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Please note we live in different countries.

She 'likes' me first on this dating/make friends app and i 'like' her back. I initiate contact. Quick replies, a lot of 'lol' 'hahaha' and emojis. A bit of playful flirting/compliments from me which she laughs at. I tell her i never visited her country and ask her where does she recommend. She says her own city because she is there. Just a very smooth conversation overall.

She then ask for my instagram and i give it.
She ask me to send her a voice message so i do and we continued on for a bit before I decided to end the conversation early as i had something to do.

Next day, i reach out again and things don't seem as smooth and she seems less responsive. Less questions asked and slower replies. However, each message is still quite long and detailed and she ask me to send a recent photo of myself.

Next day, similar. Some flirting on my side, she laughs and sends emojis back. I ask her to send me a photo and she sends me several. Her messages are still quite long and detailed and we cover some more meaningful topics where she shares more about the difficulties in her life (she's lonely, bored etc).

So what im struggling with is whether she sees us as something possible or just friends. On one hand, she seems interested with long messages, photos and opening up her difficulties. On the other hand, she replies slow and leaves messages unread. Is she playing hard to get and doesn't want to seem desperate?

So is this worth pursuing or not? If so, what should i do next, voice call, video call? I know texting only won't work long term. I dont think i have it in me to invest my heart into it only to be disappointed in the end.

Extra notes.
- Conversations can end abruptly as it gets late. She leaves msgs unread but i see her online. She replies in the morning but i also reply hours later as im asleep.
- Her voice sounds higher pitched in her voice msgs to me compared to her voice in her posts.

Ok, so get this.
This one girl I was sort of dating got really angry at me and literally broke it off because of a joke. And no I am not exaggerating.
How I apparently offended her was a game we were playing together, she asked me to wear a flower hat. I wore it then jokingly said "aren't flowers sort of girly?" then I struck a pose with it. Somehow that got her vexed and she said I was a sexist perverted moron who objectified women.
At first I actually thought it was a joke, laughed and wore the flower anyway then she stormed off leaving me so confused. Next thing I know basically EVERYONE is calling me sexist and things like that.
I confront her and ask her what it's about, she explains and I say "Ok, that was clearly a joke" she then goes "I don't joke with Sexuality" then I say "So whenever you say my dick is tiny and can never satisfy you, that's alright but I can't make a simple joke?", she then says"we're done." I would've asked any of my female friends if they would've taken the joke in a bad light like she did but thanks to her exaggerations, I didn't have much of them left.

So am I really in the wrong? Because I've been so confused in this past month lol.