won’t care if a guy works at Best Buy or the bank. A girl won’t say eww you’re doing your grad studies for a PhD at 35 what’s wrong with you. If women or girls act like that, any guy should move on then and find a girl who supports him as he will support her. Even if she was a secretary for a small company making $16/hour.
Any successful man is capable of finding friends of his own sex and girlfriends of the opposite sex, who want to be with him without taking advantage of him.
You wouldn't suggest he go without male friends. You can probably accept that a man can figure out which men to keep as friends.
You're only suggesting he doesn't date because you hate women.
It really doesn't matter
If your a guy, successful or not
Your hosed either way
If your very, very successful make tons of money, and work late
Women will cheat on you
But on the flip side, you have a job
And able to pay your bills, and come home on time
Women will cheat on you
Women need to know this
Their past will become their future
If you don't have religious reasons to get married, best not to. Avoid sex if you can while you're at it. That way, the only way they can still hurt you, is to lie. And eventually, that will catch up with them.
He should do what he want's to do. If he wants to date then date, if he doesn't want to than don't
Test her! Make her think you work at burger King. From my experiences, men showcase their money and success. This makes women come. I remember this one guy. At first, he didn't showcase, so I didn't know what kinda money he made. I was giving him all kinds of tips on stuff. It wasn't until he rejected, that I found out about his situation. He then showcased his earnings, to get the girl of his dreams. But, test her first
This is a very subjective topic. Successful dosent mean that the man is good enough to date. If before success, a guy finds a girl who supports him in his endeavours, his success rate will shoot up. But on the other hand if a successful guy finds an immature girl, he will fail eventually before he realizes it. So, I would say it depends from person to person. Hope this was helpful.
Marriage is a mistake for a man period. Sure if you win you got the god life but… it’s50/50 you’ll lose and The cost of success in marriages very high.
Only successful men should date. Men who are unsuccessful need to get their lives together first
@tashjf I'm gorgeous says my successful banker boyfriend 👅
@Tashjf
You make fun of Uptowngirl88 for how she looks but don't have your photo up even though you claim to be handsom. You claiming to be a dentist at 24 is laughable. You did not start college un 18 years of age. A while back you posted a photo of what you claimed was you posing with a car in front of a mansion. You then said it was all your dad's. Keep making up your story.
@Tashjf
You wish you could get someone who was even.001g of the beauty Uptowngirl88 is let alone better looking or as gorgeous.
@MysteriousDarkness Educate yourself. I am from the UK. We graduate from dentistry at 23. 😂. It’s a five year degree that you start at 18. The mansion is my dad’s but I own it in a trust. I own it already to eliminate inheritance taxes because it’s ok huge asset worth many millions. I own my car.
Believe what you want. You can’t see me. I could get way better than her. We also own villas in Spain! Spanish girls make this girl look trash. I wouldn’t look
Twice at her.
I’m an associate dentist for my dad. I’ve also done so many courses like facial aesthetics and a lot on composite bonding. I’ll also be doing my masters in orthodontics soon.
@Tashjf
I knew you were going to say you were from the UK and graduated at 23. Over a year ago you said you were 24.
@Tashjf
Another thing is you come across as very arrogant.
@MysteriousDarkness Maybe I’m 25/24. I don’t like to reveal personal details because it’s easy to track people down.
@Tashjf
Changing your story. If you were a dental surgeon you would be known as one.
@MysteriousDarkness he will never post his pic because he's some delusional broke loser with bad teeth, a pig nose, small penis, low sperm count, can't get a girlfriend and he suffers from erectile dysfunction. He makes up shit for attention. He can't even get a girlfriend that's why he trolled all Friday night🤣
@tashjf sounds like you're describing your mom.🤣
@tashjf aww I hurt your feelins🤣🤣🤡
@Tashjf no ones reading your hurt essay🤣
Depends though. Everyone will have a different opinion.
There could be successful men that could be a playboy.
There could be successful men that
Might want to be independent.
There could be successful men that
Want a successful woman.
There could be successful men that don't want date because many women are too materialistic or unfaithful or untruthful.
There could be successful men that only want successful women.
Or successful men that might want a non-successful woman you see it more and more.
All depends on the persons involved.
@Tyric331988 One can become dentist at the age of 23 in Turkey. It is 5 years of university after high school. 18 plus 5 means 23 years old.
You look like a crack head that is suffering from fetal alcohol syndrome. And look at your replies, are you really almost 30? I guess you one of those chicks that peaked in High School. We both know you been in a mental decline for the past decade or so.
@SneakiBreeki Did you say this to me? I am 31 years old, which means almost 30.
@Tyric331988 You forgot successful men that are successful because they call themselves women, like that swimmer.
Note that that's completely different from trans women. Quite demonstrably on the successful part.
No they should marry the one who was there with him from the beginning. Those men tend to become legendary.
Sometimes you happen to fall for a successful person or sometimes in my case you watch the person you fell for become successful and I think there's something really special in that.
Who’s to tell them they should or shouldn’t date? Some women care more about personality over money and assets. You just gotta find those women.
Lol if you were broke and decided that you liked someone and wanted to take someone out on a date but had no money, then you'd be bitching about dating when you have money. You'd be complaining about dating should only be for those who have some money. So do yourself a favor and stop worrying about other successful men AND women. This isn't isn't a two way street.
don't care about that, I'm working on my own career to make money for myself so igaf how successful a guy is as long as he can maintain a stable enough lifestyle that he's pleased with
@Tashjf keep lying to yourself
@Tashjf lol right… quit lying to yourself hun
He would have to be creative in finding his match. Unless he let his money effect him. That would make it harder.
A person should date based off only one thing. Whether they find themselves ready or not. If the person thinks they are ready then they can date, if not they can wait.
Success shouldn't be a measure of whether one can date or not.
Most guys like pussy. No date = no pussy. Duh.
And most successful guys want to have a mate, a partner, a lover, a wife. Some don't. I don't think it has to do with their level of financial success. Some guys love to have a bitch, some done'.
Most very successful men date and have many options including those who are only into him for money. Just have to be smart and best way to do that is go for someone in a similar league when it comes to success not just looks
They certainly can get more out of it than the *unsuccessful* can. In fact, the unsuccessful should just not bother.
@OpinionOwner Yup. My sentiments exactly. The world is diverse and you can meet all kinds but you can also choose who you want to associate with.
It would be kind of a kick in the ass if you went through all the trouble to work hard to become financially successful and you have to be celibate because you cannot trust anyone.
Why not? Just date another successful women then the both of you can be successful together
Yup. If you’re too worried about being taken advantage of, find someone else with the same fears. Besides, you’d have lots in common and like you said, be successful together.
Career focused women are not fun
Everyone has their personal preference! Lucky for us career girls, there are plenty of men who disagree with you.
@Medicalbug no there’s not there’s barely enough and by the way career focused men are way more likely to be disloyal as soon as something better comes it’s adios
Again, your experiences aren’t mine. I am sorry you live in such an unhappy world everyone seems to be negative. My environment is quite pleasant and full of mature men and women who don’t all act the same way. It’s seems your experiences are making you quite bitter.
@Medicalbug lmao okay Sooner
@Medicalbug @tsaubreykate I agree there are some career focused women (and men) who are “no fun” bc they focus too much on their careers but at the same time there are plenty others who are able to balance between maintaining a relationship and still be career driven, those one are also not just going to settle for just about anyone bc they have their priorities and won’t waste their time on random people who won’t appreciate them
Yes absolutely! Some people are obsessed with their careers and can’t balance work and play. Maybe @TsAubreyKate has only met such people. Cheaters also exist in all walks of life. It’s unfortunately he has only encountered these extremes.
@Medicalbug I didn’t say they didn’t exist stop pretending they’re in abundance because you’re only speaking of a very very small number of men
Again. In your world. In fact, your world seems to be full of very negative people and you might want to get out and experience life in other circles. Your bitterness is leading to premature generalizations that could potentially lower your chances at being happy. Being this jaded at 22 is kind of sad. Well unless you’re a troll.
@Medicalbug same world unless your an alien or a troll women seem to believe that they’re more interesting than they actually are you’re the one who should experience life in other circles what you’re saying is based completely on assumptions whereas what I’m saying is based on facts and statistics
@Medicalbug yeah it’s kinda sad. I have a lot of girl friends who are career focused but they still know when to party and have fun. I also know a couple friends who ended up getting cheated on bc apparently they’re workaholics and forgot they had boyfriends lol. There’s definitely an abundance on both spectrums, you just gotta mingle with the right ones
Keep telling yourself that Sooner
@TsAubreyKate I don’t see any studies saying “career women aren’t any fun” lolololol. Stop being so silly. Studies on wealthy PEOPLE who cheat also show a variety of contributing factors to their behavior, such as genetics, travel and time away from their partner. It’s also not a universal “fact” and depending on who you associate with, you may never encounter it at all. I somehow doubt you frequent highly wealthy circles full of nothing but serial cheaters so let be real here. There is a difference between “more likely” and most.
Again. It’s sad your young life is so troubled and full of hate. Do you even like people? I wonder.
@Medicalbug well most women in general aren’t fun or interesting so if you factor in the fact that she’s career focused it’s putting a hat on a hat I’m sorry if that bothers you that’s why guys need guy time
Hmm. Interesting. If you don’t like women, are you asexual? Or are you gay?
@Medicalbug nope just use’em for sex plain n simple
So you don’t see yourself as ever wanting a relationship? Also use is a strong word. Do you only have sex with women that you actually use or is it a consensual hookup where both only want sex?
@Medicalbug the sex is always consensual but I usually let her think whatever she wants I fuck her then leave she texts the next day I say who dis and block her and on to the next
I have to ask - did something happen to you, like were you treated badly by a woman in the past and now feel like you enjoy punishing them?
@Medicalbug I’ve personally never dated a woman but have seen and heard from many men and women from all walks of life about women and i ultimately came to the conclusion that sex is the only reason I’ll ever need to interact with a woman
Ultimately it is your decision whether or not you want a relationship, regardless of how or where you draw your information. I might do things differently, but it is your life. How you have consensual sex is also your business. As long as you aren’t leading women on, it’s not your fault if they assume that you’d want to talk to them the next day. Nevertheless - You are a bit brusque for my tastes - it is not hard to clarify boundaries before the majority of sexual encounters, as opposed to being really mean the next day. No, you don’t own them anything, but it’s just a courtesy, a little touch of kindness. Your way of dealing with them makes me wonder if you enjoy ruining their day. Or are you afraid they won’t sleep with you if the possibility of a relationship doesn’t exist?
@Medicalbug like I said they think or believe what they want but lying is sometimes necessary because the ends justify the means it’s a small price to pay to have someone out of your life forever just let me use your body
Hmm. So you think it is okay to lie to someone in order to establish an agreement for the exchange of services? In this case sex?
@Medicalbug yes who is it hurting exactly?
Well, that’s kind of clear, don’t you think? If we agreed I give you a golden statue in exchange for payment, wouldn’t you be upset if I gave you a statue painted in gold color? Most people would take me to court. Now there are no laws when it comes to obtaining sexual favors, but the morality is similar. If you made someone believe you genuinely liked them, do you honestly believe they would not feel very hurt? I would even say that such behavior could lead to jaded and distorted views in future encounters. Imagine if you changed your mind and wanted a relationship and the girl did this to you. Just try to put yourself in that position, it sometimes helps with understanding. Question: do you ever enjoy hurting a girl in this way?
@Medicalbug she has no reason to be hurt golden statue is a golden statue
Okay. Lol. I think we’ve reached the end of this speculative rope. If you can’t see how the gold statue means something else for each party, I can only hope you aren’t like this outside of your sex life as well.
Anyway, it was nice talking to you. I hope you’ll always live in a world of endless commitment free sex and never develop the desire for a relationship. It’s been fun.
@Medicalbug it’s very fun actually
Then I am happy for you and wish you all the best. Take care.
@Medicalbug that means nothing to me coming
You’re such a ray of sunshine. Lol.
@Medicalbug except I don’t cause actinic keratosis
Good to hear - that saves us a lot of money on sunscreen!
@Medicalbug you’ll need that money for your cancer treatments
Well I am very pale! Lol.
@Medicalbug Dont care
Nope, not at all. And yet you are here. 🤣
So, succesful men need to date with succesful women. They can talk about their successes, works, lifestyles. If they are in the same page everything will be easier.
Hell nah most successful men are masculine, most successful women are also masculine. They don’t mix well and get divorce. Succesful men should find a nice young gal instead.
@Assessino13 i do not think so. Why if someone is succesful men feel butthurt? When there is a mutual topics to talk about they will feel more comfortable to be with each other. Being ‘’succesful’’ does not mean being ‘’masculine’’.
No, a very successful guy should stay with pickups and occasional sex. To stay successful, he probably doesn't have time for a relationship anyway.
Well whether they date or not is not up to any of us. Its up to the individual of course
Guys shouldn't date, marry, or have kids until they have their shit together. Nothing's stopping you, but I'll say this- it'll make it a TON easier.
Be cautious, but also date. Choose carefully. But this is true about everyone.
Yes they should date, and only date. No moving in, no marriage. Or marry with a prenup if he gotta.
Being successful doesn't mean you should not date but if you do decide to get married get a prenub in a state that actually follows prenubs and get a fee lawyers to throughly look through all prenub laws to make sure yours is 100% loophole proof.
My guy didn't tell me what he did for months because of this reason. They should just be very careful
They don't have time for this maybe when they retire😝
Men and women should date only when they feel they are ready for a relationship, not when society norms pressure them.
There is no 'should' they can date if they want to.
I have voted B but i have done the Option A so thing is when you become successful it takes time so start dating because teenage is beautiful don't waste it
My advice if you want sex just have sex with girls you find attractive. Now dating for relationships don’t date a college educated career women, it will most certainly lead to misery and divorce.
He should date her and restrain himself so she learns his character and doesn't measure his wealth
If you compare dating life when you're average compared to accomplished, it's night and day. This should raise some red flags.
Look most females say yes they should date because most females can only see value in guys if they can be used as an ATM.
Shame to women who like financial stability!!
(This is sarcastic ifu doesn't catch that)
Lmaoo typo
@TheLittleInnocent thank you for letting me know that was sarcasm.
Yes of course ✨
High earner guys need to look average for both men and women. Everybody wants a slice or would treat you differently.
That's why i keep a low profile, i bet it's even worse for very rich guys.
everyone should be cautious when dating anyone regardless of what they do for a living and how much money they may have. we can all be lied to and used and treated badly by anyone that we meet.
You can only be used for your money if you let a girl use you for your money. I've had gold diggers come at me and I just say "no, I won't buy that for you". No big deal.
With the way I am I wouldn't flaunt my money. People wouldn't know I'm rich until they were close to me. I don't care for expensive stuff.
Successful men should be wary about dating because a failed relationship would be a psychological nightmare.
No, if it’s just dating but if your getting serious about a person yes you should have a plan and money to get involved like buying a house and start a family or Terri f married.
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