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Search Results: how to get my confidence up
Tony's Advice on Manhood
Tony's Advice on Manhood Introduction... I'm 26 years old, and I've had a lot of life experience. I've spent my life in the military, academia, the engineering world, and law enforcement. I've battled my health when I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why are hospitality environments so catty?
I got negative 'feedback' from a manager for not competing against my trainer for attention from guests. He said pushing in front of her would show confidence. "Don't let her take over" we have "high standards"....
Jaysonava
Explorer Age: 33 My crush likes me too, but won't make a move. What do I do?
We text each other everyday. I've complimented him many times, and he often compliments me right back. In class he gives me knowing looks and smiles when we make eye contact. Recently he gave me a ride home, and when my...
Anonymous
(18-24) How To Get Girls If You Aren't Attractive
Even guys who are shouldn't just rely on their looks, but this Take is oriented toward the guys who women generally don't find all that attractive. Never fear- all is not lost. There are some things you can do to improve...
How do I get the cute guy at the bus stop to notice me?
I’m 23 and I don’t have a boyfriend and I never have! Im trying so hard to meet someone but it never works out for me, I feel desperately lonely now and like life is not worth living. I hate my job it’s so boring and my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think my friend is dating my creepy cousin out of her insecurities?
Me and my friend were best friends since we were 4 to 10 years old after that we went different high schools but remind good friends just not as close as we used to be because life got in the way. My friend was born...
Alice2398
Guru Age: 28 Someone please read my story and tell me if you think this guy is bluffing?
6 years ago, I met this guy in a tinychat room. This room was packed with people and I was on cam. So this guy comes in and he started courting me outta no where. We got to know eachother a lot, then everyone told him to...
Anonymous
(30-35) My boyfriend still wants to stay in touch with his rebound? Wtf?
So I’m a 21 F and I live in the states and my boyfriend is a 25 M who lives in the UK. He came to visit me this summer and we got into a string of fights, our relationship went downhill and we broke up. We went our...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you think that I have been through a lot?
I am thinking about getting councelling. I'm not looking for sympathy but do you think I've been through a lot. This is a serious question... So growing up I was always bullied so when I got to 14 u totally changed my...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is there something wrong with the way I look?
so I’ve struggled with my confidence for a while but I’m getting to a good place. In hs I didn’t feel confident, But senior yr I got called pretty a lot but I think I’ve gotten prettier since I graduated. In July I met...
Anonymous
(18-24) I don't feel good enough whenever the woman I like seems to like me back, but then says no, what did I do?
Quick context. Just recently within the last year I got involved with two different women, not the same time, but both of then looks wise and personality wise is something I never would have though possible years ago. It...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does he do this? Is he insecure?
Me and this guy have tried several times to be together. We start off great. Going on dates, he’s constantly complimenting me and saying how lucky he is. He does however say these really jealous and paranoid comments. I...
Anonymous
(30-35) I’m 15 and I’ve never dated or kissed a guy while everyone else around me is in a relationship. Is there something wrong with me?
I’m a 15 year old female long, reddish brown hair and hazel eyes. I have a slightly thicker body type and decent curves for my age. I’d say I’m overall decent, as in I’m not ugly but I’m not gorgeous. I’ve struggled with...
Anonymous
(18-24) Have I been through a lot?
I am thinking about getting councelling. I'm not looking for sympathy but do you think I've been through a lot. This is a serious question... So growing up I was always bullied so when I got to 14 u totally changed my...
Anonymous
(25-29) If only you weren't fat, you could live forever!
I know no one actually thinks this, but it sure seems like they do sometimes. Of course, fat shamers, health trolls, armchair physicians, and wannabe economists emphasize that their concern is rooted in health, quality...
alelectro
Xper 5 Age: 32 How body proportions, strength and other factors determine the outcome of a fight
Whenever people discuss fighting between two different people, there’s always the one topic that causes so much debate and that is how much do body proportions(height, weight, build) and other factors determine the...
Are you okay with he person you're seeing still be on dating sites just for "confidence boost"?
I've been seeing this guy for 3 months now and he's still on tinder. I brought it up with him saying I'm not happy with that. He says he says he has really little selfworth and being on tinder is just a confidence boost...
beaniebean7
Xper 3 Age: 32 The Teasing NEVER Seems to End?
I've been seriously dating this guy for like a months now. One of the first things I noticed from him was his sense of humor. I knew he was interested in me because he went out of his way to tease or get a reaction out of...
GrayLassen
Xper 3 Age: 29 Girls, what really good advice do you have for this so I can feel better?
I honestly feel like no girl is ever gonna be with me since i'm the worst when it comes to relationships. Any girl won't be lucky to have me because I'm not worth it and I deserve to be alone. I don't feel like any girl...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why most dating advice for men is bullshit - pt. 2
Seeing how my last take garnered a lot of attention and stirred some controversy as expected I decided to make another one, maybe even turn this into a short series because there's trully a lot of bullshit left to unpack....
Optymistyk
Xper 6 Age: 29 